2007-02-05 20:57:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HEY NOT ALL GUYS ARE LIARS AND CHEATERS. Just the dumb ones. Believe it or not, there are still some good guys left in the world. After what I went through with my ex, I HATED men, and I still don't trust men I don't know. But I've recovered well because of my boyfriend now. He's like my best friend too. He protects me, but doesn't understimate me. Loves me, treats me with respect, and pampers me. He loves to cuddle and hug. He worries for my safety, and loves it when I smile. I'm finally getting to see what it's like to be treated fairly by a guy.
So all you ladies that just said all men are cheaters. I've been cheated, REALLY cheated, the guy even took my money. But look at me now. You gotta jump in the water and let your body adjust ladies. If you get out now you'll be more cold than if you just keep on swimming okay? Any guy like that isn't worth bruding over. Do whatever you can to move on. TRUST ME ON THIS.....xD moving on...
There are tell tale signs. My ex cheated on my with at least 4 different girls, on of which was my best friend. WAS. He didn't hide it very well though. He lied all the time.
Signs include:
apathy
making plans then just "disappearing" and not answering his phone.
avoidance.
Stories that don't add up?
Is he always broke?
Does he NEVER wanna go out
does he act suspicious of you?
does he ask YOU if YOU'RE cheating?
does he act like he doesn't care, then turn around and act sweet everyonce in awhile?
and last but not least
I learned mine was cheating because he had a blog called Shacknews. He ADMITTED it and bragged about it. He had dates where he mentioned sleeping with an ex, when I was still his "girl"
Does your guy have a blog?
Try googling him under his screen names, full name, and any aliases.
That's how I found out about mine. Those were his signs.
Also visit Don'tDateHimGirl.com or type in "don't date him" in a search, you'll find a couple sites that list common cheaters.
My ex is on there now. It's pretty resourceful
2007-02-05 21:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... There are quite a few things...
You just have to take note of the little things he does or doesn't do...
For eg:
If he's supposedly "working late" often and not spending much time with you = cheating!
If he's not as affectionate with you like he was before = cheating!
If he keeps making excuses to make love = cheating!
If he keeps making excuses to get out of a night out with you =cheating!
If he gets calls in the middle of the night and hides it from you = cheating!
If he sneaks off in the middle of the night = cheating!
If he fights with you often for no reason and it gets worse and worse = cheating!
The list is endless! I could go on and on and on and on...
2007-02-05 21:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by *Flutter* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until u catch your partner red-handed u should not assume your partner is cheating. Still there may be a valid reason for being naked in bed with another girl.
Many relationships have broken only due to suspicion, without real cheating. Suspicion is a dirty word, that makes your partner's life miserable, worse than death.
2007-02-05 21:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he gets cold... he's not sweet anymore, likes to go out without you, you guys don't communicate that oflten anymore...
Most of the guys cheat, even girls but some guys just do it for pleasure but comes back to the one he/she really loves.
They are like rubber bands, they try to go find other people but will return back to where they came from.
Just show that person that you are worthy.
2007-02-05 21:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by violet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i'm evil so the following it is going....If i stuck them contained in the act i ought to shoot her contained in the knee cap so she ought to stroll international huge with a limp for something else of her existence!( its legal in TX). If i got here upon out....i ought to leave her with not something, if we had youngsters, she ought to not in any respect see them again, and in the journey that they were youthful, i ought to convince them that their mom grow to be lifeless! Yeah ive been cheated on some cases, yet what do you anticipate at the same time as youre contained in the protection rigidity and lengthy previous for all time! lol! heavily, each body has their very personal thanks to address it in preserving with their morals, and what they imagine they ought to do. DO WHAT WORKS FOR YOU!
2016-12-03 19:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they either give more or less attention for no aparent reason and when their phone beeps and they are up like a flash light
2007-02-05 21:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they walk around with this "cat that ate the canary" look on their face and you know that you're NOT THE ONE WHO PUT IT THERE!
2007-02-05 21:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we women have "instict"...we know it once we feel it. :-) if our man is cheating on us...
u guys have nothing...sorry but...u r born liers & cheaters! :-P
2007-02-05 21:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by an_angel_in_d_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all guys cheat, those who say they dont are liers. beleive my, if it is put infront of us, we will take it.
2007-02-05 21:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by I'm In Love With Delicious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋