I meet a western guy a month ago. Well i guess i like him! Actually im an Asian girl. Weve been doing doing sex 2 times. I dont know.....and i dont understand, what happen to me! This is not me...he is not my bf nor his not courting me. We both know that we are just freinds. I just wonder why He is calling me on my mobile, asking me that he wants to meet me. What is his purpose? Am i a sex object? Absolutely he only wants sex! Right? But what will i do. MY mind tells me not to see him but my heart tells me, Common .come and enjoy.!How to let go with this feeling? Actually he is poisoning my mind. His always telling me to enjoy life. But i cant, i raise up wit my parents in an very asian way of discipline. Im ust wondering why..... Can you imagine were spending christmas together on the bed.... Do u think he likes me or should i be martyr enough to wait until he will asked me to be his gf or just let things happen until he will wake up one day realizing that he likes me. Please help.
2007-02-05 21:03:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why why why
2020-07-27 01:35:40 · update #1
What my advice to you is to sit down with him one day and ask him where you guys are in this whole situation. He's running back to you for sex and nothing more. If you want to be his gf just tell him and see what he says. You have to banish those dirty thoughts of yours and focus on getting all your questions answered. But on the other hand, if he's not ready for a relationship then stop giving into temptation because you're not respecting your body. Stick to your morals and the asian way of discipline and you'll know how to handle it. :)
2007-02-05 21:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by HazelBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the loser. Don't let him use you like that. The same thing has happened to me before. They're just using you as a sex object. Don't be a part of that, you're better than that.
2007-02-05 21:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go for wat u want..i dont believe he's poisoning ur mind as u say..u know wat u do and do not want..u did sleep with him..if he doesnt want to go any further..then thats his decision..if ur worried about that..maybe u shouldnt have slept with him right away. if he doesnt want a relationship..there will be other guys. if u want to pursue something with him its up to u.
2007-02-05 21:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by cj872006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋