2007-02-05 20:39:11 · 24 answers · asked by x_RiNkU_x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because perfect doesn't exist. So you'll never find him. we all have our flaws. Find the right guy for you not the perfect guy.
2007-02-05 20:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Shai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, There is no such thing as the perfect guy. It's because guys are oblivious. They do a lot of the things that drive us crazy (and vice versa). Here's the deal: They have no idea that they are not on the same page as we are. When we explain things to them from our point of view, they are surprised that we are even upset.
I always joke with my friends saying that the Y chromosome is a genetic birth defect, so they can't help themselves.
If you find a guy who is sweet, kind and cares about your happiness, even if they're rough around the edges, snap 'em up. If he's got a good heart, the two of you will be able to have a great relationship.
There's a book called Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. It's great for understanding the opposite sex. It gives great insight into how and why we think and act so differently. I checked, Barnes and Noble or Amazon have it. It's been out for awhile so I was able to buy one in a used book store for quite a low price. It's an enjoyable read.
You'll find someone. You just haven't found the right one. That's why they've seemed imperfect so far..
2007-02-05 21:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
This can only be, because we are, none of us, perfect.
If you seek perfection, begin with your own mirror in you own bedroom, and start from right there, in your face, do you have facial hair and imperfections, Oh don't be alarmed I am not being rude or impolite, you can only be as others see you, and we as fellers can only be what you see in us, so what to do, well can I suggest you treat us fellers like a brand new garden, it is only going to flourish with what you are prepared to grow in it, thus seeking the perfection you are looking for, we can be a whole garden made up to look like a large bouquet, or just a common or garden vegetable, which is to say, you may only glean from a relationship, what you are prepared to put into it, and this my darling, is why it is so hard to find the perfect guy, so work at it a bit harder, it has to pay off in the long run, I hope it isn't too long before you find the perfection you seek. So good luck. X Tony M
2007-02-05 21:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by tony m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because nobody is perfect, when you keep running into the same type of people, as I tend to do, then it makes you wanna quit the whole relationship thing, but hey in time you'll get lucky, you never know what a boyfriend, or girlfriend is gonna be about ... It can go good, or bad, the sad part is, after awhile it can be more bad than good !
2007-02-05 20:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry RiNku, he doesn't exist. Mr Darcy who is the epitome of the perfect man is the invention of a woman searching just like you and ,in fact, thousands of others for something that exists only in fairy tales. My husband is a lovely lovely man but he is far from perfect. What is right for one person is wrong for another, you will find that you like certain aspects of one mans character but not others. They say that there is someone out there for everyone, so don't give up, try to make new friends and widen your horizons.
2007-02-05 20:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by ☞H.Potter☜ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there such a thing. Everyone has their little faults. I don't admit to being perfect. But a gentleman, definitely. Trustworthy and dependable, yes. So getting towards perfect but not totally. No one is. As for the other side of the coin. There's no perfect woman either. So it seems we are both banging our head against a wall.
2007-02-05 20:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your Perfect Guy is known only to Your Perfect Heart. it's gonna tell you when he's around you. All you have to do is listen. That thump,thump, thimp. Will be playing his song. And his will be doing the same. Just wait. Don't react, until it does. You'll just be wasting your Beautiful time, if you do. Have Peace. Be sure to "Pay It Forward".
2007-02-05 20:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the perfect guy or perfect girl doesnt exist! We all have our little annoying habbits and the odd "idiot" moment. The thing is, when you finally fall in love with someone, you learn to live with their down sides, we all have them..... for example, my mrs. is a clean freak, it does my head in and we arue about if from time to time - but i love her and its hardly criminal. And, although I am almost perfect (lol) I know fine well I have my downsides too. You'll get there ;)
2007-02-05 20:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by gixerbry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps because there is no such thing - we all have our faults! Maybe I'm an old cynic, but I think you can only hope for a 'best of the bunch' kind of guy. He'll have to put up with your faults too, though! Good luck!
2007-02-05 20:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by mad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are looking for the perfect guy... he doesn't exist. Quit looking for love, enjoy your life and be happy, love will find you.
2007-02-05 20:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋