Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

I have been with my child's father for about 10 yrs, we broke up in 2004, our daughter is 15 mths, and we are just gettin reaquainted. He wants me to move in with him, however his ex-girlfriend is claiming that she is pregnant by him and is keeping the baby. He does not want anything to with her or the child. I am terribly hurt amongst all the other things we have been through. Should I try and stick this out or walk away? Please help.....dazed & confused...

2007-02-02 10:32:48 · 16 answers · asked by mslittlequeenb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it don't work, what can i do to fix it?

2007-02-02 10:32:09 · 11 answers · asked by glitsyjewels 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 14 year old and I'm 5'4. I have longer than shoulder length brown hair and dark brown eyes. What do you think? If you actually need to see for yourself, look at my 360.

2007-02-02 10:32:08 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is 15 and has never had a boyfriend. i think she is pretty and dateable, but i am convinced if she hasnt been with anybody yet there must be something wrong with her. i tease her somethimes and she says if i had her circumstances i wouldnt have had a boyfriend either. what do you guys think?

2007-02-02 10:31:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here it goes , I broke up with my x like 2 years ago for the simple fact of her having her attitude that she gonna due what she want even if it has to do with not repecting me. She never felt like she was wrong for anything almost. But the truth to the matter is we had our ups and downs, but when we had our ups Our souls connected and she became my best freind for a 1yr 1/2. But she eventually wonder off following behind her friends and countiuned on her spree of hanging with basically the wrong crowd, what I consist of the type of wrong crowd is a negative crowd, and life behind bars crowd. So eventually we broke up because of it, for like a month. In the month time span I met someone who I fell for and she was in the moment of a break up to.But eventually me and this someone went our seprate ways back with or mates after this month. We kept in conact but keep it descrete.My x kept at her ways so much that one of her so call friends bought her a luxury truck.So eventually we seperated

2007-02-02 10:31:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my girl just started a family im 18 years old and she is 17 i love her and my 3 month old son to deth but her mom always has somethin negative to say about me even if i do it right im always wit my son and get him what ever it is he needs i have a job and a car workin on gettin a apartment how do i talk to her mom but not explod in her face and say somethin really mean im not tryin to hurt her feelings or my girl and how do i get her to understand im not goin anywhere so she can stop bein childish

2007-02-02 10:31:32 · 2 answers · asked by L.A. 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm just getting back into dating,i say men want smaller women,my friends say not all.well i haven't met one unless they're still living with momma and wanting out and can't find any one else.i talked to two guys thought we were hitting it off and they wanted to know how much i weighed.i told them ,which i wouldn't lie(under 200)and they both stopped talking to me.all men that shallow or just those two..i would like to know if there are any handsome white men who like their women with meat on their bones .

2007-02-02 10:31:28 · 12 answers · asked by queen l 1 in Singles & Dating

not for one instant...;0)

2007-02-02 10:31:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alrighty, i'll get to the point. In U.S history we had this fake COLUMBUS trial, wiether if he discovered America or not, and if he was a horrible person. I, as a witness(I didn't choose) recieved a character profile thing yesterday with the information i'm suppose to remember and 'be into character.'

but I hate going infront of people. So as I went up there, I forgot everything. I felt so dumb...but that's besides the point...when my guy friend asked me a bunch of questions,(he was an attorney on my side against Columbus) I answered so badly, so wrong....he gave me the most dissapointed look I have ever saw. I felt my throat begin to dry up as I just couldn't believe how much I dissapointed him like that. I went back to my seat, upset, I felt tears flowing my eyes, no I didn't cry. but that image of his dissapointment just began to haunt me. I know people thought I was a sensitive fill in the blank idiotic girl. But...I think my friend is right, i'm slowly falling in love with him

2007-02-02 10:31:19 · 4 answers · asked by SweetCocoaAngel 1 in Singles & Dating

Up until today I was going to have my fiance and I see each other for the first time on our wedding day before the ceremony so we can pictures out of the way since we are getting married and having the reception at the same place. Now that we are in the final stretch (3 weeks to go), I really want to see the look on his face when he sees me for the first time in my dress when Im walking down the isle. The only problem is that if we did that, we would have to take pictures in the same room as our quests because there isnt another place for us to do the pictures. If we did the pictures before hand, after the ceremony my fiance and I would have a few minutes together then get introduced by the DJ and get the party started.. if we do them after the ceremony there will be a lot of down time for our quests. Im really stressing about this so if anyone has suggestions, I would greatly appreciate it.

2007-02-02 10:30:38 · 7 answers · asked by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 in Weddings

2007-02-02 10:30:18 · 19 answers · asked by alort40 1 in Marriage & Divorce

by more then a year i mean

2007-02-02 10:29:21 · 11 answers · asked by XcharX 3 in Singles & Dating

I feel nobody will ever be my friend because I barely moved here and I feel kind of shy what will I ever do

2007-02-02 10:28:47 · 11 answers · asked by tuti l 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a long distance relationship with a man for 3 years. We get along great and have so much fun. He tells me he loves me and has introduced me to his children and we spend Holidays together. However, we only see each other for 3 or 4 days a month when we visit each other and neither will ever relocate. I found out through the grapevine that he has been cheating on me with another woman who lives in a different state from him and he has flown her out to see him twice and they are talking on the phone daily. Apparently they intend to keep seeing each other but he has not mentioned it to me. I think he is trying to figure out if he loves me enough to commit and is with this woman while he searches his feelings and will eventually dump her and return exclusively to me since we have a history. I really love him. Am I a fool? Would this be something normal for a man to do while deciding whether to go forward with a real commitment? Could he really love me?

2007-02-02 10:27:53 · 6 answers · asked by LDR02 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 10:27:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

put name up told 'not sensible' use Friends reunited, been there!!

Phi All, part of name for those anally retentive types!

2007-02-02 10:27:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

the thing is i am totaly happy with who i am. but i would like to get a view from someone outside of me.

i am interested in quantum theory, philosophy, metaphysics, i am very spiritual but VERY far from religeous. i am compassionate, i have a deep respect for women (being raised around strong ones), deep thinker,excersize, have a good paying job, caring for my loved ones, i am generaly friendly, and i can usualy read people like a book.

however, i also like to party, have fun with friends, drink, take the occasional painkillers, every once in a great while i'll do some cocaine, smoke pot occasionaly, and i take some downers sometimes too. i never drive while intoxicated and dont do the drugs long enough or frequently enough to get addicted. i do go out on one night stands and i let the person know that it isnt anything more than that. and i always use protection.

2007-02-02 10:27:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 16 years old and have never had a girlfriend. I have really had any female friends and don't know any girls.This is mainly due to the fact that i go to a boys school. I am far from unpoular and get along with everybody but girls just never seem to notice me. I often try to catch the eye of a girl that gets on my bus but she never seems to notice me. I am really insecure about my appearance as i have quite a large nose. So am nervous about talking to girls. It has got so bad that i am beginning to become depressed and feel like their is something wrong with me. Please give me some advice as i don't know what to do. Do girls like it when you smile at them in the street or do they think it is weird? What can i do to attract girls before i speak to them. Thanks In Advance.

2007-02-02 10:26:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like girls at ages 12-15? But isn't it more of a body thing for them, at that age? Or popularity? Or do they actually LIKE them?

2007-02-02 10:25:18 · 22 answers · asked by ænima 4 in Singles & Dating

Please help. I've been with my girlfriend for sometime now (approximately 9 months). We are in love. In fact, the other day, she finally told me that she loves me, but I guess I just don't understand how she can love me. I am such a BORING person. I never have much to talk about, and I find that she is always initiating the conversation. I love both her and her 4 year old daughter with all my heart. I do everything with them. We go places together, we watch movies together, and we are going to Hawaii in September 08. I've asked her if she is happy, and she says "yes," but I feel like I'm going to lose her due to my dull nature. I try to talk about things, but I get tongue tied easily. My skills lie elsewhere. I just want to be able to have an open, loving relationship with her. On top of my introverted nature, I had a bad childhood where communication was not stressed. I hate being nervous around her because I love her so much. Does anyone have suggestions? Thank you!

2007-02-02 10:24:42 · 10 answers · asked by Just 1 Good Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Who are you pulling for in the Superbowl, and why?

2007-02-02 10:24:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you husband or wife declined to be "intimate" with you, would you consider it an act of infidelity?

No medical problems. No emotional problems. No relationship problems.

But, s/he simply doesn't find it to be important. Maybe once every two 6-8 weeks.

Over the years, it slowly declined.

Would you conside that infidelity (unfaithfulness) to your marriage vows?

2007-02-02 10:24:27 · 57 answers · asked by Jay 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true twister(the game) is just a reason to grope members of the opposite se.x?? Is that why guys love to play??

2007-02-02 10:24:10 · 9 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend lives in Wisconsin. Is it smart to have a long distance relationship? Or should I let him go? I mean, we can call eachother and email or whatever, and we visit eachother about between 2 and 4 times a year, should we stay together? We REALLY love eachother and he really cares about me. Email me at this email address, Samm_Levi and I will tell you some TOTALLY cute stories about us together, or we can just chat. Thnx to everyone who answers!!

<33 Sammi!

2007-02-02 10:22:44 · 24 answers · asked by Sam L 1 in Singles & Dating

What would it take for you to tell them.. would you have the strength?

2007-02-02 10:22:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need good ideas from people that know technology !!!

I just started a Voluntary Organization with a goal to Engineer, Build & Provide Assistance Devices to Seniors that will allow them to stay in their Current Homes for an additional 10 to 20 years.

What are your ideas ?

I bet you have seen older people and have something that you think would help them.

Even if it is ROBOTIC or a fantasy item that can not be made yet... any idea will help move us forward to making them into real items to help older people.

2007-02-02 10:21:28 · 4 answers · asked by CTM 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I do? I don't have a boyfriend, and all the guys I know are just jerks! They make me and my friends so mad and they tease us about everything, plus, all the good guys who are slightly reasonable have girlfriends. I don't want to be alone this year, so what should I do?

2007-02-02 10:20:47 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 10:20:18 · 3 answers · asked by sarah c 2 in Singles & Dating

this is the second time we are hanging together any advice for a 17 year old?

2007-02-02 10:19:52 · 10 answers · asked by themainevent0814 2 in Singles & Dating

My guys friend knows I go running every morning. I was wearing capris and a tanktop to school, b/c I had lax training first thing(which is running) Well it is like -9 degrees outside, and we had a fire drill. He came up to me and put his arms around me, to supposedly keep me warm.
Was it just an excuse to touch me or a genuine reason??

Does it seem he thinks of us as more than friends since I left my b/f??
He normally flirts, but I just ignored it while I had a b/f
i am not mad, just confused.

2007-02-02 10:19:51 · 4 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating