me and my girl just started a family im 18 years old and she is 17 i love her and my 3 month old son to deth but her mom always has somethin negative to say about me even if i do it right im always wit my son and get him what ever it is he needs i have a job and a car workin on gettin a apartment how do i talk to her mom but not explod in her face and say somethin really mean im not tryin to hurt her feelings or my girl and how do i get her to understand im not goin anywhere so she can stop bein childish
2007-02-02 10:31:32 · 2 answers · asked by L.A. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, continue working and taking care of your responsibilities.
The mother might think that your good behavior is temporary.
2nd, sit down with GF and talk to her about the future. What does she want? does she want you in her life? Ask her what she is happy about and what she is not? Tell her you want the whole fam to get along. No, don't explode to her mother. Talk calmly and respectfully. Maybe once you might ask MOM why she doesn't like you. If it is because of the baby, then tell her that you are trying to do the right thing. Ask her to pinpoint what you are doing wrong. Tell her that you are not always going to agree with her but you loveher daughter and your son and you want to be a good father. Speak with humility and from your heart. Tell her that you want for you and her to get along because that would be best for her daughter and her grandchild. No, it might not be a great situation, but you are not going to leave, like some guys do, you are going to stick around and care for her daughter and grand: like a real man should. Then, do it!
2007-02-02 10:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by JAN W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that an early one!!!damb
2007-02-02 18:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋