Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

My friend is a constant liar, and a attention hog but i learned to live with it, that is until she told me that she went to her cousins house got violated by her cousins friend and then raped by that same guy that night. I would usually believe her but like i said, shes an attenion hog--I mean i feel bad for her and all but i'm not sure if its another lie to get attention or not. she wasn't acting different at all and she wasn't sad or different at all. How can i tell if shes telling the truth? I want to believe her but she just sounds like the girl who cried lies. What should I do??

2007-01-23 11:07:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok like if a guy tells u he wahts 2 go slwer do they mean they wanna break up or just like actually slow down?

2007-01-23 11:07:27 · 6 answers · asked by tAkiiN liFe aSz iT cOmEs 3 in Singles & Dating

When should I give them their gifts? We are having a wedding rehearsal a day before the wedding. Should I give the wedding party their gifts then or at the wedding?

2007-01-23 11:06:45 · 21 answers · asked by shydiva218 1 in Weddings

how will i be albe to tell...try giving my answers from ur own life, i need good details..

2007-01-23 11:06:18 · 2 answers · asked by CurioslyPerfect 2 in Friends

i always hit boys becuase they talk about me in a bad way. i want to stop the hitting and kicking. but some boys are now afraid of me. i arent even strong. but i allways hit them. any suggestions on how to stop?

2007-01-23 11:05:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Only three now..

2007-01-23 11:05:16 · 19 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

Can you please help me!! See I have this friend and we just barely got into this stupid fight... and I'm kind of glad. Well see from the start she was cool and fun, but now we never talk and then today we did, and now we got into a fight. Well this week will suck for me because she will pretty much bug me, or threaten me, and so on. I need advice to stop hanging out with her, or how to avoid her by saying something nice though. I didn't really want to be her friend for a while that is why I didn't talk to her. Well anyway. Please help me!! Thank you.

2007-01-23 11:05:14 · 4 answers · asked by Janey 1 in Friends

My first theory was the inability to except love from another if you don't love yourself. To elaborate on that, is this person (that doesn't love themselves), constantly in search of that person who loves them a "certain" way because they don't love themselves therefore, not recognizing the love someone else has for them and thinking that they keep hitting dead ends sort to speak when it comes to love. In actuality they have found people who love them but due to the lack of loving oneself they keep searching for that "certain" love and missing the love that was there all along? I know I'm thinking too hard on all this, but just wondering...

2007-01-23 11:05:11 · 7 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone got any ideas? She doesn't really listen to music except for the radio, she doesn't read books, she already has tons of jewellery. I usually just get vouchers for her, but I want give her a gift this year - she is going to be 53. She loves ornaments but I think she has too many so am not overly keen on that idea. The best suggestion gets 10 points!!

2007-01-23 11:05:10 · 18 answers · asked by Spence 3 in Family

you really love him and you are kind of confused on what to do. he never asked you to but you were just wondering.

2007-01-23 11:04:42 · 7 answers · asked by k.sewell 1 in Singles & Dating

the trash of society?
guys that will eventually hurt them.
what about us nice guys? we're here, loyal, caring, etc.
not dangerous enough? yeah, right. u get punched in the face,
cheated on, treated like crap, but u like that cause he's dangerous? wake up women!

2007-01-23 11:02:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend in my class asked me out. I said yes because we have alot in common and he is really nice. Well that class i have with him is ending soon. And i am afraid he will brake up with me. Well since we dont have any classes together, and he is on a different team. We barely see each other anyway. I am afraid he will brake up with me after a while! We have ohly been together since saturday! I dont want him to brake up with me!

2007-01-23 11:01:43 · 18 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Friends

I moved to the states six months ago and my brother bought a new house after we were staying at an apartment. he also just got married so moving out of the house was not a big deal for me even if my relatives say it was a low blow. after one week of thinking of staying at the house he told me the news and it took me about ten days to find a new place. i also helped him move his stuff from san jose to sacramento then to rancho cordova.

I just want to know if this is normal or if he is a real *ick

2007-01-23 11:01:24 · 16 answers · asked by Drew 1 in Family

If you had to say no to one of your friends how would you say it and still sound and be cool?

2007-01-23 11:01:18 · 9 answers · asked by Dominique J 1 in Singles & Dating

and the lyrics of the song were about that he will prove his love until I'm sure he is the one ( he chose the song )

Could this be a declaration of his love?

We have been dating for almost 3 months and im taking things slow i dont want to rush things

2007-01-23 11:01:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i know this is a lame question and i feel stupid because i cant seem to figure out my own problems....

Ok i am totally head over heels for this guy friend of mine (i'll call him Aaron) and for the longest time i thought he was into me.
But he recently got back with him girlfriend who is absolutly beautiful. so i really cant compete with that and thats not what i want to do anyways.
But what i really want is to get over him...its just hard because i have never felt this strongly for a guy...but i have to get over him because i see him at my college all the time.
So i guess the question is how do i get over this guy?

2007-01-23 11:00:11 · 8 answers · asked by Atllas 3 in Singles & Dating

My hubby had an affair, and its only been 2 1/2 months since i found out. We are trying fix it, but i have my moments, say things when i cant bite my tongue, I'm sure you can imagine the shrewd remarks a woman can come up with in a situation like this. I still cry, I still get angry, etc. my husband has told me i need to let it go if we are going to work this out. I know deep down he's right, but he screwed fher for 5 months and i dont even get that much time to heal. He has told me that if i cant let it go, then he is leaving. I dont obsess about it 24/7, but it crosses my mind and things are said. Besides that, things are going quite well for us in spite of it all. But i think it takes more than 2 months to just let something like this go. Is he fair for demandng I just let it go and threatening to throw in the towel if I cant let it go? I think that when it comes up, it drives his guilt even deeper and he cant stand it. What do you all think? Thanks

2007-01-23 11:00:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One girl in my school was hanging out with a popular crew. And, unfortunately, I was near the bottom of the food chain for "popular" So anyway, that girl that was hanging out with the popular crew, had been "Deleted" from their group. So then she came to us because she had no one to go to. And now I feel her breathing down my neck all the time. I didn't like her in the beginning, and neither did my other friends. People are telling me that she gossiped about me behind my back when she was with the popular crew. I don't know how to say, "I don't want to be your friend" to her. How can I say that without hurting her feelings?

2007-01-23 10:59:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-23 10:59:35 · 5 answers · asked by james_mccoy26 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy he's my best friend he let's me lay on him...i stay the night at his house...nothing goes on...i'm only thriteen and resently he told me that he liked me but i don't know what that meant and my friend wants to ask him out fo rme....what should i do?

2007-01-23 10:59:05 · 4 answers · asked by dexalada 1 in Singles & Dating

In the movie Enough (2002) starring Jennifer Lopez and Billy Campbell, Jennifer goes to a trainer to help her defend herself. What kind of a trainer was that? How can I find myself a good self defense trainer to help me defend myself?!

2007-01-23 10:58:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

in a class a couple weeks ago (evil class) well we had to do these eye to eye things and we had to have parteners and he either had to choose a friend or me and he choose me. and when he's by me he blushes up. and he stares at me and my friends w/ his shiny blue eye's. and he'll talk oto my friends not me and if he dose talk to me he whispers.

2007-01-23 10:58:50 · 4 answers · asked by Kallee n 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 10:58:29 · 11 answers · asked by talofa lava 2 in Singles & Dating

1.The guy that adores me, but I dont love him, I just like him. or 2.The guy that I REALLYRAELLY like and I am pretty sure he likes me back?

2007-01-23 10:58:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 10:58:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if we spent weeks trying to find the perfact gift whats the first thing you think of when you recive it?
do you realise the effort we've gone through to make things if the gift was hand made?
what do you do with the gift after you've taken it home?
do you look at it? do you hold it? etc etc
or does it get put on the shelf and forgot about?

what im saying is
is ther any point us girls serching high and low for a nice gift for you lads if your not to botherd about it the day after?

cos you do realise how hard it is to shop for you dont ya??

2007-01-23 10:57:49 · 15 answers · asked by honiez_of_uk 2 in Singles & Dating

should i get him anything??i m 11...

2007-01-23 10:57:38 · 2 answers · asked by ami 2 in Singles & Dating

i need a ribbon somewhat matching the picture in the link i will provide (white with black beaded edges). the brides bouquet is going to be white roses, white dendrobium, a little bit of stephanotis & black ornamental chili peppers. (basically same bouquet as in the picture but with roses). i need to find a website with ribbon like this or somewhat like this.


http://img408.imageshack.us/img408/5316/meganbouquet4yn.png

2007-01-23 10:56:57 · 5 answers · asked by erin 2 in Weddings

This the breakdown. I love this girl very very very very much and she feel the same way. I cant go a day without thinking about her. But she feels the need to move on because Im not there with her everyday. I mean she really love me and we even go far as crying on the phone. When I get out of school Im going down there to stay in the city. But that is in 4 years, but I cant wait that long to be with my love. She do wanna be with me but, Im not there to give her that extra securtiy. That is my birthplace so I come to see my family maybe 10 times and year and a period of time over the summer. I have been begging her to go with me but she wanna end up cheating on me. I used to be a player but I gave up all of that for her. What should we do?

2007-01-23 10:56:55 · 6 answers · asked by Apostle 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 10:56:47 · 20 answers · asked by Jasmine_ Shante_ P 1 in Marriage & Divorce