Ok i know this is a lame question and i feel stupid because i cant seem to figure out my own problems....
Ok i am totally head over heels for this guy friend of mine (i'll call him Aaron) and for the longest time i thought he was into me.
But he recently got back with him girlfriend who is absolutly beautiful. so i really cant compete with that and thats not what i want to do anyways.
But what i really want is to get over him...its just hard because i have never felt this strongly for a guy...but i have to get over him because i see him at my college all the time.
So i guess the question is how do i get over this guy?
2007-01-23 11:00:11 · 8 answers · asked by Atllas 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also i am not lacking in selfesteem or anything i love me and i am a strong person. <3
2007-01-23 11:06:20 · update #1
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Go read a book or study. Do something to improve yourself and take FULL control of your life. Guys like girls who are confident, have good morals, and life long accomplishments/goals. If you have these things guys will be tripping over themselves for you.
You are still very young. Don’t learn things the hard way by playing stupid games. You'll only end up hurt. Love is a serious thing TAKE IT SERIOUSLEY AND TAKE YOUR TIME!!
2007-01-23 11:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by Ralph 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one way I've found that helps, is to write letters to the person, but don't send them. put a date on them, put them away. next, do something really nice for yourself, something indulgent like a shopping spree, a day at the spa, or anything new you have wanted to do. dating someone else now may be a big mistake-losing someone is a grief process-you need time to do that. after some time has passed, you've talked it through with your best friends, go back and read the letters-I'll bet you won't feel that way anymore. hope this helps
2007-01-23 19:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by shotze01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should be urself, and if he really want to break up with you, then leave him, but u can try and talk to him
talk about the best time you had with him, talk about him,( talk about him more ana more)
how long u were friend?
tnx bye
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take it easy
2007-01-23 19:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
space works great try not to see him if all possible you need time to get thru your feelings and then maybe you can be friends again focus on other things
2007-01-23 19:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by rednsweet4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make sure your always busy, it will help keep your mind off of him, and if u stop thinking about him all the time you'll eventually forget about him
2007-01-23 19:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date someone else stop thinking about them. I had a not too different problem and it worked for me.
2007-01-23 19:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Origami, it will help you in a subliminal way ... it's fun too.
2007-01-23 20:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him
2007-01-23 19:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋