i always hit boys becuase they talk about me in a bad way. i want to stop the hitting and kicking. but some boys are now afraid of me. i arent even strong. but i allways hit them. any suggestions on how to stop?
2007-01-23 11:05:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ignore them and when you hear that they said something bad about you. Just tell yourself that,"Guys are idiots". so you don't get mad and it makes you happy. lol. Good Luck!
2007-01-23 11:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by livvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all, I know this may seem flattering to you but you need to be extremely cautious. This sounds like it is going to get abusive really fast and even if you think you trust him, you don't know what he is capable of. Always carry something with you - i.e. pepper spray, e.c.t and tell someone about him, a friend, family member, co-worker, somebody! Also when thing get out of hand i don't care how embarrassing it is... tell you mother or father. Telling your boss too may get him fired and than he will be away from you. Just take this situation seriously because i know one to many people that have been and are in abusive relationships or that have been raped and i don't want you to be another one.
2016-05-24 02:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can stop by saying is it really worth hitting or kicking a boy? Even though they say hurtful things about you the best you can do is talk to a teacher or even the school consuler.
2007-01-29 11:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by BeachBum_x3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to control your own actions. It isn't their fault that you are hitting them. You are reacting this way and I'm sure your are paying dearly for it by repelling boys away from you. Learn to control your anger. Also, maybe reconsider the people you hang around. If I was around a bunch of people that triggered a hitting reaction to things they said to me, then I would re-evaluate who I hang out with.
2007-01-31 05:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by Logie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to hit boys because they were stupid. Then I took up kick boxing and broke the punching bag. I have anger management issues but I'm fine.
2007-01-30 10:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by JuicyPiink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DON'T YOU JUST IGNORE THEM INSTEAD OF HITTING
THEM. JUST WALK AWAY, THEY WILL LOOK VERY STUPID
TALKING ABOUT YOU, WHEN YOU KEEP YOUR HEAD UP
HIGH. THEY WILL SEE THAT YOU DON'T GIVE A CARE AND
GIVE UP TALKING, CAUSE THEY WILL KNOWTEST THEY ARE WASTING THEIR TIME ON YOU. JUST BE STRONG AND
DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME ON THEM. DO FUN THINGS WITH
YOUR FRIENDS. REMEMBER NAME CALLING DOESN'T HURT, HITTING HURTS. NOW DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND
STAY AWAY FROM THAT CROWD. HANG AROUND SOME
WHERE ELSE. DON'T LOOK THEIR WAY PRETEND, THEY
DON'T EVEN EXIST AND IF THEY START SAYING SOMETHING
AS YOU PASS THEM BY IGNORE THEM. BELIEVE ME THEY
WILL GIVE UP SOONER OR LATER, THEY WILL GET TIRED
OF ACTING STUPID.
2007-01-31 11:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not mingle with boys who re saying bad things about you... wear skirts all the time, so can't kick much.... always go to the parlor to have your nails done, so you'd rather save your nails than hitting those guys..
2007-01-29 17:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by chrstn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start do not take their comments to heart. I would also go and see someone about your anger issues, before you start to look for a relationship.
2007-01-29 20:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by donna c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill them with kindness. It'll drive them crazy.
Get a hold of your emotions and control yourself. Violence doesn't accomplish anything and makes you look like you need to grow up.
Just my thoughts.
2007-01-31 04:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by risa_rific 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them.or,whenever they anything bad abut you,just go to them.give a sweet smile and say"thank you".they'll really surprised to ur change and when they'll see that u r not getting annoyed,they'll stop it automatically.
2007-01-30 23:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by humus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋