the trash of society?
guys that will eventually hurt them.
what about us nice guys? we're here, loyal, caring, etc.
not dangerous enough? yeah, right. u get punched in the face,
cheated on, treated like crap, but u like that cause he's dangerous? wake up women!
2007-01-23 11:02:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All women are not like that, my ex-girlfriend dated me for 3 years and I am a genuine nice guy, who isn't always treated nicely, we broke up mutually and are still friends, but now she has a new boyfriend (who is similar to me), and I have asked out another girl and have a date coming up, so there is hope for nice guys.
2007-01-23 11:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
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Go read a book or study. Do something to improve yourself and build self confidence. Girls like guys who are confident, have good morals, and life long accomplishments/goals. If you have these things girls will be tripping over themselves for you.
You are still very young, AND SO ARE THE GIRLS YOU SPEAK OF, or you would not have this opinion. Don’t learn things the hard way by playing stupid games. You'll only end up hurt. Love is a serious thing TAKE IT SERIOUSLEY AND TAKE YOUR TIME LOOKING!!
The time spent will only make love all that much more worth while when you find it.
2007-01-23 11:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ralph 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In a way, us women like some kind of challenge too. Too nice and easy can be a turn off. Show us you have a life of your own, can handle yourself well (confidence), take care of yourself (good looking), and a good heart and you should have no problem. And not all of us women go for the losers only the ones who think nobody else will love them so they stay.
2007-01-23 11:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think most women set out to just go out with losers. What happens is a guy appears to be nice, caring, etc. until he gets comfortable and then the loser side comes out and by that time they feel trapped into staying with that type because it's what they know. I think the problem is men want to be the "nice guy", but turn out to be the bad guy, when they don't get their way.
2007-01-23 11:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by believe in yourself & the world believes with you 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sounds like u got showed up by some other guy.The first thing women see is a pretty face then personality.Truth is some girl saw a pretty faced boy that liked her and metioned it.If he really is a jerk the girl will know it and dump him. If u like a girl u have to tell her odds r she wants u to make the first move.
2007-01-23 11:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by julianne w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I DONT! im not sure what some girls see in the "bad guys" but theyre all fake. I found a compleete geek...i used to be ashamed but now im so proud...hes fantastic and my evrything...hes not a bad guy and would never hurt me...we met when we were teens, sadly it takes alot of women much longer to realize looks and cars arn't evrything. The nice guy is the one you want to wake up next to for the rest of your life.
2007-01-23 11:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not all women go for losers. There are many who are looking for dependable, caring guys. Perhaps you're looking in the wrong places for the kind of women who want a serious, solid relationship. Time to think about the image you're reflecting, too.
Most women don't like losers.
2007-01-23 11:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by garynjanice 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
women say they want nice, loyal, caring guys but they don't. they want liars, cheaters, cowards, abusers, and selfish guys. it's all so wired into their subconcious mind. they can't help it. it because that is in their instinct.
let me tell you why. nice men are borned to serve others. while jerks were borned to survive it's so wired in women psyche subconciously. when a man display bravery, kindness, honesty, etc... conciously everyone appreciate it. however, subconciously a woman will say he's less likely to survive to be the father of my baby. on the other hand when a man display acts of selfishness, cowardice and etc... conciously it's everyone frowned upon him. however, subconciously a woman say to herself this is a man who has more chance to survive to be the father of my baby. so when people say nice guy finish last there is a reason for it.
2007-01-24 00:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok. Honestly? I'm one of those women...and I'm sick of it. Most of the jerks are smooth-talkers. I recently fell for a smooth-talker. Fortunately, we didn't start dating...I saw him for what he really is. He and I are friends still, but that's all that it will ever be. As for you, keep being a great guy. You will definitely win in the end. As for me, I've awakened (FINALLY!!!) to the jerk-trait, and if I begin to get fooled, I've asked my friends to smack me. By the way, I feel like you're talking directly to me! LOL
2007-01-23 11:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all girls are like that the shy ones arnt like me cause i dont go around dateing every one i see or like i wait untill im ready and the guys that are like that are jerkes and just want to het some which but no affence the preps and slut will give it to them haha
yea but not all girls are like that look for the shy ones and get to know them better there acually really cool[some of them]
2007-01-23 11:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by Sammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋