This the breakdown. I love this girl very very very very much and she feel the same way. I cant go a day without thinking about her. But she feels the need to move on because Im not there with her everyday. I mean she really love me and we even go far as crying on the phone. When I get out of school Im going down there to stay in the city. But that is in 4 years, but I cant wait that long to be with my love. She do wanna be with me but, Im not there to give her that extra securtiy. That is my birthplace so I come to see my family maybe 10 times and year and a period of time over the summer. I have been begging her to go with me but she wanna end up cheating on me. I used to be a player but I gave up all of that for her. What should we do?
2007-01-23 10:56:55 · 6 answers · asked by Apostle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To tell u the truth this question makes me cry...... i think you should stay together and wait out the 4 years i hope everything works out for u
2007-01-23 11:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by Kinz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just ask her to give it a try. You guys never know what'll happen at least until you try. It is true that long distance relationships are hard and if she doesn't wanna deal with it then that's really her decision. She may want a guy who is physically there for her. That and since you said your a player she may not trust that you'll be faithful. It is a hard thing to do and you guys can give it a try. Trust me, ive seen long distance relationships that work, and some that doesn't. It's really a hard thing to do but it is possible. Hope and faith is all you need. Best of luck.
2007-01-23 19:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by allblackoreo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were that important to her and if she loved you that much she would be willing to wait and to fight for the relationship.
If you were to move down there now you would have to leave school which means you could only ever get a low paying dead end job and that wont enable you to get and pay for the things we all want like a nice home, a car, children & money to treat the one you love.
You need to stay in school or you will have nothing.
If she isn't prepared to make an effort for you and your relationship then the relationship is dead and worthless already and nothing you can do can fix it
2007-01-23 19:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, long distant relationships are the hardest, because there's a lot of trust involved. 4 years is a long time. feelings change. you can still keep your love for her, but you'll need to detach yourself (feeling wise) temporarily from her. just so that you don't hurt yourself. continue to talk to her. try to keep things open. 4 years with out being able to date other people and have fun is hard. if you want to stay a part of this woman's life,
you'll have to love her enough to let her go (for now). just be a good friend. one that she can tell you everything. than when you finally meet again you can be more.
2007-01-23 19:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by talofa lava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance does not work,..
2007-01-23 19:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by a Friend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off
2007-01-23 18:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Rhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋