Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

I am buying this http://www.fredericks.com/images/5/51786_78_lrg_a_7201.jpg to wear on valentines day. I want to wear it all day but I don't want him to see me put it on when I get dressed for work. I'm planning to just wear my boring undies and then change when I get to work so when he undresses me that night he is surprised. What do you think? Good idea or should I put it on that morning so he knows I am wearing it at work?

One more question, I have a meeting that night and he'll be at work until midnight, any suggestions as to what to do before the "main event"? Something romantic or sweet.

2007-01-21 10:01:40 · 6 answers · asked by katiej47 3 in Singles & Dating

My husbands Aunt and Uncle came to our wedding and I don't think they gave us a gift and there is no card. We have to sets of guests like this they both traveled far and I think this is more than enough of a gift but, I don't want to offend anyone if there was a gift that may have disapeared or if they didn't give a gift. I would like to thank them as I know they made the time for us but, don't know how to word it.Please answer fast as I'm not sure what the correct amount of time is to get out thankyou's and I have handmade each one to make it special and don't want to fall into the rude category.

2007-01-21 10:01:17 · 6 answers · asked by emmandal 4 in Weddings

i recently was pregnant , but i fell and lost it. i bled. my boyfriend is so happy thinking that hes about to be a father. should i have sex with someone else and get pregnant and tell my boyfriend its his baby?
i think he will be happy this way.
please help

2007-01-21 10:01:15 · 6 answers · asked by karla3211 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my best friend. We've gone through crap espeically i've not been good to her recently but we all good now. I just want to say sorry for not being there for her. Can you help me find a song is very beautiful and slow song that makes my friend cry?

2007-01-21 10:00:11 · 5 answers · asked by Nelfie 1 in Friends

Okay so my parents started their's a bit late they are both almost 60. My mom is trying to lose weight so she doesnt cook anymore and my dad is desparately trying to get her to cook again. He also tells me about how his job is boring sometimes which I never ever thought he would say to me. He has always been about his job. Both tend to throw some comments my way lately. My mom was like I wish you liked Mike more than a friend then gives this sad face. My dad was like you always have had your problems with men. Im like umm I am 24 it comes with the territory and look at the role model I have. Oi does anyone else have these issues popping up? Its wicked annoying.

2007-01-21 09:59:57 · 7 answers · asked by b 4 in Family

I do not think the child is mine. and do not know what to do help please

2007-01-21 09:59:51 · 17 answers · asked by teevid 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want find one of my friend.her name is beuty begum jahanara from bangladesh but now living in usa.she was lecturer and journalist and teching in university in usa.graduated in moscow state university. plese tel me how to find her because i loss her adress?

2007-01-21 09:59:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have the perfect idea for this valentine day. But All I need is to know where to find nice paper for a valentine's day note. I had written a poem for my guy, and I want some nice paper to put it on where can I find that?

2007-01-21 09:59:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why?

2007-01-21 09:58:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

just wondering! cuz 1 of my bffs goes out alone w/ her boyfriend 2 dinner and stuff and she not even 12!! my other friends parents say she cant d8 til shes married. lol. i dont want to go out but i think its kinda weird how some kids go out b4 middle school and some dont go out til they graduate high school. i think kids should go out when they start high school.

2007-01-21 09:58:53 · 22 answers · asked by ♥ ♫ lauren ♫ ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 09:58:15 · 39 answers · asked by prisondoors25 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend is not happy and stressed out..He has a 6 yr old daughter from his previous marriage and he lives with his parents and over controlling/bossy sister to help him out... his out of work at the moment due to work injuries, so its harder for him to get a decent job now and move out...He does fight with his family especially his sister, always puts him down & embarrasses him...When its comes to his daughter being naughty he tries to do his job as a father....but his family tells him off like "dont yell at her" etc like that..his family spoils her and makes it harder for him to raise her and make her respect him...and last night they told him his not good enough to raise his daughter...and that really cut him up...what can i do to help my boyfriend, because his family has no right, he puts up with it cos they helped with the divorce and everything and if he says anything they will use that against him...especially his sister....i love him and i dont want him to be unhappy...

2007-01-21 09:57:44 · 9 answers · asked by Twiddle D 1 in Family

well my janitor was sitting down the other day when i came by and i own the building so when i went by i kinda slapped him and told him to get busy. he was kinda mad but i dont know why i had reason to

2007-01-21 09:57:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is a thousand miles away, but we are having a good time keeping our relationship strong. I love her, and she tells me thats she loves me more than anyone on earth. i cant be with n e 1 else

a few times, when i call her, she sounds disappointed to talk to me,
When i ask her what is wrong, she always says shes fine, but its clear that she isnt always "100%"
today she told me that there are lots of things that i dont know about. things that are "really emotional and serious for me [her]"
I ask her to tell me what those things are and she refuses to tell me.
"Theres too much involved to just tell you"; "Its not something i can just start talking about"; "Its hard to just bring it up, its something really emotional and serious to me"

would it still be an issue about trust if i told you that she had told me (about 5 months ago) that she had kissed a guy. she begged for my forgiveness
(which i did give to her)

can anyone please give me some advice, or guess at whats going on

2007-01-21 09:57:08 · 28 answers · asked by SpiderPig 2 in Singles & Dating

my g/f is 29 im 22, any of you have kind of a age gap? were also gettin married been 2gether about 6 months but were crazy about each other.

2007-01-21 09:57:06 · 18 answers · asked by defensor-fortis 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we are buying our first place and i was curious as to how the bills wok in your house hold. Does one person pay mortgage and other person utilies.Or do you guys share an account and work everything out ?Just curious.We currently have seperate bank accts . is this method better for a marriage?

2007-01-21 09:57:06 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he doesn't want me to have contact with his sister- in-law, because we "left our lives" there and started over. His brother(s) were into drugs, and he was too at one point, but quit all of it when he met me. We have a child together, and are doing good now. I am very good friends with his sister-in-law, but he still doesn't want them to know where we are, and doesn't want me communicating with her, I am not really sure why. Should I respect his wishes, or keep doing what I have been doing, emailing her and talking to her that way--although I NEVER disclosed our location to her ( he doesn't want them moving here to "sponge" off us, bring their bad habits here etc)??? BTW she doesn't use drugs, and both her and his brother practically raised him because his mom picked her boyfriends over her kids after she divorced their dad (6 kids total--I only talk to two of the s.i.l.'s and two of the brothers), then his mother was murdered in 1992 by a gunman on a rampage. What to do???

2007-01-21 09:56:41 · 5 answers · asked by Austins Mom 6 in Family

2007-01-21 09:55:30 · 14 answers · asked by laffyettehoney1 1 in Friends

The only problem is i was gonna date him like over 6 months ago but, my best friend back stabbed me and started dating him, he liked me too and didn't know i liked him. So then when they broke up after i stopped tryin to help them stay together i decided to get the courage up and tell him i liked him, just to see what he'd do. He asked me out, i was shocked but happy. Then i told my best friend and we were still cool considering i did the same for her. Then later in the last couple of weeks she constaintly is hitting on my bf and won't go away. Ex: She keeps trying to pants him. Its getting annoying and i told her i knew she still liked him but, she need to back off because she had her chance and she blew it. Ever since she has been talking to me and saying yeah i still like him and i keep being nice and smiling but, she's getting on my nervers and i don't really like her...but, i don't to be rude. I think he still likes her or something and i don't wanna lose him. What should i do?

2007-01-21 09:55:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you rather go for in a girl...


1) looks..
2)personality

2007-01-21 09:54:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 09:54:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This guy likes me, and our chemistry as friends so far is amazing. how do i get him to ask me out or whatever?? i was tomboy all my childhood, and so i need a little help with my love life now. we SUBTLY, not way out there. thanks for any help

2007-01-21 09:54:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

While you're on answers?
Does it help you concentrate ?

2007-01-21 09:53:57 · 12 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 09:53:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We broke up a year ago (her decision; although I was such a great guy to her and never did anything wrong - she was just confused of her feelings). We met last night for dinner after not seeing each other for 6 months. She seemed really unhappy with her life, job, where she was right now. She'd put on weight, didn't talk much. It was very sad, as she wasn't her former self. Despite that, she knows I still like her a lot, and I know she still likes me, but she's unhappy with her life right now. I suspect she's depressed, given what I saw from her last night (she made excuses and after less than two hours of dinner saying she didn't feel well and was feeling tired, and we left the restaurant). I'm kinda concerned for her, and am wondering what to do. She broke my heart when we broke up, so I'm conscious I don't want to get hurt again myself, but I don't want to leave her lying there as she seems so low and hurt right now. Do you think she's depressed. What should/ could I do?

2007-01-21 09:53:19 · 17 answers · asked by James 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend daniella called me a ***** through a letter she sent me on myspace what would you do if you were me?

2007-01-21 09:52:49 · 14 answers · asked by Vanessa Anne Hudgens 1 in Friends

Why do married men go to strip clubs and get all the dancers phone numbers ...... this is just wrong ...

2007-01-21 09:51:35 · 24 answers · asked by fine&dandy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How hard would you buttshag him?
Does he make you randy? Does he? Yea baby Yea!!!

2007-01-21 09:51:10 · 3 answers · asked by tmdkshaft 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

a previous relationship. He works all day and I have the kids all day. When he comes home from work it's only for a half an hour then he goes over to the neighbors house to "unwind" he is gone for 2 to 4 hours. I've told him that I would like him to spend 4 nights out of 7 home with his family and how it makes me feel when he's gone every night. He said he would change and start spending time with us, that was 2 weeks ago. And it's still the same. What should I do? Am I being selfish?

2007-01-21 09:51:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 09:50:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships