Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

Okay.
I need to know why no guy likes me.
i've asked this question before and it's always the same answer, "i'm sure they like you, you just dont know it," well, i go to a private school, everyone knows everybody's business, so i know for sure they dont.
last week, this dork in my class was talking to my and my friend goes, you like her, and he's like you've completely lost your mind.
like i'm that bad to like!
i was so p'od.
i am NOT that ugly.
i am an avg. looking teenager, but i have really small boobs, other than that my body looks athletic, and i dont have a face full of zits either,
my mom, and planty of adults tell me i'm pretty, but even my friends say, "you arent ugly" they never so "you're pretty" it makes me soooo mad.!
what should i do, oh, i'm shy too, but i've been trying to cahnge.

i have big blue eyes,
an athletic body,
full lips,
and dirty blonde(dishwater blonde) hair..
what the heck is wrong!?

2007-01-21 09:37:28 · 23 answers · asked by a 3 in Singles & Dating

How can u tell if a girl wants to be with u or not?

2007-01-21 09:37:20 · 1 answers · asked by chi_wally_wally03 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey everyone.. I am 5'8, and pre pregnancy I was super thin and had the best confidence..My pregnancy caused me to gain 70 lbs when I was 9 months! And now I am still 50 lbs over what i used to weigh.. Now I feel like a fat cow.. I am on a great diet program that I just started on Friday and I am on my way to losing weight.. My boyfriend says Im not fat, just thick.. But what do you guys think? Honest, not mean, opinions. Thanks!
Heres some recent pictures of me
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2007-01-21 09:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by Curly Haired Cutie 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-21 09:36:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anthony 1 in Singles & Dating

I've got bridesmaids in So. Florida, Georgia and Texas and need to find a store with outlets in each of these states. Suggestions?

2007-01-21 09:36:11 · 4 answers · asked by cafeconleche123 1 in Weddings

I was married to my 1st wife for seven years and we had 3 kids together. When we divorced we decided it would be best to have joint custody with all child expenses and decisions split half and half. It has worked out well for both of us. Now my ex-girlfriend (never married) has my forth child and has filed for child support. I have a court order for joint custody on my first 3 children but neither of us has to pay child support to the other, so does that meant that the forth child will be counted as the first when it comes to the percentage of my wages?

2007-01-21 09:35:47 · 3 answers · asked by Juan C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy that is in my 1st hour class that is about 5 months older then me and yet he is about 5'2 or 3 and im taller...5'4 or 5'5.And he is way skinner then me((im average)) and i guess i flirt w/ him like every day in my 1st hour.My friends told me that I was flirting w/ him before i actually knew I was.So they told me I should go out w/ him.So in my math class he would sit in front of me and would talk 2 me mostly.Now my friend Sydney that sits right next to me, keeps telling me that he is flirting BIG time.But Im not really sure...It was way different last year when I first met him.He would talk 2 me normal...like boring talk.!!!this year....we talked non stop about weird stuff.and stuff i was actually wanting to listen to.He is kinda...KINDA cute.My friends are telling me I should go out w/ him because he and I would make a really cute couple..I just dont see how it would be cute..Now all im asking is here....Should I go out w/ this guy???please help me out here!!!!PLEASE!

2007-01-21 09:35:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I still live with my parents because I am a poor college student. My dad got cancer (which he is recovering from now nicely). He and my mother decided to become Catholic because of this ordeal. I have attendended mass to show my support, but I don't think I want to join the church. I am open-minded and see the value in all religions. I tend to believe books such as Sylvia Browne and Michael Newton, and I am also interested in Wicca. My sister tends to have the same thoughts as I do. I have talked with my parents, but my dad always has something to come back with that he feels supports Christianism. My mom is hung up about miracles and how being Christian will bring such to me. My mom expects me to go to church every week with them. I've tried refusing but she acts like I'm betraying the family if I don't. I'm at a loss as to what to do. I know I can't let this go on because I feel like I'm betraying myself. Please help.

2007-01-21 09:35:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

a family member claimed a child she shouldn't have, because she has only part legal custody, with me but i have legal and physical custody of the child who is still in my care and my care only, she did it without my knowledge or say so.

2007-01-21 09:34:45 · 5 answers · asked by camille n 1 in Family

I don't like love. It is gooshy, and unecessary. I hate kids, I don't like doing anything for anyone, and I don't really deserve it. I try to make life hard for myself for reasons I don't know, so I can't love. I don't love my parents, and I have never loved anyone. I am tough, so no girl can get to me. If a girl likes me, too bad. She will never had me. If she did, I would beat her brains out. I don't care when people call me cold. That compliments me. I am a warrior.

2007-01-21 09:34:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me, my friends and our boyfriends always go out on the weekends, but we always go to the movies or ice skating. Does anybody have good, fun ideas we could go??

P.S. we're all 13 so we can't do anything too serious

2007-01-21 09:34:15 · 23 answers · asked by x0laurrx0 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 09:34:08 · 26 answers · asked by xlin3ix 1 in Singles & Dating

DONT ACT LIKE U DONT GOSH!

2007-01-21 09:33:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 15 and I used to be a total nerd. Ive changed, but poeple still think of me as a dweeb. how can I show them Ive changed?

2007-01-21 09:33:18 · 4 answers · asked by Food For Thought 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 and I am not allowed to drink. I understand my parents' decision but it seems unfair to me since everytime i go to a party, all my 15 year old friends are drinking WITH PERMISSION!!! How can I convince my parents i'm responsible enough to drink? Or how can I drink behind their backs without getting caught??

2007-01-21 09:32:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Not related to financial aid in any way. I don't want to live with my mom.

2007-01-21 09:32:21 · 2 answers · asked by phearthemuffins 1 in Family

Im 45 and starting to wonder if ive wasted my life.

2007-01-21 09:32:14 · 19 answers · asked by just asking. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so lets make a scale:
0 is a soft baby bite all the way to 10 which draws blood

so you could say:

ears 4
neck 2
toes:1

etc.

2007-01-21 09:31:28 · 16 answers · asked by lowroad 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not going to do anything "with" him...and movies are pretty boring and awkward..at least it seems like
there's a lot of snow, we could sled? haha but i did that when i was like a 6th grader with guys..
something interesting and fun
please any suggestions, i've never really had any guys over before

2007-01-21 09:30:54 · 3 answers · asked by kat 3 in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law walked in on me and her daughter "going at it" on in the kitchen. She's still visiting for 3 more days and it's really awkward.

What do I tell her??? or do I not say anything

2007-01-21 09:30:02 · 35 answers · asked by thank you come again 2 in Marriage & Divorce

just got a new bf. hes 14 and im 15. any cool date ideas where we can talk??

2007-01-21 09:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by Danceinda7flames 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 09:28:29 · 10 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2 in Singles & Dating

do you think a couple who began to date there freshmen year of highschool (and are still together a year and a half later, now) can stay together after highschool?

or do you think they would want to explore life and experience new things, no matter how much they love eachother?

2007-01-21 09:28:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyones opinions on which one will make a better boyfriend

2007-01-21 09:27:32 · 4 answers · asked by BRIT 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone ever gotten married after knowing someone for a short period of time and had a successful marriage? Does anyone know anyone or other stories? Do you think it's possible to just "know" it's the right move even if you've only known the person for a short period of time?

2007-01-21 09:27:23 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ariel♥ish♥ness♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am going to vegas for honeymoon so have thought a vegas theme for the wedding reception would be good idea? Is it? I thought i could have tables named after vegas hotels and vegas themed favours. Any one got other novelty/fun ideas to bring the theme into the day. Not decoration ideas cos my colours decided ages ago are mint green and cream. Thanks

2007-01-21 09:27:17 · 10 answers · asked by hc27 1 in Weddings

My husb. likes porn. And he always wants to use it. Does any one has a good reason why i should agree to it. He says it just turns him on quicker and gets his hornier. I feel bad and depressed over it because i feel like i'm not the one that turns him on, and that he is just using me to finish up. He also likes to use toys all the time. I'm a type of person that believes in two people only, and that it should be just me and him. And if i do give up and allow porn in my relationship. i wonder if it's going to get worse. since later on porn not be enough for him. has naybody had this situation? what do you sugjest? or sholud i just give up and try to enjoy it my self? this subject had turnes me down and i feel like i'm not good enough for him and also that he is almost like cheating. Please help. i need real life stories, and suggestions
Thank you.

2007-01-21 09:26:42 · 20 answers · asked by hey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend named Justyne and she is totally amazing. She is beautiful and means a lot to me. She is radiant and gorgeous. Her family means everything to her and she is turning 18 next week and I need to get her a present and I have nothing in mind. I had some ideas and whatnot, and since she is my friend and I know her well you think I would know what to get her, but I am just not sure. I really want to impress her. What should I get her?

She is beautiful, family orientated, does well in school, a very innocent person. Very fashionable, seems to get along with everyone, loves music, has a dieing craving for chocolate. Just recently broke up with her boyfriend. So I want to get her something really meaningful. So there's a brief description of her. Please help me.

Thank you.

2007-01-21 09:26:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just as i stated all jokes aside what does your girlfriend past lovers say about her???

2007-01-21 09:26:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 09:25:20 · 7 answers · asked by annecsabagh 2 in Singles & Dating