Okay.
I need to know why no guy likes me.
i've asked this question before and it's always the same answer, "i'm sure they like you, you just dont know it," well, i go to a private school, everyone knows everybody's business, so i know for sure they dont.
last week, this dork in my class was talking to my and my friend goes, you like her, and he's like you've completely lost your mind.
like i'm that bad to like!
i was so p'od.
i am NOT that ugly.
i am an avg. looking teenager, but i have really small boobs, other than that my body looks athletic, and i dont have a face full of zits either,
my mom, and planty of adults tell me i'm pretty, but even my friends say, "you arent ugly" they never so "you're pretty" it makes me soooo mad.!
what should i do, oh, i'm shy too, but i've been trying to cahnge.
i have big blue eyes,
an athletic body,
full lips,
and dirty blonde(dishwater blonde) hair..
what the heck is wrong!?
2007-01-21 09:37:28 · 23 answers · asked by a 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can totally relate to you. I have dirty blonde hair also, blue eyes, skinny body, etc. but I have really small boobs too. I'm 14 and like a AA cup (A lot of girls stuff, but oh well). I think most guys our age are just interested in girls that have big boobs, which is messed up, but I'm sure they'll come to their senses in a couple years. Based on the description you gave though, you sound beautiful. So don't listen to what your friends say... if you think you're good-looking, believe it and appear confident and I guarantee more guys will like you. (It worked for me!) Good luck!
2007-01-21 09:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lower your expectations. This reminds me of a good friend of mine.
She was 27 at the time. Beautiful, great body and a lot going for her. But she was so frustrated because she couldn't find any good guys. I'm married, so she confided in my a lot, and i tried to give her as much support as she needed.
Anyway I told her that she had to quit forcing the issue. She was trying so hard that anytime things didn't go right, she got really upset and started doubting whether or not she was "datable" or whether there were any good guys left out there.
Over several months time, I kept telling her the same advice ... just let it go, quit trying so hard and have fun with your life ... not worrying about guys.
And so it went, and sure enough when she least expected it, she met a guy and he asked her out. She took it really easy and just enjoyed the date without feeling she was interviewing for a long-term relationship or anything.
They've been married now for I think 2 years. She's really happy.
Listen ... what you have to realize is that life is plenty long ... if you're not dating now, you shouldn't feel like you have to hurry things along. It sounds like you're fairly confident about your looks and what you have to offer.
If that's the case, then just go on with your life. Have fun in school, do the things you want to do in life and just enjoy being you. And if being you means that you don't have a love life right now, that's fine.
It will happen when you're least expecting it. So stop expecting it to happen!
2007-01-21 09:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING IS WRONG! Guys are attracted to big eyes, full lips, and dirty blonde hair. Those freaks at your school are probably immature a**es. Sorry for th foul language but that got me angry! They're probably just having a burst of hormones and think huge boos are the way to go. Trust me, they'll come crawling to you when you're older.
2007-01-21 09:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by eli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen plenty of pretty girls out there without boyfriends or guys asking them out. Personality does matter to guys, even if it's not the most important thing. Try relaxing around guys and just being more open. Stop being so hard on yourself! Guys like a confident and easy to talk to girl.
2007-01-21 09:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong?
you just ?? yea you just!
I (we) don't know how you,, deal with guys talking (dealing) with you?
(don't even get into small boobs YOUR beautiful. period)
Your guy just has not had the opportunity to make his self known yet. you don't have to do anything special.
You don't say how old or what grade in school.
But there is some boy you see and talk with every day so you not telling us the whole story.
So don't be afraid to start conversations with boys,,, they are dorks until they feel you and they are ok.
2007-01-21 09:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have told us what you look like, but what are you like? Are you outgoing, shy, sarcastic? Are you a people pleaser? Are you mean? You might want to take a look at what you are like on the inside (I know that sounds dorkey) because that is what will count. Our looks change, we gain weight, loose weight, have bad hair days, whatever, but your personality is consistent. My husband and I have been together for nine years. In those years, I have had two HUGE babies, gained weight, (which I lost) things have stretched and sagged. There are wrinkles and lines, but he loves me. That is what is important. Be patient.
2007-01-21 09:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by Helen T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can think of is attitude! maybe u r giving off the attitude! that fella dont want! demanding ! no compromise! heck who care's what u look like! if ur in school there trying 2 find them self 2 ! but not underneath ur boot, licking ur toe's till u say they can stop! check ur attitude suga!
2007-01-21 09:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by sitting_in_th3_cut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hunny,
Take it from a private school gal all her life, private school guys suck ****...they're so mean to us...they treat us like their sisters but worse.
But also, another thing is, you don't want to necessarily date them because like you said, EVERYONE knows everyone's business...
I think most of the girls in my grade didn't meet guys until college if that makes it any better for you.
Good luck!!
2007-01-21 09:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey well u sound pretty. they are probaly just jerks. i bet you that there is one girl all the guys like , but none of them really like her they just think they do cause everyone else does. am i right? my mom says boys 14 or 13 are not capable of serious feelings for girls yet. one dya they realize how dumb they were. hope that helps email me if ya want to talk..... cause im new here. julia_m122@yahoo
2007-01-21 10:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by Julia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by crossland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋