The only problem is i was gonna date him like over 6 months ago but, my best friend back stabbed me and started dating him, he liked me too and didn't know i liked him. So then when they broke up after i stopped tryin to help them stay together i decided to get the courage up and tell him i liked him, just to see what he'd do. He asked me out, i was shocked but happy. Then i told my best friend and we were still cool considering i did the same for her. Then later in the last couple of weeks she constaintly is hitting on my bf and won't go away. Ex: She keeps trying to pants him. Its getting annoying and i told her i knew she still liked him but, she need to back off because she had her chance and she blew it. Ever since she has been talking to me and saying yeah i still like him and i keep being nice and smiling but, she's getting on my nervers and i don't really like her...but, i don't to be rude. I think he still likes her or something and i don't wanna lose him. What should i do?
2007-01-21 09:55:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she isnt being a friend if she's still after him. and if she backstabbed you before she will do it again since she still has feelings for him.
2007-01-21 10:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cool. She is not being a very considerate friend... especially if she's your BFF. If he likes her, it's going to happen with them eventually anyway and you can't prevent it. Just don't be clingy or critical.
Try to move on with your life by spending more time with other friends or get a hobby. Distract yourself so that if they do get together, you'll have something else to keep you occupied rather than crying all day.
Are you 14? Because pantsing someone is really immature. If you are 14 or so, this will all be nothing but a memory six months from now, anyway so don't sweat it.
2007-01-21 10:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by Sara C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chicks before *****, Lol.
He's not worth losing a friendship for.
Break it off with him.
Especially if he likes someone else.
2007-01-21 10:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by helpishere 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you won't lose him if he is a good person, and depending on your grade, if you are in 11th grade below dont even worry about it. otherwise if he breaks up with you for her he isn't worth it.
2007-01-21 09:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by Idiotman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay Single keep your friend! That way you wont get hurt!
2007-01-21 10:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by LedZeppelin4ever1955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her too back off and if she doesnt she isnt a good friends,
2007-01-21 09:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats more important. a guy or a a friend? i would say GUY! DITCH THE ***** AND KEEP YOUR MAN
2007-01-21 09:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Danceinda7flames 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋