But he did any way. For a good reason I could not leave and new that.
Lately I have been having resentment that he doesn't see that I need him. Well now i am going thru Chemo, on my own, cuz during the time he was gone I found out i had cancer. Well, like a loving wife i did not want him to resent me for making him choose me or his job, which is job he away wanted. He always thought of the other person instead of himself( a previous marriage) so I held my emotions and said i could do it without him. I no, now it was wrong, so I plan to tell him, that I need him here for love and support, cuz i can't handle it on my own and be honest of what i need. So what do u all think? Is it right that I make him choose and if he doesn't choose me, What then, I am a very independant woman and I know I can handle this on my own if I have too. But I have a husband and I want him here with me, helping me thur this. I have been on my own before and raise wonderful children, r there 4 me.
2007-01-21
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