2007-01-21 10:12:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just blast your music your husband we'll have to hear it then
2007-01-25 08:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't get him to change his mind on music but you can tell him that like everything else in marriage, music will be a 50/50 deal. my husband is like that too...in the car driver chooses, in the house we trade back and forth. We just don't turn it up and torture the other. We both like classic rock and most of the time that is what we put on.
2007-01-21 18:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are polar opposites when it comes to music. We agree to disagree and don't listen to any at all together. Sometimes when we're in the car I will turn on my stuff just so there's not dead silence though.
2007-01-21 18:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was the same way. He was a control freak. But if the music just drives him nuts then there's not much you can do about it. My hubby doesn't like heavy metal, but I listen to it. He at least puts up with it.
2007-01-21 18:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were butholes we always want compromise and understanding and for you to try new things what I did was once a day I would play something she likes on long trips I make sure I play at least one type she likes its a process don't try to get us to listen to the whole CD and let him know he doesn't have to like it just listen one song at a time, and if it that serious to you every time you play one of the songs give him a happy ending if you know what I mean unless its gospel we are suckers for oral and do almost anything to get it
2007-01-25 16:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by shark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You SHOULD have thought about this BEFORE you got married. He is entitled to enjoy the kinds of music HE prefers. If you can't live with it then why did you marry him?
2007-01-21 18:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant change him hon the only one you have power to change at all is you yourself... Love him where he is at and listen to your own music on your own time. I dont try to make my husband do anything... I let him be who he is and he lets me be who I am and it is great!
2007-01-21 18:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same here, but what I do is when I am driving he has to listen to my music, and when he is driving I listen to his.
2007-01-21 18:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good luck...I wont listen to my wifes music...it's more than not liking it, it makes my skin crawl....... thats like asking how you can get your husband to like brussel sprouts
2007-01-21 18:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy his music is great ,but he can not enjoy your musik if he does not like it.Pleas enjoy what you got.Think what would you do if you husband can not hear anymore.
2007-01-21 18:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by claus w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋