okay there is a guy i like and my friend told him i like him but before that he called me hot at a party and then now he called me hot agian and i had nothing to says so i just said ur wierd ahhhh! i cant belive myself now i send him a note saying that he is not weird now what do i do to see if he likes me?PLEASE HELP!!!!
2007-01-21 10:18:07 · 6 answers · asked by chao w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him
2007-01-21 10:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and kiss the hotty! i mean come on if u like him and he likes you. or where something revealing and go up to him and kind of put on a baby face look and twirl his hair or run you hands up his chest and whisper in his ear what do you think i am now? and see what he does.
2007-01-21 18:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by abby_borg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not being nasty --- have you tried just talking to him???
that will let you both know how you feel for each other by how well you talk --- it does not matter what you say just talk --- the way you talk and look at each other will give you an idea
2007-01-21 18:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
msn...?
if not, stand up straight, head back, plant a smile on your face, walk up to him and ask him if he likes you, that u were wondering and it was bugging you. see how that works! : )
2007-01-21 18:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by ♥~♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
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MORE INCLUDE
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
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STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you? STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same. STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction. STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek? STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms. STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
thats how to tell.....
and its okay to make mistakes around him it means you like him he'll understand
2007-01-21 18:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him too then be together
2007-01-21 18:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by penpal_247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋