So, here goes ...
We have been dating for the past two months, everything is great ... we're both madly in love with each other. Last week, he was sent to Calif for 5 days business trip, I miss him terribly ... so I openly said it to him all the time while we're on the phone or just texting each other. I believe he misses me too ... but the funny thing is he never really said it first. It's always me who said it first and then he said "I miss u too!" ... he did though said "I love you" first most of the time and then I usually said "I love you" back. What's with that anyway? I mean ... does he not miss me? I kinda want him to say it first instead of me saying it first all the time. Anyone has anything to say?
2007-01-21 10:19:59 · 8 answers · asked by Nicegal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly what's going on. If he's as enthusiastic and/or sincere when he says it as you say he is, the reason he says these things after you do is because he probably feared that you didn't feel the same, or at least wasn't sure about it. He was just waiting to ensure that he didn't seem to vulnerable or like he was going too fast. I believe he is glad you said these things first.
2007-01-21 10:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by BlondieChicci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a lot of things on his mind OR maybe he doesn't want to sound too "mushy" if you know what I mean
2007-01-21 10:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dave Grohl Wanna Be!!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmmm....... do you have a gut instinct that he's cheating on you? yes? then maybe he is.
No? then why are you worried about it?
it sounds like he loves you. alot.
2007-01-21 10:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by ♥~♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're reading too much into this especially if he said 'i love you' first then i don't think you should worry.
2007-01-21 10:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bring it up first,see if he does say it or not..then asked him why he dosrent or does
2007-01-21 10:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he misses u but doesnt want to show vunerability
2007-01-21 10:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by penpal_247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that big of deal
2007-01-21 10:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we men are complex
2007-01-21 10:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by SirNovajr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋