Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

2007-01-19 18:30:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We recently had a baby who is now 6 months old. My girlfriend is from the east coast. She had some depression before we had the baby, but now the depression has grown even more. She desperately wants to move out of town, and I have happily agreed thinking a change would be good. We thought about moving to the east coast while she can finish her education, and recently the beach community in the central west coast has been very appealing to her because she has found a subject of interest. I want what is best for us and will do whatever it takes to keep our family together. Her depression seems to amplify every small problem that should be resolved much easier. She will ignore me when there is a problem or just scream to herself. Sometimes they seem to go away, but I really feel that our problems get put in a closet. She recently told me she wanted to stay with her friend. She doesn't want to break up, but just get away until she feels like coming back. Any suggestions to help her/ us?

2007-01-19 18:30:43 · 11 answers · asked by jt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

11 months ago I got high and drunk just like tonight. I stayed at my best friends house that night because of the snow storm . He couldn't make it home either so he stayed at his brothers house.His wife and I got all messed up and had sex. She had a baby 9 months later.She and I are the only ones who know this and we are writting this question together.We had a DNA test and Paul is mine and I want my child . She wants me to move on and I want to stay. She loves her husband and is so sorry but I love my child . She wants me to be like uncle Bill or something but I want to be Daddy.I also don't wan't to loose the best friend I ever had who is her husband. We have been friends for 30 years since we were 4 yrs old.We need some serious help here . Should we tell he husband should I be uncle Bill or should I be daddyas I want to be.

2007-01-19 18:28:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that good looking girls r never approached by guys????

2007-01-19 18:26:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 18:25:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i was texting this guy, and i text him quite often so i asked him of he was ok with me texting him so much he said yah im fine with it...then i said ooh ok that good cuz i like talking to you. and he replyed: i love talking 2 u...what would u think of this?

2007-01-19 18:25:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with language's name

2007-01-19 18:25:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents are also pretty scrict and my curfew is 11.
Gay I know.
Im not allowed to spend the night at anyones house anymore because, the found out I got drunk at someones house when I was spending the night.So whats a good excuse to get a later cufew?! Because I wanna party like with all my friends!!

2007-01-19 18:23:59 · 6 answers · asked by Adizzle 1 in Family

2007-01-19 18:22:27 · 27 answers · asked by skrubz69 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to know when it comes to find a girlfriend, what are the important quality that most man are looking for. the looks, personality or other?

2007-01-19 18:22:08 · 16 answers · asked by Angela 1 in Singles & Dating

Last night my best friend sent me a big shocker, he told me that over Christmas, he realized that I was someone he wanted to spend the rest of his life with. We've considered dating on several occasions but the timing has never been right. He got out of a major relationship about a 2 months ago, and right now we agreed its best for us to both be single. But how do you react to such an emotional, and weighty confession? He told me a lot of the reason he can't allow himself to be in a relationship with me is because he knows that if he starts it with me, it is never going to end. Honestly, I can see it happening too. But I have no clue what sort of reaction to give. Obviously, we wouldn't be running to the altar anytime in the near future. It was like last night was somehow some form of confirmation, that hey, one day we're going to go get married...Thoughts? Opinions? Suggestions?

2007-01-19 18:21:58 · 11 answers · asked by Christie F 2 in Singles & Dating

1st scenario: how do you refuse if a random guy ask you for your phone number? like how do you not sound mean?
2nd scenario: so there's a school dance. and a guy you kinda like asks you to the dance. is it ok to say yes right away, or will that make you sound too desperate?
3rd scenario: there's a school dance. but this time a guy you don't know, but is from your school, asks you to the dance. if you say "i will think about it", when and how should you get back to him to tell him yes or no?
4th scenario: what if you have no interest whatsoever to go with the guy, is it ok to say no right away? how do you word it to make it sound more polite?

2007-01-19 18:21:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 18:21:46 · 5 answers · asked by nightingale 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband today told me he wasn't sure if he wants anymore kids, we have a 2 1/2 YO, and I was planning to try and fall pregnant this year. I am apsolutly deverstated by what he has said. Now I am angry and don't know what to do.

2007-01-19 18:21:30 · 8 answers · asked by Skye L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-19 18:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by silly_girl_lis 2 in Weddings

my ex and i have been broken up for 10 months recently he has been calling me everyday at work sometimes 2 times a day and then i asked him if he wanted to go to the movies and then he kept making excuses. i told him i dont have time for a phone relationship and i havent heard from him for a week. he left me and i still love him. why is he calling all the time then? why is he doing this? he is getting jelous and asking where i have been who im with and what i have been doing. what is with this?? should i send him an sms and tell him i miss him?

2007-01-19 18:19:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been in a long distance relationship for more than a year now.im just waiting to finish my studies in order to petition my bf... but thats not the prob.i have this friend whom im always with..and in our group,it seems like im the only one whos bf is not here to kiss me and hug me in front of them..im so out of place whenever im with them...so what smart thing can i do to avoid being out of place? its irritating sometimes..thank u!

2007-01-19 18:18:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know i shouldn't and i also know its very immature, but for some reason unknown to me I want to make my ex come crawling back to me, not that i want him back i just want the satisfaction that he has gottenin the times i have done that to him, how do i accomplish this task? What drives a man right back to ya?

2007-01-19 18:18:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and has lost of both her legs. Should I wait till shes out of the hospital, to break up with her ? And what is the best way to do this..

2007-01-19 18:16:51 · 23 answers · asked by luvbabysheep 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw her tonite. Played her pool. Won a lot. Her b/f was the drummer for the band. Bald with goatee, lol. Not as good looking as me, but there's no accounting for taste, I guess. hehe, just kidding. Anyway, I can't get her off my mind. She is so cute....
Andrea....

Anyone else have the same problem?

2007-01-19 18:16:48 · 9 answers · asked by merlin_steele 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

see, my bf and i have been together for over 3 years now, and he's is talking about having a baby and he wants to plan on it, but whenever i talk about getting married first , he doesnt wanna do it, he wants to wait for that he says that marriage is a big step,but as far as i know, having a baby is much more important , i just would like to do it step by step, you know first step 1 then 2, i dont wanna jump right on the step 3 . anyways the kind of thinking he has, worries me and scares me, if he doesnt wanna comit to being married, how is he going to comit to being a parent? i mean, his parents were together for 5 years and they had him unexpectedly ,things didnt work out and they got separated when he was 2 years old... does that have anything to do with his way of thinking?

2007-01-19 18:16:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok...So I dont consider looking/watching porn cheating. But I caught my husband with a profile at a sex website. On it his profile said he was divorced and had no kids (we have 2 and are married) This site basically solicites sex. It is meant for people to find others to "have fun" with. on his profile he typed things like "looking for a night of commitment free fun" and he goes away to places for his job...but posted where he was going. (ex. he went to daytona two weekends ago...his response to an email from a girl on this website said " I will be in daytona this weekend and would really like to meet up...have drinks...dinner and maybe more...") He swears he never met up with any of the girls...that he was just "curious what was out there," but would you still consider this cheating? Whether he met up with them or not aside...would you consider this "sex solicitation" cheating?

2007-01-19 18:15:34 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

divorce will be final in a few weeks if all goes well. It's very sad but at the same time I'm glad it will finally be over. it wasn't my choice, hubby cheated and crushed my heart, but it's been over 2 years we've been apart. And I have not dated or anything, out of self respect, just because marriage didnt mean much to him, it's still a sacred thing to me. I am 5' 120lbs. petite, green eyes, blonde hair and looking for someplace to meet people and make new friends, not for anything serious but to get myself out there and start my life over, a new beginning. Any one have ideas on where or how to do that, its been over 24 years sense i've dated or went out on my own as a single lady. Ideas and suggestions would surely be appreciated. Thanks

2007-01-19 18:14:39 · 10 answers · asked by Sassy D 1 in Singles & Dating

OK. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. Around our anniversary couple weeks after, I had found out he cheated on me. Which I was told by the girl on the phone. Even before then I was finding voicemail's by this girl on his phone and he didn't come home for 3 days and told me he went to cali. Well After she had told me they had sex, i put her on speakerphone and asked him, his eyes started watering up, anyways I love him and I stayed with him. He told me it was a mistake and he doesn't want to be with her, and that she was just obsessed. I know it is always her calling him, but yet sometimes he answers it. Anyways So i found that out in October 2006 Then in November he is still talking to her, i asked what the fuc*. He tells me to give him about a week so that he can break it off to her without looking like an asshole. (the girl is married and has kids and basically broke up their family now the girl doesn't want anything to do with her husband and he tells me that he doesn't want to be with her,) so you can see why he doesn't want to look like an asshole. But isn't that messed up he tells me to give him a week to break it off with her so her feelings don't get hurt. ("what about my feelings" is what i asked him he said "you don't understand" and says to me "What about other peoples feelings, it's always about you, stop thinking about yourself for once" (what the fuc*) So by dec. 23 came (me and him were good) he didn't come home, the 24th christmas eve still didn't come home, i called him ... no answer... christmas morning came he didn't even call me to wish me merry christmas, but i was driving everywhere to try to find him, finally x-mas evening I got a call from one of his friends, saying that they can't get a hold of him but there right infront of his car.(they thought he was w/me) I said where? they had told me he was at casino. So I drove down there sure enough his car was infront of the hotel building, so i made his car alarm go off. He turned it off but didn't come down, I couldn't tell which room he was in. So after about 30 min. making his alarm go off security was going to call police so I left. That was my christmas gift!! I know that lil bitc* was in there w/him. that night still never called me, havent heard from him till dec. 26 then he left again and came back morning on dec.31. He spent new years eve w/me yea, then he told me it was over and he broke it off w/her. He didn't even get me a present. So Jan 2007 he saying it's over, the 3rd he was talking to her again.. Now today is the 19th and I am home alone and he is not answering my phone calls, I know he must be with her...... I KNOW I SHOULD LEAVE HIM, BUT IT'S LIKE PART OF ME CAN'T, 50% OF ME WANTS TO GO 50% OF ME DOESN'T HOPING THINGS WILL GET BETTER. im stuck in love and need advice

2007-01-19 18:14:09 · 13 answers · asked by joker jester 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So there this guy that i havent really talked to in the last 2 weeks and today he texted me today saying, "Did you forget about me?" (mind you we dont live in the same province/state) and sent him, like 3 msgs basicaly saying no i didnt, hey, hows it going... and he didnt reply to any of them.
If he didnt want to reply, why'd he text me in the first place?

2007-01-19 18:12:44 · 11 answers · asked by f.lipped 2 in Singles & Dating

Woo.
If you dont like stories dont read this.
I hung out with the guy I like today and other friends.
It was fuuuuun. We actually talked alot this time.
Then we were all going to go out to eat but couldnt find a ride so him and his friend walked to a fast food restaraunt and when they were leaving his friend started walking away and then the guy I like stopped and turned around and said by to all of us, but looked at me.
Then 2 friends and I ended up walking to the same place he had just went to, but we didnt talk there cause we didnt sit together because we didnt want to like invade there seats.
But when he left he said See Yea to us again, and looked at me.
And yea, it was fun to hang out with him and actually talk this time.

Except you can kind of tell he gets a little nervous talking to me and stuff so what are some ways to make us a little more comfortable around eachother?
Yupp, this was kind of pointless but I thought I would share. Advice would be great!

2007-01-19 18:11:54 · 9 answers · asked by =] 1 in Singles & Dating

well everytime i try to talk to her nothing comes up in my head like its blank and i only have 2 periods with her

2007-01-19 18:10:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really want his home coming to be speical I am all out of ideas I have already done so any other ideas would be helpful and I know that other men know what they like and want.... thanks guys

2007-01-19 18:10:50 · 9 answers · asked by just us 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife died about 3 yrs ago from breast cancer. Since that time, my son (now 7) has been sleeping in my bed with me. I am about to start working on returning him to his own bed. I am curious if there may have been or will be any negative effects from letting him sleep with me for this long.
FYI-I'm not a pedophile, so please refrain from suggesting that in your responses. Thank You

2007-01-19 18:10:47 · 20 answers · asked by Robert M 2 in Family

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? also i got a friend to talk to her and she said she wanted to talk to me. i'm kinda confused now. i also noticed shes been trying to talk to me but is too shy.she also threw a balled up piece of paper at me then turned around quickly the other day. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. should talk to her? and does she like me or not?

2007-01-19 18:09:44 · 11 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating