my ex and i have been broken up for 10 months recently he has been calling me everyday at work sometimes 2 times a day and then i asked him if he wanted to go to the movies and then he kept making excuses. i told him i dont have time for a phone relationship and i havent heard from him for a week. he left me and i still love him. why is he calling all the time then? why is he doing this? he is getting jelous and asking where i have been who im with and what i have been doing. what is with this?? should i send him an sms and tell him i miss him?
2007-01-19 18:19:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't let him play games with you. i know it hurts but move on. ignore him.
2007-01-23 17:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by lovablegal77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a realationship once and she left me and did the same thing. later on like 2 years later when i was well over the hurt i found out she was trying to figure out if i was seeing any one and if i was just setting waitng on her to come back or wait on me to ask her back. well my answer to you is this. 10 mouths is a short time and your feelings are still confused and not sure what to do.. well if you have made it this long with out going crazy. you will be fine for another 10 months.. But try this when he call's you at work the next time try saying what do you want. i am busy. make him get to the point. then just say out of the blue. oh i have a date tonite by the way. see how he act's .. sounds crazy but sometimes the other person gets mad and wakes up and see's what they have lost!
2007-01-20 02:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by help me! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, if he's interested enough in you to call you all the time, but not enough to go out with you, then he's not worth your time. I learned this lesson the hard way, but never ever settle for a guy who doesn't show the interest in you that you deserve. If you pursue this you'll just end up hurt all over again.
That said, I would handle it like this. Call him and tell him that you still love him, and that if he's not interested in a relationship with you then he needs to quit calling you. All he's doing is messing with your emotions.
2007-01-20 02:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mystical Illusions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't care for man he leave u, and u still love him...ignore him if he really love u he will ask u out, because the phone it's nothing shows if he really care or not..
he calling u maybe because he feel lonely and he tried the life without u and he can't, or maybe he felt ashamed that he left u for no reason. anyway don't Sms don't talk just ignore to see what he is planing.
2007-01-20 02:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's not sure of how he feels? perhaps he misses you but isn't really ready to meet up with you again. i don't really know.
if i were you, though, i wouldn't take the calls anymore. it's just prolonging your agony. instead of being able to forget him and move on, you're caught in between. and he's not being fair to you. if you've broken up, then you're under no obligation to entertain his calls anymore. especially if, in the process, you're getting hurt emotionally. let him figure out what he wants from you first. THEN you can accept his calls again.
2007-01-20 02:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by january 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just don't accept his calls. Tell him it hurts you too much to hear his voice and youre going to hang up now. It sounds like he misses you but still doesn't want to get back together.
2007-01-20 02:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is confused. but i think if you really like him, you can send him an sms and ask him how he is doing. i guess it won't be a good idea to say you miss him in the first sms. so yeah
2007-01-20 02:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not accept his calls. He refuses to meet with you, but only wants to know if you are seeing anyone....it's a control thing. He doesn't want you, but still wants to play with your mind. Move on...as quickly as you can.
2007-01-20 02:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by JANIE A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is protective towards you as he still loves you. Go back to him. He is the right person for you as he is still concerned after breaking up.
2007-01-20 02:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him not to call anymore until he grows up and is ready to stop playing games.
2007-01-24 00:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by luciousgreeneyedlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋