I want to know when it comes to find a girlfriend, what are the important quality that most man are looking for. the looks, personality or other?
2007-01-19 18:22:08 · 16 answers · asked by Angela 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say looks get you interested, personality keeps you interested. After all, before you first talk to a woman, you know what she looks like but you don't know her personality. But I have fallen in love with girls that were not the most beautiful but their personalities made me think of them constantly.
2007-01-19 18:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, those three are tied together. Looks must be appropriate to the personality and the miscellaneous "others". For some, looks lord over the male libido. For some, personality takes over after looks. For some, the X factor would be the "others". It really depends on the guy if he takes one before the other as more important. For me, personally, I'd strike a balance between the three. Although there will be steps to it, and perfection is impossible, at least there's quality in the three.
2007-01-20 02:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by hegelian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To say that guys only want looks is a very shallow concept so I am not going to say that. Every guy will see a girl and judge her on her looks right off the bat, but as a guy gets to know her there looks often change. I have known girls who I thought were ugly seem quite atractive once I got to know them. Every guy wants a confident girl. If you believe in yourself that is a great turn on. If a guy compliments you, take it, smile, say thank you, kiss him, whatever, but don't tell him that he is wrong. If you are confident and smile a lot you can get any guy. A smile makes a girl look 100 times better. Guys, as well as girls, look at someones apperance first, but to even the shallowest person personality is so important.
2007-01-20 02:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by charley_king2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality trumps beauty,physical beauty fades but the true beauty that reflects a good personality only gets better! so while good looks can be a bonus it is not a true measure of a person or relationship and relationships based on looks are doomed to fail!so work on your people skills i.e comunication,sense of humor ,compassion,honesty,integrity,faithfulness,etc. these things wil help you to be a better you and will also attract the right kind of man for you,these traits go for men as well but i'd also add gentleness,passion,not just hear but listen,intestinal fortitude we've lost these attributes in men and they've become a bunch of self centered wussies!good luck!
2007-01-20 02:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by MR. EARL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are an important part to initially attract attention, but more often than not its the personality, sense of humor, and similar goals that keep the relationship together.
2007-01-20 02:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by eck_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age makes a diffrence. and there always exceptions but here is what I have found out threw my lifetime. 17 to 30 Beauty, sexy, and dumb as well as being able to be do what they want and they are self centered and want everything they want and could care les what their mates want. 30 to 40 Someone that they can look at someone and can talk to someone trustworthy, someone to share their hopes and dreams with, help with finding out who they are. 40 an up going thru 17 to 30 again and it repeats until they learn that lvoing a women means excepting her as she is without trying to change her giving her respect and love and a say in all matters in each others life, seeking God helps shorten the process.
2007-01-20 02:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by Right 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for most guys, looks are almost always number 1 on the priority list. however, personality can go a long way.
2007-01-20 02:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Great personality, sense of humor and a beautiful smile.
2007-01-20 03:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Tony Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks attract me first so,, a kinda short petite pretty girl with a nice rack.... then there personality reels me in for a relationship. but with me i dont even really know what i look for it just depends
2007-01-20 02:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Robert 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd consider personality first. looks second. it's not worth it if she's pretty & sexy but your personalities don't jive.
of course i'd still try to find someone who has above average looks if possible. i'd be a hipocrite if i'd say i don't consider looks. but it's a bonus already.
2007-01-20 02:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋