Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

My EX and I took a break from the relationship; after 3 months apart I decided to commit. She apparently did not get my message and I interpreted the silence as a “no go”. Out of the blue she contacts me to tell me she is engaged to a guy she has been dating for 12 weeks. Why? We would never cross paths anyway, it was a long-distance relationship. When she learned about my commitment message she got angry, asked a lot of questions, told me she was confused but we said good-bye. I asked her why she felt the need to contact me – she couldn’t or wouldn’t answer my question, even when pressed, except to say “I don’t know”. What do you think – has she really moved on? Why did she contact me?

2007-01-17 22:27:02 · 7 answers · asked by damanofdaday 1 in Singles & Dating

The thing is, all this practise is making me so good at chess that no-one at home will give me a game ?

2007-01-17 22:26:10 · 28 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-17 22:23:59 · 8 answers · asked by cutie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My son lives with me half the yr and hlf the yr with his mother. I have joint physical and legal custody. He is 14 yrs old.. My last paychech had a large sum of money deducted from it for "child support. I have always supported my son, coached soccer, spent time in school paid most of the doctor bills, daycare etc. I know my ex and her husband are having money problems, She went behind my back, lied about my address and is hiding her income filed for support. Is there any way I can expose this to the right people and not look like a dead beat dad who doesn't want to pay?? I have proof of money send to her over the yrs..(in the thousands) and don't forget the origanal court order.. Thanks

2007-01-17 22:23:38 · 7 answers · asked by wils81crue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hello,
Can any1 plz suggest me names of birthcontrol pills.
Doctors plz help. Its urgent

2007-01-17 22:19:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister and her fiance have been dating for over 3 years and have one child together. They are very much in love and have been planning this wedding for a long time. Just the other day she found out that her fiance is actually our father's secret love child. She was devistated. The entire time that she has been dating her fiance our father knew this information and failed to mention it to her. He said that he wanted her to be happy and didn't want to disapoint her with this news. Now she finds out that the man that she has loved for all of these years is actually her blood brother. What should she do? Should they still get married? They have a child together!

2007-01-17 22:19:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My sister is a bad egg and has repeatedly broke in to my house over the last three years, just to stay while i've been on holiday. Only on the day after boxing day while I was at work she broke into my house and stole my brand new Nintendo Wii and all the games and my DS and all the games, breaking my kitchen window in the process. Calling the police didn't work cause they said there wasn't enough evidence. Should I move away, so she doesn't know where I live or should I try and stick it out! If I move am I letting her win.

2007-01-17 22:17:58 · 17 answers · asked by Baby_Blue_3001 1 in Family

i think that sometimes even if we don't hear the words we have to read between the lines. for example if somebody tells you they love you and they never kiss you, then do they love you?

2007-01-17 22:17:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if anyone knows where she is can ya tell me and i dont want to know if you dont know where she is!!

2007-01-17 22:16:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well we were doing the nasty and i thought i was doing ok but then she asked you know you got the wrong hole dont you...does this mean im gay....because she sure liked it....as for myself i didnt like the smell!!!!!!

2007-01-17 22:15:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am soft, gentle and caring and men seem to respect me, but the louder girls all seem to have more boyfriends. Why?

2007-01-17 22:13:51 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 22:11:44 · 9 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

i just want to know so i can flirt better

2007-01-17 22:11:04 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hahahhahhahahhahahhahahahahahhahahaha .... i have half of my front tooth.....im sad and im bored at the same time.......but believe me ...i do need to know this > what present can i ask my parents as i am doing very well at school?? ...hahhaahhahhahahahahhaha.............lalallalalalalallalalalalal .......heheheheheeh...hahhahahaha

2007-01-17 22:06:16 · 11 answers · asked by kluivert(17) 4 in Family

would you allow your girlfriend/wife to go out to the bars and hang with male friends 3-4 times a week and go to nudist camps by herself?

2007-01-17 22:05:59 · 14 answers · asked by petemeup b 3 in Marriage & Divorce

men who don't know how to proceed after the first meeting.

2007-01-17 22:04:58 · 7 answers · asked by whales 1 in Singles & Dating

My new found friend is very sweet and we have good chemistry, and he wants to get married eventually; we've been dating for about five months now, should I tell him I'm still married? I really don't want to say anything until things get more serious between us; like a ring on my finger or a move in that direction. The monkey wrench in this situation is this: we are long distance however we have met each other and we have been intimate, but it's hard because we don't get to see each other on the regular; plus he's over-the-road, but he calls me everyday on his cell and everytime he picks up and drops off a load and when he goes enroute to his hometown and he calls me from home; he even calls me when he's not working; he has a little girl so he'll call me whenever they go places and he will want me to stay on the phone with him while he's doing things period.. my husband is with another woman now and has no interest in me anymore so our relationship has been over... should new guy know?

2007-01-17 22:04:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-17 22:04:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My girlfriend just filed for seperation today and the lawyer told her she can do it 2 ways legal which would have cost money or the other way free, so she chose that way, and he told her in a years time she could come back and get the divorce. But i thouhgt it had to be a legal seperation before u got divorced.

2007-01-17 22:04:02 · 11 answers · asked by xtrememachines012001 2 in Marriage & Divorce

does anybody have any ideas what me and my boyfriend can do on a rainy day?????? we are bored

2007-01-17 22:03:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Where can I get an umbrella that would work in these high winds ?

2007-01-17 22:03:32 · 21 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is so busyyy with his job i hate it. he said he do that for me and him, but thats makes me feel lonely sometimes, if you were me, what would u do?

2007-01-17 22:02:37 · 11 answers · asked by Shemei Carter 2 in Singles & Dating

How many women here have proved that wrong without a limp?

2007-01-17 22:02:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do my other friends and i tell her not to come ?

2007-01-17 22:00:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met this really interesting guy online and we have chatted for a about a week now. He and I both like each other thus far, and am considering going the friends becoming maybe something more route to a relationship. We both have an enormous amount of things in common. Like its almost scary we have that much in common. Do you think its possible to have too much in common with a boyfriend/girlfriend? Honest opinions only please.

2007-01-17 22:00:11 · 11 answers · asked by country_girlz 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 21:58:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my parents didn't get me or my brother anything for Christmas, they decided to wait until they got their taxes back and told us we could buy one thing we really want. I'm looking at a Wii or an iPod.. But I'm not sure what exactly I should get. I'm 15, a female and do not have a social life (haha, seriously). I have about 500.00 I can spend...
Anyone have any idea? :) Ty

2007-01-17 21:58:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-17 21:57:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

but she asks alot of questions about my life, when i ask her about hers, she try to give minimal information

2007-01-17 21:55:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The boy that used to make her smile,
Now makes her cry, and cry for a while.
She'd loved him before she'd even known his name.
And once she got to know him, her heart went insane!

The first day of school, some faces were new.
She didn't notice his until weeks passed, a few,
But after she saw the beauty in his eyes,
She'd never known they could make her cry.

That love she felt was not to be explained,
For, even she, couldn't give it a name.
She wondered if he could feel it too.
The way they were, the way they knew.

Unfortunately, this was not true.
This one way love was all she knew.
He didn't like her nearly as much,
And for this reason, she feared his touch…

She cried all day, yet found the hope,
To try and climb the "broken heart" rope.
Just as she was nearing the top,
Her shoe slipped, and she fell of.

She cried again, just wondering why,
Such a beautiful boy, with beautiful eyes,
Could make such a pretty girl cry...
2006©Kate Steinberg

2007-01-17 21:55:28 · 11 answers · asked by thissilentangel 1 in Singles & Dating