Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

I met her through yahoo answers in september maybe (I was asking about a girl or something). We got to chatting and have helped eachother through many issues (my depression and shyness, her shyness and insecurities). We both have told eachother things that are our deepest secrets (the issues in the previous sentence) that not even our families know about.

2007-01-17 19:29:19 · 11 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Friends

we have been going out for a year and things have got difficult now she is confused and thinks that she is still in love with her ex even though they broke it off like a year and a half ago all this effort i put into this Relation S-H-I-T does not seem to be paying off but i believe she will grow up one day and find out that it is best that we are together i feel i have lost all sanity with myself for still staying with her after she says she still loves her ex am i stupid or what. what should i do?

2007-01-17 19:28:52 · 11 answers · asked by bs99dan 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever since I was a kid I've always like asian's for some reason, growing up I would meet hot caucasian, latin, and many other kinds of girls, but I would alway's blow them off because they weren't asian. I don't have a problem meeting women, and striking up a conversation, it's just the asian detail that make them just friends, when I know they want to be more then that. I have met asian women growing up, but they were alway's older then me, and had husband's and b/f's. I guess what I'm asking is, where the heck do I meet young asian's, other then asia, but in south florida because if I don't ever find on I'm willing to die single? (Crazy, aren't I, that's what my friend's say.)

2007-01-17 19:27:17 · 20 answers · asked by anthonys152000 1 in Singles & Dating

If I said you had a beautiful body would hold it against me?

2007-01-17 19:26:24 · 8 answers · asked by divingonthemuff 3 in Singles & Dating

SHE HATED ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-17 19:25:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my hubby is not interesting in any activities at bed time. we had no issues and 3 yrs back got married. from the first day itself i'm struggling with him for the bed matter.
is there any ideas to change his mood or idea? I took him to many doctors for councelling. but there is no use. nobody helps me in my family. they are not taking this issue as a big problem.

2007-01-17 19:25:46 · 12 answers · asked by rukku 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He kisses you on the forehead and wants to cuddle after having sex?

2007-01-17 19:25:32 · 12 answers · asked by donna_nova 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 19:24:53 · 14 answers · asked by mmedicer 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 30 year old London guy. The problem is that nice girls either don't seem to go out or they do other things, wherever that might be. Night clubs and dating sites attract a certain breed of people, but not the kind I am looking for. Any one else have the same problems? Any ideas?

2007-01-17 19:24:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my bf have been steady for 1 and a half years now.we want to get married eventually i want to know how we can last so long and how do we convince our parents that we want to spend the rest of our lives together...and by the way my bf's 2 and a half yrs younger to me..will that cause a problem..its not a problem between us though

2007-01-17 19:23:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-17 19:23:17 · 8 answers · asked by Cookie 1 in Singles & Dating

Let's say you meet a guy at a club and he asks you out and you know for sure he likes your boobs. Would you still go out with him?

2007-01-17 19:22:57 · 4 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Singles & Dating

If i hugged you what would you do?

2007-01-17 19:22:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has been dating an average-looking, skinny, shy and quiet guy for three months. He looks like a typically "nice" guy, huh? She was into the guy very much. Sometimes she told me the guy took another girl to concert, asked a different one to teach him to play piano and other things like that. I just told her maybe they were just his friends and not to worry. But one day, she came to me and cried, because that guy told her he had a girlfriend in another city. He was very serious about their relationship and would marry that girl one day. I spent a whole night talking to my friend to make her feel better.

But the very next day, she took the guy home and cooked a dinner for him. She was so nice to him as if nothing ever happened. I couldn't understand it at all. Later my friend asked for my opinion and I told directly that I felt sorry for her and hoped she picked up her dignity. She said very nasty things to me.

2007-01-17 19:22:24 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

My friend has been dating an average-looking, skinny, shy and quiet guy for three months. He looks like a typically "nice" guy, huh? She was into the guy very much. Sometimes she told me the guy took another girl to concert, asked a different one to teach him to play piano and other things like that. I just told her maybe they were just his friends and not to worry. But one day, she came to me and cried, because that guy told her he had a girlfriend in another city. He was very serious about their relationship and would marry that girl one day. I spent a whole night talking to my friend to make her feel better.

But the very next day, she took the guy home and cooked a dinner for him. She was so nice to him as if nothing ever happened. I couldn't understand it at all. Later my friend asked for my opinion and I told directly that I felt sorry for her and hoped she picked up her dignity. She said very nasty things to me.

2007-01-17 19:21:08 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, her race is Malay, I haven't seen her for 2 years for now. She loves to smile, but she don't smile much & never show her teeth in photos. Someday if I fix a date to meet her, I will love to take lots of photos and take a camcorder to video her. Do you think she will smile in photos? Will she show her teeth too? Her teeth is pearly white & straight, like she wore braces before, but she didn't.

2007-01-17 19:20:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-17 19:19:58 · 8 answers · asked by Y 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i still like her despite the fact that she hurt me thinkin what i didn't know wouldn't hurt me...but now i know what she did n i don't know how to react coz i like her so much n despite what she did i don't wonna lose our friendship...i don't think i cud ever find a friend that i value as much as her...how do i teach her a lesson and still keep her as a friend?

2007-01-17 19:19:38 · 10 answers · asked by lilsis 1 in Friends

im 36, 21 years ago I was raped by three black boys.To make matters worse I got pregnate,and because of my parents religious beliefs abortion was not an option.Well 3 months ago I get a call from my sons adoptive parents to let me know he wants to meet me,wow And get this he just found out that hes half white.When his parent called they asked me not to tell him what happend.On his pappers it shows his father to be unknown and therefore I think he thinks I gave him up because I was loose and didnt want a black baby which is furthest from the truth.I've always had a void in my life hopeing and praying he was happy and well taken care of.And he was, He became a police officer and I could'nt be prouder.But I feel its important he knows that i was put in a position that I had know control over. What do you think?

2007-01-17 19:19:15 · 40 answers · asked by Ms.Pickle 3 in Family

I told my cousin she is fat and she needs to go on a diet and she got defensive and i told her i can make 2 me's with one of her..... am i being mean just cuz im worried and so i said something about her weight?

2007-01-17 19:17:50 · 6 answers · asked by GQsmooth 3 in Friends

my boy friend wrote me that im wonderful carin person in his heart and i have beatiful soul, he said should'nt change.i want to know what das it means.

2007-01-17 19:16:58 · 3 answers · asked by maria 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm white with a child mixed with latino me and her dad broke up 3yrs ago but are still friends. Everysince our break i have only wanted to date latino men do u think it is wronge to only want to date one kind of race?

2007-01-17 19:14:58 · 24 answers · asked by ashlee s 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently gave birth and we named our son Damian James. My father and uncle say that his name is "Evil" and he will be picked on a lot in school for this also he refuses to call my son by his name almost seems as though he wants nothing to do with him... he is not a religious person but recenlty he referred to my son as "the boy"... should I let this irritate me? How do I get my father to accept his Grandson?? I have two other children and he seems to love them and treats them normal...

2007-01-17 19:13:39 · 17 answers · asked by h32honey32 1 in Family

Well I'm a sophomore in highschool and he's a junior. I've known him since I was really little but he has this problem where he always either flat out lies about stuff or overexaggerates. But he doesnt lie about big issues he only lies about things dealing with money. LIke he will say he bought this and this for some much when I know he didnt. It's like he thinks I need him to be rich in order to be his friend...like both our families are well off and I just don't understand why he lies like he does!? Am I wrong to like him because he's a pathological liar?

2007-01-17 19:13:00 · 3 answers · asked by Rachel K 2 in Singles & Dating

Listen to rap songs with explicit lyrics { ex. i wanna f*** you, I wanna lick your ***y ect..} and he blast them in his room and she does not care and she lets him watch R movies. She tries not to be strict, but I'm getting fed up with all of it. Is there any way I can tell her that its inappropriate without sounding like a whiny , selfish cry baby? We're a normal family, we live in a good neighborhood and stuff, so we're not disfunctional or anything..

2007-01-17 19:12:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-17 19:08:01 · 14 answers · asked by Curious 5 in Weddings

2007-01-17 19:07:43 · 10 answers · asked by mmedicer 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 19:07:39 · 12 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Marriage & Divorce

No more someone being mean to you, or treating you like an employee. No more belittling or browbeating. After a while, negative nagging people suck the life from ya… Imagine, no more crap. Just work, pets, kids and the garden... Does this sound peaceful to anyone else out here?

2007-01-17 19:06:19 · 16 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Some states, such as New York, also allow married couples to adopt any new surname upon marriage, which may be a hyphenated form of the bride's and groom's names, a combination of parts of their family names, or any new family name they can agree upon adopting as the married name.

2007-01-17 19:06:18 · 6 answers · asked by fuck 3 in Marriage & Divorce