2007-01-17 19:08:01 · 14 answers · asked by Curious 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My opinion is that it's your wedding!!! you can have whatever you want in it. You can march down the aisle to Foxy lady if you want to, I did! There is no set in stone way to how a wedding needs to be. you just need to make it personal so that the 2 of u always remember it w/ fondness. Maybe u & ur fiance could discuss having a male friend or relative of urs as a bestman. Good luck & congratulations
2007-01-17 20:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by f23bunnie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are having a best man without a maid of Honor. Husband to be wants his brother as his best man were as I am having my 3 cousins and I can't choice one over the other so they are all just bridesmaids. You do what you want. It's your day. I doubt anyone would even notice. We just did what feels right for us and I have no regrets or concerns about it.
2007-01-17 21:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by jenifajen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will be very strange not to have a best man, but that is your choice I guess. Of course having a maid of honor is okey with or without a best man
2007-01-17 19:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by trykindness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your wedding and if you want a maid of honor, then you can have one. Don't worry about the best man being absent.
2007-01-17 19:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok.
And that remonds me of a joke that you might enjoy during the wedding planning period.
A newly married couple and bunch of guests at a wedding were brought to a court early morning for charges of roudy behaviour, fighting, disrupting peace, and damaging private properties.
The judge asked what happened and everybody started to talk simultaneously. so judge asked the best man to come forward and described what happened?
Well sir, the best mans started to narrate, we were at the wedding reception and as a custom I asked for the bride to dance with me. Well I accept the dance continued for a little too long, but then suddenly the groom came forward and kicked the bride hard in ther crotch.
Oh that must have hurt her, the judge commented.
Yes sir, the best man replied, and it broke two of my fingers too.
2007-01-17 20:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by AnSID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever you decide is fine there are no wrong answers on your guys big day if it's what you want and if your friends are your friends they should understand. if it's that your having a hard time choosing a best man or maid/matron of honor you can do like we did and have them all be. then no one is mad that you didn't pick them.
2007-01-17 19:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by D.W. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it certainly is. If my groom doesn't make up his mind soon about who his Best Man is going to be, I may be in the same boat!
2007-01-18 04:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats kind of wierd for him not to have a best man...but no personally I think it would look kind of wierd to have a maid of honor and no best man
2007-01-17 19:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by fruitloopsinabox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of direction that's ok, you may desire to p.c.. who you're closest to. that's not a mind-blowing to be your MOH and Bestman purely because of the fact you have been hers that doesn't truly look common to me. EDIT: To Karen supply me one sturdy clarification why kin might desire to continuously come first? My fiance's kin stinks. He has been living with my kin for 5 years because of the fact his mom kicked him out while he replace into 19 because of the fact he asked some money he had loaned her so he might desire to discover the money for college books. His brother (who replace into the bestman) needed the finished wedding ceremony his way because of the fact he's scuffling with together with his father and alter into insisting his dad could not come everywhere close to him and refused to additionally be at any of the events if his father got here. while my fiance reported that doesn't paintings and he had a option to be there for him or he can renounce because of the fact the terrific guy. His brother resigned and advised his mom and something of her kin that my fiance kicked him out of the marriage occasion. Now my fiance's mom and her finished fringe of the kin are not coming. My element is kin isn't continuously there for you they are actually not continuously stable purely because of the fact they're blood it makes no confirm that they are going to act like kin might desire to. So why might desire to kin be chosen purely because of the fact you share a bloodline?
2016-10-07 08:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him why he doesnt want any and if his reason applies also to you then don't have a maid of honor.
2007-01-17 21:44:56 · answer #10 · answered by ina31806 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋