My friend has been dating an average-looking, skinny, shy and quiet guy for three months. He looks like a typically "nice" guy, huh? She was into the guy very much. Sometimes she told me the guy took another girl to concert, asked a different one to teach him to play piano and other things like that. I just told her maybe they were just his friends and not to worry. But one day, she came to me and cried, because that guy told her he had a girlfriend in another city. He was very serious about their relationship and would marry that girl one day. I spent a whole night talking to my friend to make her feel better.
But the very next day, she took the guy home and cooked a dinner for him. She was so nice to him as if nothing ever happened. I couldn't understand it at all. Later my friend asked for my opinion and I told directly that I felt sorry for her and hoped she picked up her dignity. She said very nasty things to me.
2007-01-17 19:21:08 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For example, She sympasized me a lot because I couldn't have sex as often as her(At that time I was on a long distance relationship with my husband).
Ever since then, we were never like before. Sometimes I'm wondering whether I'm wrong for being so direct. But she asked for my advice. Maybe I should always say "Don't worry" as I used to!
2007-01-17 19:21:22 · update #1
Sometimes men and women will settle for anything and anyone so their not alone, The sad part of it is that their more lonely, I don't understand why so many would settle for being second best. Your friend will soon realize this and I hope will come back and talk to you again and tell you that she is sorry, Until then, you'll have to wait. Unless you want to call and speak to her, she might need a friend real soon.
2007-01-17 19:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Diana J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the truth hurts. Your friend better learn to accept the truth, to be in denial she is only hurting herself. Life will be her best teacher.
2007-01-18 03:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know you were only thinking about her feelings and if she is happy being the "other woman"so be it, but shes probably not the only one.
2007-01-18 03:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Tazz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋