I am soft, gentle and caring and men seem to respect me, but the louder girls all seem to have more boyfriends. Why?
2007-01-17 22:13:51 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally, I like the soft, gentle women that know how to have fun.
I think the guys you're talking about are attracted to the loud women because they grab their attention. Quiet women seem to be shy and therefore won't initiate conversation. Be more proactive. You'll find "him" eventually.
2007-01-17 22:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, men like women to be women. Soft and gentle is nice but it does not hurt to be a little outgoing, have an opinion as long as it is not more important than anyone elses. => Swearing, rough, loud women only get the guys you probably would want in the long run.
2007-01-17 22:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said the Key Word. "Boyfriends". Once you grow older. You see us wanting women, who are honest. If the rough stuff is staged. We can sense that. If you are actually a soft Woman. It's very appealing. Stick to who you are. You'll come out a Winner, in the long run.
2007-01-17 22:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gentle rough calloused hands
2016-03-14 07:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a soft woman in bed, and a loud one for a drinkin' buddy ! Getting laid is just a bonus
2007-01-17 22:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll tell you why... women who are like this are almost always to shy, zero self confidence and afraid... think about how you approach guys verses how a louder girl will... a louder girl will put herself out there un afraid of rejection, her self confidence will be higher because she is uninhibited... soft women usually hide and don't have the nerve to be different or unexpected... you need to break out of that shell your in and maybe be a little of both.. It is not bad to be the way you are and it is admirable to be yourself but you need to get out of the closure that your under and dare to be different :) :) :)
2007-01-17 22:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like your type.....see now you can add another boyfriend to your list....he,he...juz joking!!!
Actually all this depends on ones taste for relationship....some like tall women, some like short, some like chubby ones, some like thin ones, some like stern type, some like soft type......thats all....
Being yourslf is the best way......let people like the real you (the way you really are).....
Good Luck and Tc!!!
2007-01-17 22:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by SATJ12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love those girl next door type, which fits you well. My only answer about the louder girls is that they are probably more aggressive and go for what they want, while you are probably too shy to approach a man.
2007-01-17 22:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by Blake B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They shud feel interested in u. If ur qualifications show that u wud like to be handled with care, the men will definitely be put off.
2007-01-17 22:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the soft and gental women. women like that are much nicer to cuddle with in front of a nice fire on the davenport, watchen the snow fall, with a nice glass of wine, or other drink you prefer.
2007-01-18 01:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by Roger L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋