my boyfriend is so busyyy with his job i hate it. he said he do that for me and him, but thats makes me feel lonely sometimes, if you were me, what would u do?
2007-01-17 22:02:37 · 11 answers · asked by Shemei Carter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find something else to do while he is working like hang out wih your friends or go to the mall and spend his money he is working so hard for.
2007-01-17 22:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to him calmly without shouting and tell him it really upsets you.
You appreciate that he is working hard for you both, but you do need quality time with him too.
If he genuinely cares for you and your happiness, he will make time for you.
Suggest a scheduled evening where you 2 do something you like, go out for a meal, go to the cinema, stay in with a takeaway and a dvd - but it's only for you 2, no work, no work talk, just relaxing quality time.
If he has a busy schedule he will find it easier to accomodate couple time with you if you have an agreed date and time.
2007-01-17 22:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you the same girl who asked if you were ugly? You have a boyfriend? I doubt he thinks you are ugly. The fact that you have a bf means you can't be the ugliest person in the world.
As for his time. There isn't much you can do. Support him in what he does. It is a job, it is something he has to do. Why are you so worried about yourself. Why don't you think about him? Let him worry about you.
2007-01-17 22:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by The Stig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u dont have 2 complain bcoz u aware of always busy with is job b4 u get mary 2 him pls bear with d c2ation and always tell him ur fellings, some men outside are fool there not read 2 plan with u dan 2 go 2 bed u and later down grad u, and im very sure he luv u tell him ur felling he we change pls be wise.
2007-01-17 22:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by saheed a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you unhappy in the short term, it will make you unhappy in the long term too. Find someone who will put a time priority on you. Time is everyone's most valuable commodity. If you find someone who wants to spend alot of time with you, you've found someone who loves you!
2007-01-17 22:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is truly at work and you can verify the hours...support his butt...he is a winner...would you perfer a broke, doing nothing loser...we need to make our minds up....Get the ring and marry him, that's what you do! Oh and get a job! If you don't want him, about 1 million other woman will after you told the world he is "working" and hard at that!!!>????? duh!!!
2007-01-17 22:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by aprildin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u can reduce his load by earning urself.
2007-01-17 22:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it.
2007-01-17 22:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by Chef Ralph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another one
2007-01-17 22:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by Martin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best learn to live with it...that's what i would do...
2007-01-18 02:59:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋