Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

where are places that I can register for gifts for my quinceanera?

2007-01-16 15:34:35 · 6 answers · asked by liontiver1992 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, i dated this guy back in high school, and we broke up in 2004 and i was really upset about it, and then in 2005, a friend and i were talking about it and apparently i said some pretty bad things about my ex to the friend i was talking to. Well, now me and my ex are back together and have been dating for almost 3 months, and we're really happy, but today, the friend that i had apparently said something bad about my ex to, brought that up, and said that it was funny that me & my ex were back together considering how much i was a ***** talking about him behind his back, and i talked to my mom about it and she said she remembered me talking bad about him in 2005 because i was so upset. Now im afraid that my friend will bring up the fact that i used to talk crap about my ex behind his back (even though i dont remember it) and cause problems between us now. things are going so perfect and i dont want to mess things up. Alot of people say things they dont mean when mad.What should i do

2007-01-16 15:33:57 · 5 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been going out with a guy for 1yr. This guy is divorced and has 2 kids. At the beginning of our relationship everything was good, as in every relationship I guess. The guy was even thinking in moving in with me way before I thought about it but then months into the relationship I was feeling a little insecure because I was noticing that whenever I would playfully hit him or bite him he would do the same. It's like he would never let himself so I was feeling like maybe he would turn out to be some type of abuser; so I went behind his back to ask the ex about him and she said no, that he never beat her so when my boyfriend found out what I did he broke if off with me. I think he felt betrayed but ever since then we got back together but it's like he doesn't fully trust me now and he said that because of this trust issue he has with me that he can't move in with me right now but I think it's just an excuse and maybe he's not that into me; yet he tells me "I love u" all the time.

2007-01-16 15:32:53 · 9 answers · asked by bettygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I know society is sometimes not the most accepting in relationships especially those of homosexuals and interracials. Out of curosity... what do you feel is more acceptable by society: a woman dating a man 1 or 2 years younger or a woman dating a man 8-10 years older? Also, I am actually a supporter of homosexual relationships and interracial relationships, but do you think people are more judgemental on homosexual or interracial relationships? I am in an interracial relationship and I don't think I've ever given a second thought to people in them, but I just think people in general hate them more than homo relationships. ... these are just some things that has been on my mind. Please feel free to answer one or both of these questions with your honest opinions.

2007-01-16 15:32:34 · 3 answers · asked by Annoy1 2 in Singles & Dating

It seems that if a woman is not ready to commit to marraige, people in church look down on it as though she must be hiding a fornicational sin with some lover in secret. I never hear of men being wrong for taking their time to get married, but if a woman in church is independant, they are snubbed. Anyone understand why this independent woman is so judged?

2007-01-16 15:32:21 · 13 answers · asked by java348 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 30 and getting married but not sure who should pay for a wedding if I've been out of my parents house since I was 21. I don't make alot of money but my parents are loaded! Should I assume I'm paying and wait for them to offer?

2007-01-16 15:31:53 · 36 answers · asked by jordan1079 2 in Weddings

ok my boy issue is this:

i have met a friend when i started schooland like i like him.he is sooooo cute!!! i really wanna ask him out but im afraird he`ll turn me down and it might ruin our friendship....please help!!!

2007-01-16 15:31:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

going to see my girlfriend and want to get her something cool, not flowers. any ideas?

2007-01-16 15:29:58 · 12 answers · asked by Mark R 1 in Singles & Dating

Don't want to cheat... But looking to have fun over the web with sexy wives who are as frustrated as I am.

2007-01-16 15:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by James B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have an older cousin who only pays attention to another one of my cousins who is a littleolder than me (couple o years)
i feel sad/jealous

2007-01-16 15:29:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

pano ba?

2007-01-16 15:29:48 · 21 answers · asked by crimson pain 1 in Singles & Dating

I liked this guy about a year ago and we never got together only because I was scared (My ex cheated on me) Now a couple months after that I knew I made a mistake, told him I liked him but he then had a g/f but still liked me. Slowly we stopped talking just because of his relationship. Now he randomly pops into my head and I cant help but think I made a mistake. I miss him so much and know we'd be great together. Even if I wanted to contact him I lost his number and hes never online. My only hope is running into him at school. We go to the same community college. My question is, am I crazy for still having feelings?

2007-01-16 15:29:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl but i dont know what to do. what can i do to show her that i like her??

2007-01-16 15:29:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend just got engaged this past weekend, and we had been knowing that it was coming, but hadn't wanted to jinx things by trying to get ahead on the planning. We live in Texas and and she is wanting to have it in Aug of this year in either Louisianna or Florida. I dont really mind traveling, but I know that the farter away it is the harder it will be to plan it. I am already dieting so that I can fit into any dress she wants to pick for me and really want to do the best job that I can as her maid-of-honor I just dont really know what to do or how to do it. How not to overstep the bounds but take enough control that she is not stressed out. I know it sounds like I am just being overly paranoid but this is my best friend and I want the best for her. Any help?

2007-01-16 15:28:43 · 11 answers · asked by kellie_new_mom25 2 in Weddings

We used to be extremely close, and I don't want to hurt her, but she is being very negative about anything to do with my wedding. I have tried to talk about how I feel with her, but she always becomes very defensive, and turns the tables on me. How do I involve her in the wedding, such as answering her questions about plans, and still avoid hurting either of us?

2007-01-16 15:28:22 · 8 answers · asked by Missing 3 in Weddings

I've heard that women in the Caribbean and Pacific Islanders are desperate for good men, especially American men. It’s known that American men are generally feminized and subservient, mostly due in part to the controlling American women and their dominance in western culture and society. I’ve also been told that Caribbean and Pacific men, like those in other more primitive cultures, both in south and central America as well as Europe and Asia, are domineering, controlling and undeniably aggressive in their relationships with their women. The women in the islands say that American men are more passive, kinder, yet more refined regarding their passion and outward roles as a marriage partner. They’re reportedly in demand for good husbands. Some even say that American men are deprived of their deserved traditional subservient partner’s behavior, most common and traditional within their cultures, and apparently something that used to exist here. Even more, the exhausting dating “mind games”, which exist here, are not obstructed issues which get in the way of love, people say. In addition, women out number men, sometimes 5 to 1, in ratio. Seems that would help. Any one know if it would be a good move to seek an island girl?

2007-01-16 15:28:02 · 6 answers · asked by cpinkfloyd 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy awhile ago in one of my classes. I had a crush on him, but Im really shy. We small talked but nothing ever amounted to anything. so over the course of the past 4 yrs, Ive bumped into him on several occasions; the mall, parties, even on the road (and no Im not stalking him, haha) but was always too shy to really strike up a convo. But we are friends on myspace and I wrote him a message once to see how his summer was going and we wrote back and forth but I ended the message chain w/ 'maybe i'll see ya around' or something to that effect. then i heard he had a gf at that time and so I felt stupid and pretty much tried to forget what i did. Until recently I heard they broke up and he is single again. I dont see our mutual friend very much so I cant get the scoop w/o looking creepy. His bday is coming up and I was thinking to myspace him 'happy birthday' but Im scared it will look like I'm trying too hard or that i'm just flat out nuts? am Im trying to force something here?

2007-01-16 15:27:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well , i have lost intrest into him and i reallly dont want to i really love him to death but i have a feeling that we dont click anymore. he dosnt think of it that way . he never wants anything to happen to us, that is the really hard part of it all. he is my best friend too. please help!?!

2007-01-16 15:27:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband is to embarrised to go to the doctor and find out why his penis is not working...I am only 28 and I feel bad that he is going threw this but he doesnt want to fix it.
I am almost ready to cheat and I know thats wrong but what else can I do I cant take it anymore.
what can i do to make him go to doc.

2007-01-16 15:27:36 · 9 answers · asked by kelley 1 in Singles & Dating

In love making, is it beeter to give or to recieve?.

2007-01-16 15:26:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does this question have a positive answer?

2007-01-16 15:26:00 · 3 answers · asked by Slevin Kelevra 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 15:25:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 15:24:51 · 46 answers · asked by anthony f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've had Insomnia for over three years now. It comes and goes, whenever I'm stressed, which just happens to be now as I've got my final year uni exams!!

At the most I'm getting one hour a night - it's torture. My doctor reluctantly prescribes me sleeping pills but I can't have one tonight as I won't be able to get up for uni tomorrow!!

Times like this make me miss my ex....we were only together a few months, but he'd always stay up with me and we'd talk about anything and everything.

I haven't heard from him now for five weeks- he just dropped me without explanation. Obviously I was played as I'm fairly sure he's with someone else...still can't believe it as everything was going great -we were so into each other. Hey....maybe my Insomnia DID bother him after all, ha ha!!!

OK, rant over. Feel better now I've had a moan. How's everyone else doing?

2007-01-16 15:24:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy and things were going great. We would share music, he would bring me small presents, I would cook for him, we would go shopping; he would talk about the stuff we could do in the next few months, etc. It was cool. I really liked him. Then, we had a disagreement: I wanted to see him and he agreed but he never called to say he couldn't make it so I wrote him a nasty email (not nice of me, I know). He stopped calling me - I guess because he was upset. I kept calling him and when he eventually picked up, I thought we settled the score. But still, no calls. Then, out of the blue, he calls me one day to ask me if I wanted to go shopping, so I said okay... and when the time came, I had to call him to find out that something else came up. I was pissed, but I said nothing. Now I don't call and he doesn't call. I recently wrote him a heartfelt apology letter for the things I said in the email (I said he was unreliable and he had no integrity - ouch). Do you think all hipe is lost?

2007-01-16 15:23:38 · 11 answers · asked by Krysta 2 in Singles & Dating

I keep looking at this guy who goes to the same place I go to for recreation. We do things in a group and we are well aware of each other. I met him in the summer and I have known him to be like a brother to me... until one day something happend. I start dreaming about us being in a relationship together. On Christmas Eve, I dreamed about him picking out a ring and we were shopping together. Then I dreamed about us being at the recretional facility together and I said to another person, "I like the was he looks at me. He looks at me like I a little boy who just got candy or a new toy. One time, he smiled and told me he missed me. Then when I am around him, I can't talk to him. Sentence fragment come out of my mouth and can't think properly. Then I end up looking like and idiot in front of him. I wake up thinking about him contently in the morning and when I fall asleep and I want the best for him. Could I be falling in love for the first time?

2007-01-16 15:23:26 · 4 answers · asked by Melissa Svetlana Flavored Coffee 3 in Friends

I get so tired of hearing all these questions about interracial dating. Should it matter who we decide to date or fall in love with? I also get tired of white or non-black women insulting black women. I am a white woman with a ton of beautiful black friends. They are all inshape, educated with no children and high classed. The black and the white guys I know want them, so ppl stop acting like black men don't like black women, or vice-versa. All it is, is an opportunity for people to cause division between the races.

To the people who say that black women are non-desirable. That is a got damn lie. At my university there are many black women with black men, hell us white girls can't even get a black guy where I live. They are all taken. People should stop trying to get attention. White women please stop being jealous over asian women. They did not do anything to you, so stop being jealous. People don't you think, life is to short to continue with the hate, lies and jealousies?

2007-01-16 15:23:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-16 15:22:49 · 16 answers · asked by Dwyane 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 15:22:47 · 5 answers · asked by ATLANTA FALCONS 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 15:22:12 · 19 answers · asked by GreenEyezBilly 1 in Singles & Dating