Okay, i dated this guy back in high school, and we broke up in 2004 and i was really upset about it, and then in 2005, a friend and i were talking about it and apparently i said some pretty bad things about my ex to the friend i was talking to. Well, now me and my ex are back together and have been dating for almost 3 months, and we're really happy, but today, the friend that i had apparently said something bad about my ex to, brought that up, and said that it was funny that me & my ex were back together considering how much i was a ***** talking about him behind his back, and i talked to my mom about it and she said she remembered me talking bad about him in 2005 because i was so upset. Now im afraid that my friend will bring up the fact that i used to talk crap about my ex behind his back (even though i dont remember it) and cause problems between us now. things are going so perfect and i dont want to mess things up. Alot of people say things they dont mean when mad.What should i do
2007-01-16 15:33:57 · 5 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be the first to tell him that it happened. I am sure that he will understand how upset you were, and he will forgive you.
2007-01-16 15:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by elcidiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that your ex (or not ex) have come to realize that what happened is in the past and forgotten and tell you big mouth friend not to mention it again. But if your "friend" does mention it and you have already sorted the mess out, then there should be no problem.
2007-01-16 23:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should be honest and talk to your man. Explain what happened and that you said those things only out of hurt and that you are really happy to be back together. I would tell him you want to be honest and would rather him hear it from you and not anyone else. Good luck I hope it all works out for you. If he hears it from someone else your new happiness may be over. So be honest and talk to him.
2007-01-16 23:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by D Wade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him that you you were very upset when yall broke up and you probably talk a lota crap about him. but it was just because you were so hurt. Tell him that you wanted to be the one to tell you.... not someone else.
2007-01-16 23:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Amberlee :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust your boyfriend, then just tell him what's going on.
Explain that you were upset, and that you didn't mean it.
If he dosen't believe you, then don't bother.
2007-01-16 23:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Nobody 08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋