I liked this guy about a year ago and we never got together only because I was scared (My ex cheated on me) Now a couple months after that I knew I made a mistake, told him I liked him but he then had a g/f but still liked me. Slowly we stopped talking just because of his relationship. Now he randomly pops into my head and I cant help but think I made a mistake. I miss him so much and know we'd be great together. Even if I wanted to contact him I lost his number and hes never online. My only hope is running into him at school. We go to the same community college. My question is, am I crazy for still having feelings?
2007-01-16 15:29:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The good news is: you aren't crazy because you still have feelings for him.
The bad news is: yes, you may be insane.
2007-01-16 15:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by detroit al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!,
You are not crazy for having feelings, i f i was in your shoes,i would be probably the same.
Since you both like each other, actually there is only problem being his relationship, you could bump into him at college, you folks could go out for a quiet lunch or something and you could probably know by his talks whether his current relationship is just a going out thing or not.
I think if he is really into the relationship he is presently into he wont join you for lunch when you ask him too, but if he does, you still probably have a chance, talk with him, and you will know for sure.
If he does have feelings for you, be assured with very little time you folks will be together, whomsoever relationship is on the way .
I know you folks can be together, you even sound great together, so go for it, be happy, fall in love all over again.
2007-01-16 23:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by Kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex cheated on you so you avoided relationships in order not to be hurt again. Is this guy now attractive to you because deep down you know you cant have him because he is now with a g/f. Sometimes when we dont want to be hurt we develop measures as a means of self protecting and often chase what we know in reality we cant have. This often leads to heartache, get some counselling and find out if you really want this guy or you are blocking opportunities by those that are available due to past experience
2007-01-16 23:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not crazy for having feelings, but you're setting yourself up for another heartache. I think you need to examine why you keep pursuing men who are 1) cheaters, or 2) involved with someone else. If this guy were to cheat on his g/f with you, he would be another cheater. Why would you want to be with someone who would do to a girl what your b/f did to you? Plus, remembering how hurt you were when your b/f did that, why would you want to cause someone else that pain? Try to concentrate on someone who is good for you, rather than someone who is bound to hurt you again.
2007-01-16 23:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by hop0409 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO U R NOT CRAZY FOR STILL HAVING FEELINGS BUT HE HAS A`G/F DONT CROSS THAT LINE BECAUS WHAT GOES AROUND SURELY COMES AROUND LOOK AT IT THIS WAY U R IN A RELATIONSHIP AND SOMEONE LIKES YOUR MAN THAT WOULD NOT FEEL GOOD 2 U SO DONT PUT ANY1 ELSE N A SITUATION THAT U DO NOT WANT TO BE IN
2007-01-16 23:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by I DESERVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not crazy i admire you for taking on such a dare that takes guts! He could come back in your life or he could be just the one who you learned not to keep your feeling bottled up..but your just human
2007-01-16 23:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by jocelyn s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals ... but depending on how deep the wound is that is how much time it will take for the wound to heal ... I guess your not over the guy just yet ... maybe give it some time .. you are human with feelings and its normal.
2007-01-16 23:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by talent4god 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this isnt something I would ask on yahoo questions....just go with your own feelings
2007-01-16 23:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah there is always that one that got away and we wonder what if?
2007-01-16 23:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NOT AT ALL. YOUR JUST HUMAN GURL. IF IT IS MENT TO BE IT WILL
2007-01-16 23:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by Nisey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋