Then last October 2006, he cheated on me and had sex with another woman, continued communication with her although end of November when he said he stopped. Talked things over with father-in-law and a pastor, I forgave him and said we would try to work things out.
Mid of December, I found out that he lied again and that they have not stopped communicating. He even talked about divorce and them marrying. That was the last straw and last night, I talked to him, more like sobbed to him that it’s over. I am divorcing him. He kept asking me to give us another try and work things out. I told him it’s too late. There’s no trust anymore and I cannot keep on living like this.
We will be married for 4 years by May 2007. I know it probably sounds absurd but maybe I want some input or maybe some words that I am in the right track: Get a divorce. However, I am afraid. Afraid of being alone, yet afraid of being miserably married. Afraid of loving and trusting again.
2007-01-13
08:50:10
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ohioan_femme
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Marriage & Divorce