ive been going out with this guy for 1 year now but suddenly all he wants to do is have sex... i love him and he loves me but i cant take it anymore...i mean we do it almost everyday. HELP!
2007-01-13 08:43:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and my fiance do it 2-3 times a day...why complain? just go with it as long as yall are both still doing other things together and having a good time. if you dont want to have sex, just tell him. other than that, i dont see the problem!
2007-01-13 08:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by Love my Family <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont see what the problem here is exactly im a guy so i would know! im pretty sure he does love you, its just an urge that we guys just have sex feels good anyways so whats there to complaint about! well just tell him that it bothers you and he should understand but dont stop completly that might bother him were very senstive! or to be honest if you give him oral sex then sex after that will keep him good for maybe 3 days tell him that he will get that every 3-4 days if he waits! patience has its reward it worked for me and my wife!!!
2007-01-13 08:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by puteis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I am not trying to be your mom of anything", But!...
In a relationship I believe trust,support,honesty,commitment,loyalty,passion,desire,through good times and bad. Sex is optional and you can do other things besides that. Hanging out and doing other romantic things together, like before you were even intimate what were you doing before, start it out like that again. Life is given, love is optional, but you can change all that based on your beliefs.
Live, laugh, and enjoy life because soon before you know it will pass us by.Besides, if you two were married it may be different or planning on to. We all were born by ourselves does not mean we have to have a man to survive...be independent.ASk him: You can separate from him for a couple of days , and say to him this is how life will be without me in it.! Talk to him and if he accepts what you want hes a keepa and if he don't, wow like the saying goes"hit the road jack".
****Respect yourself,love yourself because if you won't do it who will.****!
**When you do those things you will know whats right in your heart not just that but in your mind to.
2007-01-13 11:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by princess1class05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do?first have a talk with him about this.if he love you as much as you loved hi he might consider about that sex matter and maybe he can control himself.try to use a good words about it.it just to make sure that he didnt feel harsh.if nothing happen or he get agry...just take your *** away fro him.thats it!!!theres a lot of guys out there babe...who really caresabout love and not only sex...sex just the way you express your love to your patner...its not the main thing in relationship...think about it!!
2007-01-13 08:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by silent writer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'm going to be honest...dudes really dig sex. It'll probably go on like this until he reaches his mid-40s or so.
Either buck up and tell him "no"...and if he sticks around it's all good. If he bails, he's a douche-bag.
Good luck.
2007-01-13 08:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by tkatt00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another boyfriend. This guy has you wrapped around his....!
Finger? You made a mistake by letting him get to you in the first place.
2007-01-13 08:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Bigdog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy, if he is good, wait until you get married i just say the desert is nothing compared Marriage sex....lol
2007-01-13 08:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by m_faery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not real love. He is going to get bored soon and things are not going to end well.
2007-01-13 08:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another b/c one day if u don't want 2 do what u do he might get very series and hit u
2007-01-13 08:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by ~sharmo~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's just using you. If he loved you, he wouldn't pressure you if you didn't wanna do it so much. You should do what's right for you.
2007-01-13 08:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋