Today for example, I got drunk and made out with a perfectly attractive girl, but I was much more preoccupied with someone I like. I asked this person what they thought of me, and they just liked me as a friend, however I find myself alot more interested in her than the girl that wanted me.
This is a common cycle I find myself going through in a way. I'm attracted to people whom : Treat me like ****, or just like me as a friend.
Rather than people who actually want me. how can I deal with this?
2007-01-13 08:41:03 · 8 answers · asked by emotionallychallenged 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Today for example, I got drunk and made out with a perfectly attractive girl, but I was much more preoccupied with someone I like. I asked this person what they thought of me, and they just liked me as a friend, however I find myself alot more interested in her than the girl that wanted me.
This is a common cycle I find myself going through in a way. I'm attracted to people whom : Treat me like ****, or just like me as a friend.
Rather than people who actually want me. how can I deal with this?
Its got nothing to do with being drunk, its an occurrence drunk or not, so none of that "don't be a drunkard" lark.
2007-01-13 09:11:40 · update #1
You just have to have patience. It happens to us sometimes...we'll go through periods (months or years) where we have a hard time meeting someone with whom there is a mutual desire to date.
Enjoy your life regardless...when you meet someone you dig, who digs you back, it just makes everything a little sweeter. ☺
2007-01-13 08:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, i hate to tell you this, but if you routinely get drunk, why would anyone want to be with you other than to leech your money off you for drinking and drugs?
second, i think you should not impose such strict standards on yourself as to the "type" of woman you like. it is hard to do, particularly if you are only going on looks. but the way someone looks is caused by the roll of the dice called genes. and, the exterior is just a shell that holds that unique individual that each one of us is. maybe a different "sort," if you open yourself up to looking at all "types" of women instead of just one, will grow to love you.
but really, and self-respecting and loving woman really does not want any involvement with a fella that boozes his life away. most men hate women that get drunk. so think about why they do. most women want stability, not a man that cannot even think because he is drunk. it is possible that the ones you are attracted to treat you like s*** because your drunken behavior is atrocious.
2007-01-13 16:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by Louiegirl_Chicago 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont wanna be rude...but here are some tips that *I* think would make you better:
1. stop getting drunk
2. be selective of who u choose (none of these one-night stands)
3. make it seem like u could care less about her (until she likes u)
4. act confident, secure, manly, intelligent and have and idea where ur going in life
5. get into some clubs/hobbies/sports
Im pretty sure that'll make a difference. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-13 16:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by justmyinput 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bamma say all men have this problem. Bamma say he want Jewel. Bamma say she only want to be friend. Bamma tired of writing song for her. Bamma say he need feeling back. Bamma say she put out soon. Bamma say he out door. Bamma say he tired of footprints on back. Bamma say maybe he just dream all that. Bamma otta know.
2007-01-13 16:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way. Keep looking... The right one will show up.
2007-01-13 16:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by Kelso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn straight, move on and find u another lay. That chick ain't into u.
2007-01-13 16:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't worry just wait it out and that just a friend could turn into more.
2007-01-13 16:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by punk girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
poor baby
2007-01-13 16:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋