Does he like me or her?

Question

ok long story I like this guy trevor(yeah my ex) and we went to the movies last night with some other ppl one was his other ex Dani Im not sure if he likes her or notbut im pretty sure he likes me.because like he was being funny and I was like "you dont love me anymore" like just joking and he said "belive me I do" and then like when he wanted to go sit with the rest of the people(me him and our other friends colotn were sitting 3 rows behind him) I said I was gonna stay back but he should go but he came back and say next to me also I wanted him to tell me somthing so I was like if you dont I will give you a kiss and he said I dont care so I kissed him on the cheek and he stil wouldnt tell me so I kissed him agian and then I said if you tell me I will give you another kiss and he said Ive already had two so I said I would do it on the lips and he told me so I was like do I owe you a kiss and he said I dont care so I did and then him and colton were trying to get popcorn down my shirt and trevor said if colton could get it down my shirt he would get it but then they spilt the popcorn lol but when he was like all depressed he wouldnt tell me why but then Dani asked him and they went and talked and I was like walking around and then i saw them like hugging for like forever..........Im not sure if he likes me or her

Answer 1

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 2

It appears that he likes you and he is not sure if your playful flirting is you liking him. He probably was talking to his ex about his frustration with the other guys that ruined the moment. The hug was just comfort. It only seemed like it lasted forever because you have an invested interest in him and jealousy tends to lengthen moments that arent long at all. Try doing something that interest the both of you and not bring anyone else along. Go somewhere that wouldnt seem off from normal activities...a fair or an amusment park, a casual, unofficial date so that you can read his body language and the way he talks to you without anyone present. Try not to do any playful flirting so he doesnt get signals crossed. if you are sure of the way he feels tell him how you feel.

Answer 3

Oh sweetie...what grade are you in? I'm hoping middle school at least if you are kissing and having pop corn thrown down your shirt. My advice, is try not to get too focused on boys. If you and Dani are friends try to focus on that. Then you will tell each other how you feel about this kid and you won't hurt each others feelings. I'd say he's not worth your time if he is being so sneaky...he's your ex for a reason I'm sure. Move on. It's not like you are going to marry him. Try to get good grades and be the best person you can be. If you are true to yourself and proud of who you are then all the boys in school will like you and you can have your pick.
Ask your mom or other family members for advice, they know you best.
Good luck.

Answer 4

Hmm. I think he's playing you both. Move on.
I mean if he liked you, he'd tell you and be all over you. But sicne both you and this Dani chick are his 'ex's' he can just play you both and get all the kisses and hugs without the commitment of actually being with either one of you. I mean, you could ASK him and see what he says. But if he's being this shady I would just walk away.