Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

Recently, I let my partner, of three months, in on secret that very few people know; indeed, only my family are conscious. I told her that the informtation is strictly between her and I; I felt she needed to know to make a decision regarding if she still wanted to be with me. She wasn't phased by what I told her; she simply said 'that it is a personal choice, but just take care when you're doing it'. Indeed, I educated her about the pros and cons of it. I thought that was the end of it.
I met her mother for the first time last week and I felt extremely bad vibes emanating. I questioned my partner about it and she acknowledged that she had told her mother and brother. I reacted with a sense of calm, but I was infuriated. She completely broke my trust, and because of society's perception of what I do, I didn;t want anyone knowing. It hurts that you place a certain degree of trust in someone that you care for deeply, and then they betray that trust. What do you believe I should do?

2007-01-13 12:41:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My Partner and I seem to argue alot, and it is usually over the stupid things, when we don't argue we get along so well and have a wonderful relationship, this time the argument has lasted 4 days and he says his feelings for me have been turned off, I know I do start some of the arguements but it does take 2 to tangle. I love him with all my heart and don't wont to lose him, we have a appointment with a theripist this coming week, I hope it isn't to late. What can I do to get him to turn his feelings back on? PLEASE HELP.
What is the best way to not argue? What can we do? We have a very bad communication problem also. When I say things he takes them the wrong way. I just want it to stop? Any suggestions?

2007-01-13 12:41:52 · 7 answers · asked by blueeyes24 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I needs some suggestions on colors for my wedding!! I'm having trouble deciding.

2007-01-13 12:40:48 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

does anyone know any where to have an outdoor wedding for cheap in Texas. We do not want a church wedding but we are also on a strict bugdet. We are looking for something under $400. I am located about 80 miles north east of Dallas in Sulphur springs. Other cities near are greenville, winnsboro, tyler or mt vernon.

2007-01-13 12:40:43 · 6 answers · asked by nodesignerdogs4me 4 in Weddings

I liked her before I dated my ex but was too scared to ask her out because I cared about her so much. Broke up with my ex five months ago after dating for a year and a half. Spent the day with my ex's sister and it was magical. It wasn't even a date but it was one of the best dates of my life. She cooked e dinner and we watched a dvd and it was so awesome. My ex is one of my closest friends and I don't know if asking out her sister would be wise. Opinions please.

2007-01-13 12:40:20 · 12 answers · asked by Keplaz 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so,
Theres this guy I like, my brother told him I liked him since there friends and then my brother asked him if he likes me and he said that he said yes. but I got a couple of my guy friends, that are his friend, to ask him if he likes me, but they said he said no, but then again, the guys who asked him like me, but they said they would never lie to me,
Who should I trust? My brother or my friends?

2007-01-13 12:40:08 · 15 answers · asked by Rawrr; 1 in Singles & Dating

She added me and we didnt know each other..i tell her i think shes pretty fine and she responds by telling me she thinks im pretty good too! so i say "lets get to know each other, this is my aim address" and we talked for the first time today on aim, but we dont have **** to say. i really want something to happen but what should i say and/or talk about? Thanks

2007-01-13 12:40:06 · 9 answers · asked by Tha A-Train 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 12:40:00 · 16 answers · asked by Terrence R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-13 12:38:56 · 10 answers · asked by laafters 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I have known since September and ever since i've met him I feel safe around him and that I can actually be myself. Also, me and him talk to each other everyday and I feel at times we connect. He's usually to himself, because he doesn't trust anyone so I don't dig it out of him. I just tell him he can talk to me any time. And the thing is that everytime I dont' see him I worry if he's ok(not obsessively) or how he is doing. Like over winter break I had this feeling something was wrong. so I worried if he was ok. Turns out he was sick over all winter break. Everytime i'm around him I feel like the rest of the world can wait. The thing is I can never tell him because he got excepted to his dream college in a different state(like 5 or 7states away from where we live now) and I don' want to hold him back. Is this love?

2007-01-13 12:38:41 · 15 answers · asked by SweetCocoaAngel 1 in Singles & Dating

I want 2 know how 2 tell if this guy I REALLY like likes me 2. How can I tell??? GUYS I need ur help

2007-01-13 12:38:03 · 3 answers · asked by SydneyB 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 12:37:45 · 25 answers · asked by ooeeoo 2 in Singles & Dating

Look, I am in middle school. I really want a boyfriend, but no one likes me. :( If you want to be my girlfriend, tell me, or if not tell me what I can do. Oh, of course I am a girl. Please help me!! Thanx.

2007-01-13 12:37:44 · 13 answers · asked by pink lady 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like him wat should i do he hardly talks to me but hes really nice but hes like that to everybody and i think he likes someone else but im not sure but the suspense is killing me and i liked him last year but then i got a bf then got off him but i broke up with my a*s of a bf and now i like him again but he never talks to me well hardly and i think hes just being nice i have asked my best friend to ask him for me but did she do it and get an answer? no!! and....... most likely he likes the popular snots.....HELP ME PLZE

2007-01-13 12:37:29 · 4 answers · asked by gdluver 2 in Singles & Dating

Women are often late when meeting a guy and that's ok, but the guy has to be ready right when she is every time, or she gets mad. Isn't this hypocrisy? Why is it only ok for the woman to be late?

2007-01-13 12:37:14 · 10 answers · asked by john 3 in Singles & Dating

"I know there must be a God because Evolution could never create perfections like you."

2007-01-13 12:36:50 · 22 answers · asked by trafficer21 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 24. We have been together for almost 3 years. This is the longest relationship that the both of us have ever been in. We love each other very much and I want to talk to him about moving in together. The only porblem is that I don't want to ask because I feel he will say no. I think this because I think that he may feel that it's too early and because he might not want to leave his mom in an empty house alone. What should I do? Should I ask him, or should I not ask and let it be?

2007-01-13 12:36:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She acts like she knows EVERYTHING yet is making terrible life choices... she has been evicted 3 times, has all but ruined her credit, ticked off EVERYONE in family; they're all avoiding her, now; but everytime I try to patiently help her, she resents or refuses my advice; she argues incessantly if she doesn't hear what she wants to! I am NOT going to lie to her... I love her more than life; I do not have a clue how to move foward & get past this.
I am very very tired of all the drama; every other day it's something foolish +/or chaotic... she is just so different; I actually *miss* her; That's pretty sad. What should I do?

2007-01-13 12:36:25 · 27 answers · asked by ~ kelby67 ~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-13 12:35:34 · 44 answers · asked by Somebody 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-13 12:35:27 · 4 answers · asked by Paige B 1 in Friends

A buddy of mine told me to check this out. If nothing else, it's good for a laugh.

http://www.laddertheory.com/

On second thought, it rings true on a disturbing level about both genders. At least, it does a pretty damned good job about describing my past relationships with women. What are your thoughts?

2007-01-13 12:35:27 · 4 answers · asked by John C 4 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that I really like, but I am too shy to talk to him and he's way to shy to talk to me. We both like each other, what am I supposed to do?? Sometimes I ignore him when he walks by too.

2007-01-13 12:35:19 · 4 answers · asked by Camille 1 in Singles & Dating

Dancing the dance of our own crazy beat.
I used to feel like I've been swept off my feet.
But now I can't see where we go from here.
I don’t know any more if to fear.
It’s foggy this night
Before this used to bring me delight
But now, only fright
But if too much fear
You might see tear
Strengthening my grip, my hands are sweaty
For loosing you makes me nervous and achy
I close my eyes and grasp for my life
Feeling like my body is wrapped in strife


should i send it or no ?
thats how i feel now
what do you think of the poem ?

2007-01-13 12:35:00 · 6 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

I went out with my BF and his friends last night. His friends said to me " I hear you suck in bed...hahahaha just kidding" was he kidding or did my BF say something to him?

2007-01-13 12:34:26 · 28 answers · asked by undrcvr25 1 in Singles & Dating

Here ill give ya all the details...

-Hes gay
-Younger than me
-Weighs 120lbs
-8 yrs old
-Im 15 yrs old
-Im 8 ft tall (so it makes it really gay cuz im the "Big Kid"
-Cant tell any teachers or hell eat me alive
-I weigh 100lbs
-He has diarrea problems
-Im scared

2007-01-13 12:34:12 · 9 answers · asked by Joe-Mama 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It can be appereance or personality or both. Whatever you want.

2007-01-13 12:33:53 · 5 answers · asked by Cristina 1 in Singles & Dating

Like where you going/who you talking to/ who called/

2007-01-13 12:33:28 · 9 answers · asked by janet-f@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

never had one, 17 y.o. advice?

2007-01-13 12:33:16 · 3 answers · asked by NYRNYM38 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey. I like this guy, and he is acting weird around me all of a sudden. A couple of days ago we were actually talking in a real conversation, but why all of a sudden. Last year i asked him out, but he said no and all, but he is talking to me, and playing games w/ me and my friends. It is weird. Any suggestions to what is on his mind?

2007-01-13 12:32:30 · 11 answers · asked by Star 3 in Singles & Dating

? Like, most questions on this site are worthwhile (including this one) in a SERIOUS way; why the frig can't people accept that some are worthwhile because they are FUNNY?? Some guy recently asked a question that said he kept his wife chained to the washing machine. There were like 1/5 of the people on the site say (In CAPITALS, no less) REPORTED!... Wow, you're some vigilante. Well done you moron. Thanks for missing the point. If you don't like the joke, then move one for god's sake! Then this guy asked if b/c of the 2 recent stingray fatalities, if stingrays were attacking humans (like a war...) Duh no, he wanted to hear funny answers! A couple reported him (for what I dunno nothing he described was remotely illegal or profane) and half were taking him serious and patronizing him, saying he doesn't know anything and its ignorance like this that's appalling.

We know. We're joking. That's all. We don't need you, this site doesn't need you, YOU need to leave. Let us have fun.

2007-01-13 12:32:24 · 9 answers · asked by ergonomia 2 in Singles & Dating