Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

me and my husband used to be tight, best firends...the whole nine yards. lately hear he's distant. hes always saying im the problem in the marriage. any time we argue or stupid stuff like that, he cant find something of his its my fault! ive caught him recently on chat lines, and chat rooms, talking sex. i honestly dont no what to do. the trust isnt there but i love him dearly. PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-01-13 12:32:19 · 22 answers · asked by candi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For example: Steel Magnolias, Fried Green Tomatos, The Other Sister, and (Oh my God!) You've got Mail! All of them really good movies but intensely annoying after the first 50times, literally.

2007-01-13 12:31:47 · 10 answers · asked by J L 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a bf named Ryan.Though he lives far away.He doesn't call me or anything.We met at camp.On the last day we sent secert messages to him n he replied.He said he loved me.We finally met at the club and danced all night. When I call him now he says he isn't their I don't noe if it's him or his brothers.HELP!!!Do long-distance relationships work?What should I do?

2007-01-13 12:31:39 · 18 answers · asked by Maria M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 12:31:28 · 27 answers · asked by Saf 1 in Singles & Dating

Should have shave down there? I am not having sex but should I still? Why?

2007-01-13 12:30:43 · 5 answers · asked by Kristine S 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been seeing each other for 7 months, he's so nice to me but it just doesn't feel right enough to carry on with the relationship. He's such a nice guy and don't want to hurt his feelings, any ideas?

2007-01-13 12:30:36 · 18 answers · asked by sammy 2 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend was supposed to come over tonight and have dinner with me. I cooked cube steak, cabbage and mash potatoes. He called me and asked me what was I cooking. Instead of saying something like whoa that sounds good. He proceeds to say why did I cook all of that food with a chuckle. I was like thats not alot of food. He said that he thought I was going to cook hamburgers or spaghetti.

What difference does it make to what I cook. It's free and I did it out of the kindness of my heart I wasn't trying to wife him or nothing like that. All week he asked me what I cooked and I told him that I don't cooked that often because I'm by myself. Like I told him tonight about the so-call quantity of the food I cooked. I told him I was going to eat that for my dinner tomorrow as well.

Not to mention that I've loaned him $20 and brought him lunch a couple of days last week. Maybe I've been too nice but he better give me my phucking $20 back or I'm coming to his job Monday!!!

2007-01-13 12:30:35 · 7 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-13 12:30:08 · 42 answers · asked by foolonthehill 1 in Singles & Dating

I like both my sis and my Boy. I've been with him for over a year. How should I avoid a sibling war with my sister for a hapless, devoted boy?

2007-01-13 12:30:07 · 18 answers · asked by imaforestspirit 3 in Singles & Dating

how do i do it i feel alone without one

2007-01-13 12:28:46 · 8 answers · asked by nick m 1 in Singles & Dating

I went out with a guy, Joey. while i was @ the beach he cheated on me. i was completely overwhelmed and it tore me up. he apologized sincerely and its been a couple of months, now he wants to go back out. Yes or No?

2007-01-13 12:28:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my husbands 4 year is over for the weekend he pays more attention to her than me. I feel very left out I try to get along with her but she has nothing to do with me so I just leave her alone and let her and her daddy have their time together. I need some help, what should I do?

2007-01-13 12:28:07 · 35 answers · asked by homedepot20 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for example - would you scratch and pull hair or are you someone who throws punches

2007-01-13 12:27:03 · 23 answers · asked by tony n 1 in Friends

when i went to his house, he set up a very nice atmosphere: soft and dark light, slow music, and warm fire place. but i was really nervous , i sat in his sofa for three hours and did not move my bottom, then i end up ran away. very embarrossing.

2007-01-13 12:26:44 · 7 answers · asked by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 12:26:08 · 13 answers · asked by rockubabe 1 in Family

hey there, i am a guy and love this other guy..i know some of you are probly giving out about me now but i cant help that i am gay so... any way i love this guy he is kinda my mate but he is in a diffrent school and i dont talk to him often. but i think about him any chance i get and the funny thing is i see him EVERYWERE! now i know he is probly not gay and im not out so i am not going to tell him all i want is a way to forget about him or just think of him differently!! thanks for any help!

2007-01-13 12:25:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-13 12:25:48 · 4 answers · asked by tony n 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I regret it. I knew him one day before I lost it.

2007-01-13 12:25:34 · 35 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and i was at a store ( Macys) and there were these 3 girls standing around and they looked like they were 15 or 16. This one girl started to look at me and i looked at her and then i kept walking and turned around while i did that she turned around to look again. What does this mean and why do girls do it? I probably would of talked to her if i lived where i was shopping.

2007-01-13 12:25:18 · 6 answers · asked by guy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And I mean SHORT.

2007-01-13 12:25:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really wanna dance-i love to dance and cheer lead,but there is a problem-my family cant afford it...but i have a dad who lives 5 states away who has a lot of money and if i moved there i would be able to dance..but i never wanna leave all my family and friends...i am so confused-what should i do?

2007-01-13 12:24:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, So i really don't like my boyfriends ex. (J and I have been together over a year and 1/2 and he's never given me any reason not to trust him).
But this girl is overly nice and she has it in with him mom. She's from a totally different culture (she's hawiian and i'm from Chicago). She calls him an leaves him messages for every holiday. Even little ones like memorial day? I mean really is that nessecary? She sends his parents gifts for the holidays even though they haven't been together for over 2 and years. She also happens to be flipping gorgeous and every in his family always talk about how nice she was. I just hate this girl. It is wrong to want to tell J never to talk to her? What should i do??? Its really upsetting me. I don't want her calling him. OR sending him hand written christmas cards (when he recieved he let me read it). I'm sure she's a nice person but i just want her to dissapear.

2007-01-13 12:23:51 · 20 answers · asked by whitney w 2 in Singles & Dating

I am young, in middle school and I asked out 2 guys and they said no. I really want one. What should I do?

2007-01-13 12:23:40 · 5 answers · asked by Summerchic1315 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 12:23:39 · 9 answers · asked by Larissa <3 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just about to. My good friend, his sister, said maybe it would be a good idea. She doesn't think he'll listen to her. What do you think about it?

2007-01-13 12:23:13 · 3 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone ever tried to find a marriage counselor that offer's counseling via the internet. Or is it even legal to do this.

2007-01-13 12:22:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My guy friend was supposed to come over tonight and have dinner with me. I cooked cube steak, cabbage and mash potatoes. He called me and asked me what was I cooking. Instead of saying something like whoa that sounds good. He proceeds to say why did I cook all of that food with a chuckle. I was like thats not alot of food. He said that he thought I was going to cook hamburgers or spaghetti.

What difference does it make to what I cook. It's free and I did it out of the kindness of my heart I wasn't trying to wife him or nothing like that. All week he asked me what I cooked and I told him that I don't cooked that often because I'm by myself. Like I told him tonight about the so-call quantity of the food I cooked. I told him I was going to eat that for my dinner tomorrow as well.

Not to mention that I've loaned him $20 and brought him lunch a couple of days last week. Maybe I've been too nice but he better give me my phucking $20 back or I'm coming to his job Monday!!!

2007-01-13 12:22:48 · 2 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Friends

Okay so there's this guy that i went out with a couple of days ago. I broke up with him because of all this crap. So now I really miss him and want him back but there's alot of people who give me crap for this. what do I do?

2007-01-13 12:22:30 · 14 answers · asked by xXxbRiTtAnYxXx 2 in Singles & Dating

I hear so many women say they feel uncomfortable or itch.
I wear some very sheer and comfortable ones, and they look and
feel great when I wear them. How many women think
their legs look better with them ?

2007-01-13 12:22:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend doesn't drink every day, but he does drink pretty much every weekend. When he does drink, he drinks a whole lot and when he gets drunk he usually gets depressed and angry and therefore is an *** to me if I talk to him (I usually try to avoid calling on weekend nights just incase). Sometimes he even gets really paranoid and freaks out (that's if he's had A LOT). He refuses to quit drinking and his father is an alcoholic. I always considered an alcoholic to be a person who drank non-stop. What do you think?

2007-01-13 12:21:59 · 25 answers · asked by sarahjaniepoo 4 in Family