My guy friend was supposed to come over tonight and have dinner with me. I cooked cube steak, cabbage and mash potatoes. He called me and asked me what was I cooking. Instead of saying something like whoa that sounds good. He proceeds to say why did I cook all of that food with a chuckle. I was like thats not alot of food. He said that he thought I was going to cook hamburgers or spaghetti.
What difference does it make to what I cook. It's free and I did it out of the kindness of my heart I wasn't trying to wife him or nothing like that. All week he asked me what I cooked and I told him that I don't cooked that often because I'm by myself. Like I told him tonight about the so-call quantity of the food I cooked. I told him I was going to eat that for my dinner tomorrow as well.
Not to mention that I've loaned him $20 and brought him lunch a couple of days last week. Maybe I've been too nice but he better give me my phucking $20 back or I'm coming to his job Monday!!!
2007-01-13 12:30:35 · 7 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe I made myself to available but it dont excuse him from being an ***. Thats very selfish of him. And he wonders why he's single and he always talking about how he wants a good women in his life. Thats bullshit.
Anyway, would you care what I cooked if I was doing this from the bottom of my heart??
2007-01-13 12:31:48 · update #1
I certainly would not care. You sound sweet but strong. You may want to look elsewhere for someone who would appreciate you more.
2007-01-13 12:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by cswint2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I would definitely ask for my $20 back, but in a polite way. Just tell him you need it for ___???? You never said if he showed up to eat the dinner, or if you told him not to bother coming over. I would give him the cold shoulder and tell him that he was rude. If he's got allot going for him - career, looks, personality, etc. Then don't completely dump him, if this is his first mistake. But you are making yourself too available, and doting on him too much. You are worth more - more kindness, time, respect, and trust. You should be able to trust someone not to hurt your feelings and to think of you first, but that doesn't always happen. Pull back a bit, don't be there for him every time he decides he wants to be with you. Oh, and no more lunches or money, at least for a while. I would dump him, or make him go to great lengths to say he's sorry for being such an as_____!
2007-01-13 12:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by 2mom35 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
awww.that was very inconsiderate of him.I would go to his phucking work too and demand my money. But dont waste your time being angry about this loser. Keep looking and the right man who has consideration will come along. Id be choked too..he sounds like hes just playing games..and hes single cause he wants to be that way. Dont waste your time on him.
2007-01-13 18:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like an assh*** so ungratfull. man i love it when my wife cooks for me. you must be clad you found out what a losser he is now before things went to far. tell him on monday when you go and get your money from him that your new guy freind loved the meal good luck....
2007-01-13 12:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the "friend" he is only using you for his needs. As for your cooking, he is selfish, I would love for someone to cook for me occasionally, it would be a change from my usual fare.
2007-01-13 12:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by P.A.M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound way too good for him.
2007-01-13 12:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do way better. you need someone who will appreciate you more!
good luck!
2007-01-13 12:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋