I like both my sis and my Boy. I've been with him for over a year. How should I avoid a sibling war with my sister for a hapless, devoted boy?
2007-01-13 12:30:07 · 18 answers · asked by imaforestspirit 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should sit down with your sister and explain to her that it really isnt right that she likes your boyfriend. You should ask your boyfriend if he has any friends for your sis. But regardless your sister is going to be your sister. Its garanteed regardless, a bf... who knows?? Remember...blood is thicker than water. But also remember to watch out for your sister. Dont brag about your bf or tell your guys personal business to her. That will escalade her interst in him.
2007-01-13 12:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by *RaP sTaR* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first tell you boyfriend what is going on, if he really " loves " you there should be no problem, because as i said if he loves you there is no way he can leave you :)
second of all dont be scared to go to your sister and ask her do you really have interest in your boyfriend? if she really says yes, you really dont have to worry, your boyfriend knows what his doing if he really loves you :) good luck oh and try to reason with your sister things will work out if you use your brain the right way and says things right :)
2007-01-13 12:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too immature to have a boyfriend. once you mess with something it is sturdy so which you would be able to do what you probably did...then he desires somebody that truly will safeguard him and not think of of themselves such as you probably did. you probably did no longer have his maximum suitable pastime at coronary heart...and additionally you attempt to rationalize issues away. you do no longer face duty for what you probably did and he knows that. There are not any excuses for you..you probably did what you wished to do as a results of fact you wished to DO IT...and no theory-approximately him. it is infantile and he knows it. it is irresponsible and HE knows THAT TOO! once you're grown up you settle for responsiblity on your movements and end making excuses....and denying the wear in ALL aspects that your judgements made. inclusive of hurting HIM and then watching for him to forgive you and flow on till you notice something else you desire. you get carry of what you deserve...go away the guy on my own. the certainty which you do no longer desire sacracstic and in charge solutions is which you relatively desire your thoughts smoothed over so which you sense sturdy approximately your self....it relatively is not any longer likely to take place. you won't be able to be taught from any mistake till you recognize what they're and the outcomes of them devoid of rationalizing them to loss of life. you desire what makes you sense extra suited...no longer HIM...that asserts lots suitable there!
2016-12-13 05:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister that you love her and you hope that she would never hurt you by trying to be with your boyfriend. If she says she would then tell her that you know where she lives, so she better not...
2007-01-13 12:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should understand how you feel about you're boyfriend & if you've been w/ him over a year he must care for you. You're sister should respect that & let you & your boy be.
2007-01-13 12:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sis to back off he IS your boyfriend not hers. Have a talk with her and tell her she has good taste but try finding one that is avail. She should respect you!!!
2007-01-13 12:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your boy friend to decide between you and your sister.
2007-01-13 12:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your boyfriend. and ask him who he likes/love? If it's you, no problem, then tell your sister to back off and set her straight. Do it soon so you know where your relationship stands.
2007-01-13 12:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by dimples 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off if your sister has any respect for you she will back off. I would talk to my guy and tell him he needs to tell her to back off if he wants to be with me. I love my sisters but if they are smoothing up on my man they have no respect for me and I wouldn't talk to either one of them.
2007-01-13 12:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister will get over him eventually.
2007-01-13 12:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋