Women are often late when meeting a guy and that's ok, but the guy has to be ready right when she is every time, or she gets mad. Isn't this hypocrisy? Why is it only ok for the woman to be late?
2007-01-13 12:37:14 · 10 answers · asked by john 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't just the entire sex based on your experience with ONE woman.
This one woman, if she does as your described, is a hypocrite.
This, however, does not mean that EVERY women is. Yes, I am often late to things but when other people are late, heck I don't say anything. I might get annoyed but I most certainly don't say anything considering that I am guilty of the same thing.
So, just because there is one rotten apple doesn't mean the entire tree is rotten.
2007-01-13 12:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Basiate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is hypocritical, but maybe I can help explain(not excuse), why we think this way,. First of all, it takes so much more time for a women to groom herself, and we try hard to look good for you guys. All you fellows have to do is shower&shave, make sure your clothes kind of cordinate, choose the black or brown shoes,(when it comes to shoes a lone we have to figure out if it's flats, or heels, then a choice of 15 different colors). And that is just one tiny part of getting ready. From the start, wash hair, dry curl it, make up, clothing options, oh wait do I have thr right bag, for this outfit, lets just say the whole process takes 1 hour for very organized ladies, up to 2 hours for the rest of us, and we know that it only took you 15 to 20 minutes to get ready, we are a little resentful, so we think the least you could do is be on time, and forgive us for being a little late, because lots of things can go wrong at the last minute, shoes missing, mascra smudged,ect ect. I hope this explains why women think this way, I did'nt promise it would be logical to you, but then maybe you can explain why men will drive for an hour, swear they are not lost, and won't ask for directions??? Women don't get this???
2007-01-13 12:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-23 16:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by kinkade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is b.s. cuz I'm the one that's always on time for everything and my man is always late for everything and I mean hours late. Especially if we gotta be somewhere. He's always got some kind of excuse or dumb luck.
2007-01-13 12:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by momathome 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is really hypocrit, and i dont think either one of the people, be it male or female, should be late. it sends messages like, r they not in to me? r they late b/c they're dreading to c me? and more. i totally think ur rite and i wish people wouldnt do tht.
2007-01-13 12:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's part of WOMEN'S LAW. I am surprised you have never heard of it. Women are allowed to be ALWAYS late but men must NEVER EVER be late or else they will be punished for their tardiness.
2007-01-13 12:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know, right? Im sure they're not really running late, they plan that **** out so they look like they dont care as much
2007-01-13 12:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tha A-Train 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've noticed this also, yes, it's very hypocritical. In the immortal words of N.W.A. "Not every woman is a B****, but every woman has some B**** in them!"
2007-01-13 12:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When we're late, we're fashionably so. Why should guys worry about being fashionable?
2007-01-13 14:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just the nature of the beast, Ya gotta luv'm.
2007-01-13 13:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by Get Real 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋