Like where you going/who you talking to/ who called/
2007-01-13 12:33:28 · 9 answers · asked by janet-f@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My X was the same way after 3 kids and 11 yrs of marriage. It is his guilt...maybe you should start asking him the same questions. After a while I got tired of it, and whenever he asked these questions....I was a smartass and replied by saying, "Are you writing a book?" "what chapter are you on today?" Tell him if hes so concerned hire a private detective so he can geta play by play of your day.
2007-01-13 21:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by momzilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, run for the hills!! If you have been together for 4 yrs. and he still doesn't trust you, the chances are he never will. I've learned that people who ask a lot of questions and are jealous are usually doing so because they have something to hide.
2007-01-13 12:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Black Rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you were married to him, he doesn't have the right to know what you are doing every minute of every day. Seriously think of getting rid of him before it gets worse - like he starts calling people to see if you are where you are suppose to be.
2007-01-13 12:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who constantly interrogates you (with a million controlling questions), is emotionally abusive. You should move out if you have any self-respect. He is trying to control you. It will only get worse.
2007-01-13 12:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are with the wrong guy. It's obvious he doesn't trust you, he is immature and not worthy of you. Move on and leave him to a very insecure immature girl, they will deserve each other.
2007-01-13 12:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saphire got it right. I call these guys obsessive possesives.They believe they own you like your are a piece of property.get out now before it gets worse.
2007-01-13 12:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's controling, and it will only get worse. You need to drop him before it gets physical, isolates you from family and makes you stop working just so he knows where you are at all times.
2007-01-13 12:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sapphire 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to insecure!! as long as you know you're not doing nothing wrong then don't worry about it...if he does this at the dating point ,,,imagine when you get married?? be wise
2007-01-13 12:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only guess that his questions are of your fidelity. If he is this jealaous and controling get out of the relationship.
2007-01-13 12:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by rcj1rcj2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋