There's this guy I have known since September and ever since i've met him I feel safe around him and that I can actually be myself. Also, me and him talk to each other everyday and I feel at times we connect. He's usually to himself, because he doesn't trust anyone so I don't dig it out of him. I just tell him he can talk to me any time. And the thing is that everytime I dont' see him I worry if he's ok(not obsessively) or how he is doing. Like over winter break I had this feeling something was wrong. so I worried if he was ok. Turns out he was sick over all winter break. Everytime i'm around him I feel like the rest of the world can wait. The thing is I can never tell him because he got excepted to his dream college in a different state(like 5 or 7states away from where we live now) and I don' want to hold him back. Is this love?
2007-01-13 12:38:41 · 15 answers · asked by SweetCocoaAngel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not love just a crush.
2007-01-13 12:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You definitely have strong feelings for him. Only you can tell whether it is love. It means a lot to feel that good with someone. Don't worry about "holding him back"... just make sure you give him your support. You can tell him how you feel, and make it clear that you don't expect or want to interfere with his education. Talk it out with him and see where things stand for each or you, and for a potential relationship in the future.
2007-01-13 20:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I know how you feel. If you feel like if he died that you would rather die then live with out him. if he does not feel the same way back then let him go and don't wast your love life chasing one who dose not feel the same.But if he does know that there is nothing more wonderful then what you have and long distances relationships really can last if you try hard.
2007-01-13 20:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!
You lucky girl , you found it !!
"The whole world just stops" when you are with him is a classic tell-tale sign of real love!! And the fact that you care for his health(his well being) further cements this fact. Yes , You are in love!
Good for you!!
2007-01-13 20:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then tell him. He needs to know. What would you do if you missed your chance and he went to college and found someone else.You never know maybe he feels the same way.
2007-01-13 20:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep signs of love are1) talk every day
2) connection 3) worrying 4)wanting whats best for someone yeppppp im pretty sure your inlove hurry he probably loves you too go with him
2007-01-13 21:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by pigletsrus c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly
But take it slow tell him first you like him.
And care for him.
See if he wants to go on a date date.
2007-01-13 20:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by southernbell_1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's love, necessarily, but you definitely like him. Tell him you care about him, but don't say love. Honestly, it can't be actual love yet.
2007-01-13 20:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh this has happened to me before... i don't think it's love... if it were, you wouldn't have to ask. It seems like you like him so much to the point that you may think it's love...
2007-01-13 20:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by save trestles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll kno when you love someone, and you will be the only person to be able to decide when you love someone. you cant ask other people to decide for you.
2007-01-13 20:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋