2007-01-13 12:35:34 · 44 answers · asked by Somebody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is an adult, right?
It's not kiddie porn, but adult porn?
It is his legal right to do so.
His morality is not your problem.
Tell your Mom if you want to really have a problem ... though she probably already knows.
Sorry that he does this, but its not your business.
You could talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel, but he may not care.
2007-01-13 12:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is a great deal of info on the net about the harmful effects of porn. I would do research and print several pages. You may (or may not) want to highlight key ideas in the text. Package them in an envelope and place them where your dad will find them. Whether you include an accompanying note would depend on your relationship with your dad.
If you wanted to take it a step further, you could leave a packet for your mom with articles and info that focus on how to confront your spouse about using pornography. If your mom asks you about the packet you could admit to putting it together for her, but if she wants details, you might just say you're not comfortable discussing dad's problem because you don't know much other than that he uses porn (if that's true). And that it's up to her to discuss it with him if she wants to know.
Good luck to you and your family.
2007-01-13 13:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry about what your dad does, concentrate on what you should do in studies, furthering your knowledge. People at each age level has to play a role pertaining to that. Your dad should know that and be an example to the son to follow. As for you, you should do what is best for you. ignore what your father does
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2007-01-13 12:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by sarayu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that 80% of men today look at pornography. As long as he's not addicted to it ( and some people can be), then there is nothing to worry about.
2007-01-13 12:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
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As difficult as it is for us to think of our parents that way, they are human beings, and men (all? most?) look at porn.
It's not an insult against your mother, men are lazy and instead of spending time trying to remember a romantic memory, (most? all?) take the shortcut and just look at a photo that reminds them of a sexual encounter.
Just try to forget it and remind yourself of all the great "Dad" things about him. This shouldn't change him in your eyes - it's like if he saw you pooping, should he think less of you? Of course not! That's a private part of his life, and he's perfectly normal.
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2007-01-13 13:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a real secret is it?
I'd be careful trying to tell dear old Dad how to live his private life. Especially since you've been poking your nose into it.
2007-01-13 12:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seriously, this is none of your business. Your dad is a grown person.
2007-01-13 12:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ain't none of your cotton pickin' chicken pluckin' business what your father does as long as he is not injuring anyone! Get over it.
2007-01-13 15:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the pics are not of underage models, there's not much you can do. If the pics are of underage models (or very violent pictures) you should tell someone.
2007-01-13 12:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing, it's perfectly normal for people to look at pornography, just let him be
2007-01-13 12:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋