Look, I am in middle school. I really want a boyfriend, but no one likes me. :( If you want to be my girlfriend, tell me, or if not tell me what I can do. Oh, of course I am a girl. Please help me!! Thanx.
2007-01-13 12:37:44 · 13 answers · asked by pink lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is something that you cannot rush. It's very common for most girls to want to start dating in middle school because they see all of their friends doing it. The same thing happened when I was in middle school. When you worry about it, it will seem to never happen. You have to be patient. Let the guys come to you, and trust me they will come around. You have to think that most guys your age are just as nervous to speak to you.
P. S. Don't be so sure that no one likes you. You'd be surprised!
2007-01-13 12:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about having someone.
Concentrate on school and friends.Love happens when you are not looking or expecting it.
Most boys who want more than just that one thing are attracted to girls who are not desperately seeking a relationship.
And the other kind of boys will zone in on you use you for what they want and then leave you after they get it.
There is more to life than boys so put your attention on that and when the right boy comes along he will let you know he likes you.
And if you are not desperate you are less likely to get used and left.Because you will see him for what he is and not be in a hurry to please him and make him stay.And you wont do something stupid.
So put your attentions on school ,friends and family.Enjoy your life as it is now.
Happy and confidant girls is what attracts the right guys.
Remember NEVER do anything you will regret if he dumps you.
2007-01-13 20:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by southernbell_1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In middle school, there is always a boy for every girl. Start looking around, see who is looking at you a lot, or notice which boy bothers you the most (tricks, verbal etc). Most of the time, those are the ones that like you the most.
2007-01-13 20:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by John J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun dont worry you'll find a guy it doesn't really matter in middle school just be yourself. guys like girls who are confident and do their own thing most guys dont want a girl who seems desperate and obsessed. just get involved with sports and other fun things to do and trust me he'll come around. Dont try to get a boyfriend,boyfriends usually come when you least expect it so dont worry about getting one good luck!
2007-01-13 20:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by Emmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time. remember that relationships are not about quantity , they are about quality. if nobody likes you, then don't try to make them, it will be a waste of your time and will likely take you giving up things or doing things that you won't like.
stay true to yourself and don't worry about it. the Mr right will come along and you will know when he does, but right NOW you are too young and truthfully, no guy is ready to have any type of serious relationship when he is 12 ish. most guys are jerks at that age, and have to go through a major maturing process.
good luck .
2007-01-13 20:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by chris r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see right now you don't need a boyfriend get ON with your school work and every thing will fall in to place when the right time come
2007-01-13 20:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by sealo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to worry about boys enjoy other things like sports or hanging out with your friends a boy or boys will come your way in high school....also don't try so hard finding a boyfriend caz guys sense that and take advantage of you caz they think your are desperate. I hope this helps
2007-01-13 20:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says you need a boyfriend from your school, go outside the box you live in, and you don't have to not see your friends! I'm sure you are beautiful. Don't stress out on this too much.......tis not worth it, you will find someone! You are 12?! Enjoy yourself while you are young!!!!!!!! Go to crazy fun things........(And that doesn't always mean boys)
2007-01-13 20:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting the way you put that in your question it is as if your not getting attention needed as most girls would regarldes of their looks.
This may be a personal conflict you have with an inferior complex you know what that means?
Your not giving your best potential in fear that something is worng with your looks or how you dress or how you talk. Put your self in check sugar....check yourself.
2007-01-13 20:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be so desperate. Maybe the guys don't ask you to be their girlfriend for a reason. Take your time and enjoy life. The good stuff will come in eventually! =)
2007-01-13 20:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋