Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

me and my bf have been dating for about 7 months, he has known that i am not happy sometimes and i tried talking to him yesterday to get things worked out and he wouldnt talk, he said i am the one unhappy and left it at that. He was on yahoo and i asked him where do we go from here he didnt answer me. I asked him do we work it out or go our seperate ways again he didnt answer so is he telling me its over but not saying anything or he doesnt want to end it?

2007-01-12 06:17:22 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 06:17:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

life has been so hard on me and everthing, at moments i feel like no one cares for me. 'c, my best friend had just recently moved into a new state. and one day i was down in the basement w/ a gun to my head and she called and i remembered that there is still someone in this world who cares for me.'
life can get so ******* hard at times that most people cant take it, im one of those people. what was written above isn't true. but i, at times, have thought of doing so. if i didn't have friends to help me through all this than i probably already would have. however my friends aren't as close to me, they all have drifted farther away from me and now im on my own. that's why i need someone out there who can tell me how to take care of my stress and prevent myself from thinking that if i weren't here than maybe every one would live better without me.
tell ya what, if u help me with my stress problems than i promise one of these times u need a favor, dont worry i'll be there for ya!

2007-01-12 06:17:01 · 4 answers · asked by thedawg 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, and during that 8 months we have been through a lot. The thing is, I think the relationship is not right because of all those things and we've been having problems lately. The only way I can find the strength to push on is if we start over again and leave the past in the past. But how and where do you start all over again? I need advice...perhaps some step by step guidelines...

2007-01-12 06:16:23 · 1 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 06:16:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I need major, we've been together for 2 year now, what should i do?

2007-01-12 06:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by kelly_tennisace 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems here in my hometown, nobody seems to like asian guys, but i'm so infatuated with them i can't help it!! Is there no one out there i can share my love for asian men with. Haha.

2007-01-12 06:14:53 · 8 answers · asked by word4word 2 in Singles & Dating

Is he just using her, what the hell could they have in common, apart from the obvious. If a girl had no father from the age of 14 months old, is this why she is attracted to the older man? one after the other, after the other, but, they are all bad, ex prisoners, every one of them, the badder the better, although she is part of a loving family, with an excellent step dad. Does she need help? What is wrong? She is gorgeous to look at, and has the heart of an angel, but persistently goes for bad men, old enough to be her father, why is this? What is making her think this way?

2007-01-12 06:14:38 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering what turns guys on the most (without gettting to explicit) I mean more like things a girl can do during the night or before sex to turn you on...things like a massage when you get back home or telling him while you are out that you want him..that sort of thing.
Also is changing into lingerie when you come home from being out a good thing or does it ruin the moment? We both have high sex drives and even though we haven't slept with each other we are not virgins (or close to it lol)

2007-01-12 06:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by leafschick1978 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 3 years, but we are currently sepreated. Every night I sleep just fine... I'm starting to get useto the two of us not being together. and I think about the reasons why we sepreated and I do love him but nolonger in love. We agreed that our sepration is tempoary but I'm ready for the Soap Opera to be over.

2007-01-12 06:13:55 · 6 answers · asked by Short n sassy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife is always telling me that BDU's make me look better and these ACU uniforms are ugly. what do you think? do we army soldiers look good in our new ACU uniforms?

2007-01-12 06:13:48 · 1 answers · asked by talofa lava 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am 15 years old and I just found out that when I was 3 years old my dad cheated on my mom. I found a tape where my mom, dad, and the "mistress" went on a talk show to talk about the cheating. I also found out that my dad got the mistress pregnant and I had no idea nor do I know if I have another sibling or not (the baby wasn't born then and I'm not sure if it was my dad's baby.) Now my Dad and Mom have been divorced since I was 4 and I live with my mom and see my dad every other weekend. I love my dad. I wanted to spend every minute with him. He was like superman to me. But I fell uncomfortable about this. My question is whether I should tell my mom that I know and ask her more about it or should I just forget about it. I'm so nervous to confront anyone and I fell really uncomfortable. What should I do? Just ask if anyone needs more details about it.

2007-01-12 06:13:05 · 10 answers · asked by Unknown 1 in Family

2007-01-12 06:12:14 · 55 answers · asked by nanda f 1 in Singles & Dating

My little baybee god son is going to be 6 next month and I know that his mom is going to be throwing him a party. I love my little baybee and I plan on getting him a nice present but I have been to his first 5 birthday partys and the people are just obnixous. They are loud and ghetto and act high and mighty if they are wearing name brand clothes are you aren't.
Last year I went and I was so embarassed because many of the adults at the party started going off on employees at the bowling alley that we were in. The employees asked the children to please stop running before they get hurt. Well I didn't see anything wrong with that, they weren't rude or anything just trying to do their job. The parents (ghetto females) started going off yelling right their in the bowling alley saying that if kids aren't supposed to run then you shouldn't have kid parties. I love my god son but I don't want to deal with these females again. Should I go to his bday party?

2007-01-12 06:12:10 · 17 answers · asked by Cheryl J 2 in Family

how do you deal with that as they are getting "old". Anyone out there?

2007-01-12 06:12:07 · 10 answers · asked by avechm 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 06:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My g/f of 4 years left me 2 days ago to try again w/ her babies father. We were friends for the last month and behind my back he realized that we were fighting and got her attention. Now she says that she has the beginnings of feelings for him and that she wants us to be friends so she can see where it goes with him. She moved out of my mothers house with me and into his apartment in a ghetto area where they sell crack on the corners with our daughter. She and I agreed that our relationship was improving, but I realize now that her heart has probably hardened to me already due to everything that we have been through. So he gets a ready made family that I worked for, and I lost my family due to all of the work we had to put in. I want nothing more than to be with her, but I think that I should back off some and become her friend like she wants, I told her that I would be her friend, but I would always be willing to take her back when she is ready. I want her, but how do I get her back?

2007-01-12 06:10:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He is very sweet but very needy. He definitely feels more for me than I do him. I know I should to the right thing and end it but I am afraid of how he will react and whether or not he will do anything stupid (like harm himself or something)

2007-01-12 06:09:36 · 39 answers · asked by Sasha R 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 06:09:20 · 10 answers · asked by farideh F 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone else's husband a doorman?
my husband is very good looking,(I'm not just biased here) and he has recently started working on a club door. I trust him totally, but he's a big lad,(very muscley) and I have seen a few girls eyeing him up. I'm not really the jealous type, but I am a bit worried about all these drunk scantily clad girls he is seeing three nights a week. any advice?

2007-01-12 06:08:41 · 35 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-12 06:08:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm so much in love with this guy no one in my family likes him coz of his background.He has just asked me to marry him and i said yes coz he means the wolrd to me,he also knows how my family feels about him but really he doesn't mind he does everything for me he even waited for me to finish high school before being intimate help before i die

2007-01-12 06:08:07 · 11 answers · asked by beautifull 1 in Singles & Dating

i was introduced to a friend of a friend over christmas and a week later we all had a night out in the pub.
last night my friend said he liked me and gave me his number, now i'm not sure what to do should i call him? send a text? what should i say?

2007-01-12 06:08:06 · 14 answers · asked by buggerboo 1 in Singles & Dating

She started by saying that she never intended to flirt with me, and she asked me to explain some things I told her about her flirting. Why did she then ask me in detail about how she flirted? She said she will not act like that anymore, but she still does. She then asked me what I meant by "If we dated, it would be serious". Why would she ask that also? Lastly, she said we can still be good friends. What does she want??

2007-01-12 06:08:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't understand why the preteens are starting to act like young adults/adults. when you have sex too young you're basically robbing yourself of a real childhood. i've heard about 11 and 12 year olds out there screwing people.. is it the parent's fault? is it neglect? or are people just maturing faster these days?
but either way, that's way too young in my opinion.

2007-01-12 06:07:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-12 06:07:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We use to be pretty close. There was a time when we talked at least once a day. We would both call each other ALOT. Now we barely talk once a week, and most of the time I am the one who has to call her. She almost never calls me anymore. I really care about her, but I feel like I'm the only one in this thing.

What should I do? Should I just forget about her?

2007-01-12 06:07:06 · 12 answers · asked by The Teacher 6 in Singles & Dating

What Would Be The Perfect Escapade?

2007-01-12 06:06:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have You Ever Interested to other Boy/Girl when you date with anybody?
Who was that?

2007-01-12 06:06:24 · 8 answers · asked by PhotoARTist 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 06:05:44 · 10 answers · asked by badkitty1918 2 in Singles & Dating