2007-01-12 06:12:14 · 55 answers · asked by nanda f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-12 06:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
being "in love" is a fantasy and lasts only so long. Sure from the start you both take up each others' time and work together, but at some point, schooling or children or illness in families take that interest away. At that point "toleration" of the situation kicks in and it depends on how strong a person is. Sex is an inborn desire, need to some, and it's hormones that keeps it going. Sometimes when people don't get it they look elsewhere for it, but doesn't mean they lost the desire, want, need for their spouse. Means they have just fallen because they are human. Some marriages start out as open marriages, and then if continued will split a couple. Some people aren't ever tested till these things in a marriage happen, and, with all the temptations out there today well sometimes unwanted things happen. So to answer your question....no.
2007-01-12 06:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe in the beginning of your relationship,especially it seems if you're female but later sometimes even in a 20+ relationship the temptation is always there. We're human and unless you keep up on your relationship there is always room for temptation. Sometimes it doesn't even have to start out as a sexual attraction but can be intellectual or emotional. Relationships like anything needs care and maintenance no matter how much you love someone or they love you.
2007-01-12 06:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by Laura S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is true in part. Temptation can attack a person with low-self esteem, low moral values, or anger issues. All the things that are not present so much in a healthy relationship where love, respect, trust, and communication is a solid foundation for them. There will come a time when none of these things matter and then it all rest upon whether this person has a conscious or not.
2007-01-12 06:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by saturn man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, temptation is always there, its just how you react to it. If you are truely in love, that level of respect along with the feeling of guilt will stop most people.
A true cheater is someone that cheats because they can, it has nothing to do with the love or lack of love they feel for their partner.
2007-01-12 06:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by buggerhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be that nagging temptation to cheat on your girl/boy friend. Even if your as deeply in love as you can possibly become there will always be temptation to cheat on her/him. The question is will you give into that temptation? I believe if you truly are in love you won't.
2007-01-12 06:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. I think what really makes a relationship last is being able to resist the urge to cheat on someone. Everyone at some point is going to get bored, expecially in a long term relationship. Some people fix that by cheating for the excitement and newness of it. But people who are truly in love resist that and instead try to add excitement to their present relationship.
2007-01-12 06:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the temptation is always there, and sooner or later it will make itself known. Being truly in love means that even though you are tempted, you don't act....out of love and respect for your partner. Love is not perfect, don't ever think differently. And, we are only human, and have urges. It's the choices we make that define how much we love someone else.
2007-01-12 06:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is always temptation as a guy, any guy that says there isn't is a liar, but it's being able to overcome that temptation, because in the back of your mind you know there is a great woman that loves you and you won't do anything to jeapordize that. That is true love.
2007-01-12 06:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by Doug H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. There's always temptation. It's part of life. True love is knowing your responsibility to the person you've promised to be faithful too and making a conscious choice not to cheat.
2007-01-12 06:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sort of true, sort of not. Loving someone with your whole heart is not a lock on having all of your emotional needs filled. Some people, even wholey in love people, may end up having a void in their emotional needs some how. Maybe their mate does not show affection as much as the other needs. Maybe their mate is away from home allot, or distracted even when they are home. Maybe their mate has put their relationship 2nd to something else very important to them. All those things can happen even in a relationship where there is love.
Here's the interesting part. Every one is different. Some people have different tolerance levels then others to relationship changes like I mentioned. Moreover, we all display different symptoms to not having our emotional needs filled. Some of us may start to be a boozer. Some of us may turn to drugs. Some may become obsessive in some other area of their life, like "Yahoo Answers", and yes, some reach out to fill the void by having an affair. Even though they love their spouse, they still end up reaching out to help fill the void.
I know it sounds like a reach. Before you move on think of all the odd obsessive behavior you may have viewed in your life and ask yourself where it came from and why?
2007-01-12 06:24:53 · answer #11 · answered by Thomas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋