Anyone else's husband a doorman?
my husband is very good looking,(I'm not just biased here) and he has recently started working on a club door. I trust him totally, but he's a big lad,(very muscley) and I have seen a few girls eyeing him up. I'm not really the jealous type, but I am a bit worried about all these drunk scantily clad girls he is seeing three nights a week. any advice?
2007-01-12 06:08:41 · 35 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dont worry he probably just laughs at them.
2007-01-13 21:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be a female door-person, and most of these girls only flirt so that they can get into a club. If they do pull a doorman it's because the guy was single or not worth his girlfriend being with.
I had men come onto me all the time.
Just stay strong, maybe stay up one night to meet him, ask him how his night was, i would say build up a bit more trust, my man was a nightclub manager and had women over him all the time, but he made a point of telling me that women chatted him up, at the end of the day he comes home to you, if you still have doubts maybe it's just that you don't trust him.
2007-01-12 06:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by Baggio 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be aware that many girls seek out the doorman at the club. They always want to know him and be tight with him for obvious reasons. I would suggest he work someplace else. Why must he work at a club ? I for the most part dont trust men in general and if you put temptation in front of them, then well, you never know what you will get.
2007-01-12 06:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably had to reassure the club manager that he won't get involved with the clients and it may be a sackable offence there. But, a suggestion: on the nights that he is working, either give him a fantastic bj just before he leaves the house, or promise him one when he returns from work. Ok, OK, I know it doesn't resolve the trust issue that you are having, but your husband will either be too exhausted or too excited to think about other girls on that night.
2007-01-12 06:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great temptation is coming his way and only you will know whether he will be able to resist.
I advise that you keep him away from the doorman job for in time he will be tempted!
Dont take the gamble for even the best husbands in this world have made mistakes in a moment of weakness.
2007-01-13 04:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was a doorman and after they see the way most of the drunk girls behave they won't go near. If you don't trust him it will just eat you up everytime he goes to work. You need to talk to him about your worries.
2007-01-12 06:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jazzybee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get it out out out of your mind. You are a beautiful women that has enough personality and strive to keep your man and to be happy the rest of your life. Just tell him when your feeling a little down about these things. Tell him you love him and never want to lose him over nothing. He'll agree with you and who knows may leave that job for a better one without all those crazy whores running around in nothing, hahahah
God Bless
2007-01-12 06:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess that trust is the main factor here,but saying that,i used to work in a night club and i saw what the doormen where like with the punters,who were obviously drunk and (coming on to anything that moved) there were a few affairs going on back in those days...
2007-01-14 09:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by pinkydinkydoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all door supervisors get a bad name for being flirty ..i used to b a niteclub receptionist and they all acted the same whether they were single married dating or whateva..if you trust him there shouldnt be an issue,it should make you proud to c these girls flirting with your hubby knowing its you he goes home to and that they dont stand a chance,its a door supervisors job to look after the customers,make sure they are safe and unfortunatly the happy chat and flirty banter is part and parcel of the job
2007-01-13 04:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by greyhound mummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it drunk scantily clad girls, would he really want to jepodise what he has with you for that? Hey sista he married you. Don't worry about the dolly birds. x
2007-01-12 06:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one my weirdest and most short lived jobs was a doorman, shitty hours and i got everybody and his ******** mates offering me a fair dig!they wanted to bust my as's. i got offers for sex and i turned everyone of them down. i forgot to mention i was a bouncer at a gay bar and i'm straight. all i'm saying is hes your husband he knows where his bed is. its not such a glamorous job when your cold and a bunch of 20 year old students think they're hard calling you a wanker 100 yards away, and having to ignore them. after a night like that i would just want to go home.
2007-01-12 06:39:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋