Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

Husband chatting online. Calls girls from other cointries. Shares pictures. Denies he is married. Justifies his actions becasue the girls are in other countries and he thinks it's ok becasue they are not someone he will ever meet. Tells the girls they are hot and he could fall in love with them. Only chats with them 2 or 3 times and deletes them from his list. Won't chat in front of me. Gets mad at me if I try to talk to any of these girls and tell them the truth. He says he only chats becasue he is bored and wants to make some fun. He says he is just playing. Am I wrong to be hurt by this? Or is he wrong for doing it?

2007-01-12 08:14:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-12 08:13:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

things are really going nowhere for me, my friends are beggining to get boring, i have a 7 year crush i still want to even speak to (which i can't because she hangs with my enemies and it's just complicated and i don't know if she even likes me), i often easily get bored, im also starting to put on a bit of weight which i want to lose quick and I totally need a girl and i really lack confidence. Anybody got any genious suggestions for me?

2007-01-12 08:13:14 · 11 answers · asked by sdk 2 in Friends

There are these two guys that tease me everyday, they are super peverted and even touch me sometimes, they make up nicknames for me and I think its funny. But latly they have been really nice to me and always want to make sure I dont get mad, I know they dont like me, cause if they did they would ask me out, trust me. I dont necisarily want them to stop, I just want to know why they tease me. And why they are suddenly being nicer, even though they were always kidding. PLEASE ANSWER ME!!!!!!!!

2007-01-12 08:13:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

it's this guy i used 2 date 2yrs ago. we spent time 2gether and enjoyed one another.1 day he made me mad and we stopped talkin.then 1 day i thought of him and wanted 2 reunite but a friend of mines told me he was in jail. i went 2 go c him and i didn't expect him 2 b there. last time i visited i told him that i wanted 2 b his girl.so now we're 2gether.@ 1st i was all 4 it but now i'm needin him around me & its gettin tough. he has 2 serve 2ys so he has 1 left. i need him in every way-support,affection etc. i don't know how much i can hold on. i want him out so badly. he didn't do anything bad.i just miss him badly. we don't talk on the phone cause i have financial issues-that cost...of course we write.any suggestions?

2007-01-12 08:13:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Although I masturbate 2 times a day I can never satisfy myself.
Ever.
Yes, I have toys.
I use them a lot.
They actually dont work.
I cant get the thought of sex or touching myself out of my head.
What do I do?

2007-01-12 08:13:03 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie_ is_ bomb. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I live with my best friend in a will & grace relationship, his last relationship was abusive & always said he was happy being single, about 4 months ago some guy started chasing after him & now they are seeing each other. I have several issues with this, the first is we've always been really close text each other during the day, & go out together & now we don't go out, & I'm lucky if i get a text from him now. He doesn't want his life he's always had mixing with his new life, only agreeing to see this new guy twice a week, & he hasn't told his family about this new relationship, won't meet this new guys friends, etc... From what he tells me, it's like an affair. I just wonder can this last, is normal for a relationship? The other problem I have is I'm now stuck at home by myself as I stayed living where I went to college & family live a long way away & friends have moved away. So I feel very lonely at the moment. Before someone says get a guy, I have no sex drive & don't want a guy.

2007-01-12 08:12:40 · 2 answers · asked by oreo7504 2 in Friends

What kind of Valentine's gift do you buy for a man that has the means to get the things he wants? Sure, there is the sexy lingerie, I'm thinking about a little 'his' and 'hers' outfits, but I'm really not sure if he will be into that. Any other ideas?

2007-01-12 08:12:13 · 7 answers · asked by Lemme tell ya... 5 in Singles & Dating

ist a party with all girls tht are between 13 and 14 i dont really like partys but they all keep asking me to go and this girl that is sleepingover at my house and she wants to go but she doesnt want to ditch me what am i supposed to do? plz help me!

2007-01-12 08:11:48 · 8 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Friends

2007-01-12 08:11:43 · 1 answers · asked by Zoey 2 in Singles & Dating

whats a turn on and a turn off about guys and girls

2007-01-12 08:11:09 · 34 answers · asked by xoxbabexoxox 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-girlfriend said she can't talk to me anymore because her new boyfriend told her not to. When we were still going out she talked to every single one of her exes when I asked her not to. I know it shouldn't bother me, I'm definatley over her now, because she just pushed my feelings for her in the other direction. I just wana know if this is because maybe I did something wrong in our relationship or what?


(We promised each other at the beginning of the relationship that if we ever broke up we would still be friends)

2007-01-12 08:11:03 · 26 answers · asked by RKO 2 in Singles & Dating

if u have been together for a month and two weeks

2007-01-12 08:10:44 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Angelita29♥ILY♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

it's his b-day...i dont kno what to get him.....we're just friends,can u plz help me....wat kinds of things would a guy like to get??

2007-01-12 08:10:38 · 13 answers · asked by linda 1 in Friends

I am grade ESL student,It's 9 months I am in Canada.I am from a country that we always had "Hijab", we werw muslem,but now in Canada we just wear shirt and short , that's not all the problem,there is a boy in my class who I really like so I shy and scared to do anything infront of him , and there is group of people who when you don't do well they gonna laugh to me , what should I do to better gym , and improve my gym marks and my gym and don't shy of him and them?

2007-01-12 08:09:13 · 5 answers · asked by L0L* * Esti * * L0L 1 in Friends

Women if you have made it this far into reading this question please feel free to give us your women's law reguarding you relationship with your husband/boyfriend.

2007-01-12 08:08:45 · 9 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Mother,Father,Brother,Sister,Boyfriend/Girlfriend Husband/Wife

2007-01-12 08:08:22 · 28 answers · asked by PhotoARTist 3 in Family

i have tried every advice that yahoo answers have given me, and still cant get him to look my way, everyone says im beautiful, but he wont talk to me, yesterday in class he sat by me and then hurried and got up and moved away and then his brother sat by me instead, but i dont like his brother the way i like him. what should i do?

2007-01-12 08:07:51 · 17 answers · asked by gracie l 1 in Singles & Dating

The last few days have been so painful. I sometimes almost expect my now exboyfriend to call me in the middle of the night like he used to. But now I have to deal with the fact he is never going to be able to call me. He's in jail, and I don't think he's ever getting out. I have quit smiling, can't sleep, can't hardly eat. My kids just seem to get on my nerves, when they are doing nothing but being the wonderful kids they are. I don't want to feel this way any more. How can I stop being so dpressed? I love him, and I'm having a hard time moving on. What should I do?

2007-01-12 08:06:48 · 16 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

My question goes with a situation that has been going on for about a year now. My husband and my cousin were best friends for about 10+ years. My husband and I started dating about 7 years ago, and so my cousin and I also formed a very close bond. It was always my husband and me, and him and whoever his girlfriend happened to be at the time. After about 4 years he started to date one of my close friends, they ended up getting engaged and later decided that it wasn't meant to be. He found a new girlfriend, and that was fine with everyone. She has changed him in many ways though. As soon as they started dating we started to see less and less of him. Eventually they ended up moving in together. My husband and I were out one night and saw her on top of a pool table, next thing we knew she was showing the whole bar her boobs. My cousin wasn't even out with her that night. She started to make a habit of going out and leaving him at home. Eventually I found out that she had had a relationship with a married man, and caused a divorce. My feelings towards her because of all of these events were starting to be very negative. I think my cousin was starting to see how she was, and he started doing things with us a little more often. One day I opened up to him and told him how I felt. He went on to tell me how she had made him change clothes before they would go places because she didn't like what he was wearing and so on. He ended up breaking up with her and decided to date another one of my close friends, despite my request that it didn't happen. They dated for about a month and during this time the ex found out that me and my cousin had had the discussion about her. She went to my aunt crying about how she loved him and wanted him back. Evidently he decided that he still had feelings for her and they ended up getting back together. Less than 3 months after getting back together she found out she was pregnant. She had went on vacation to Florida with 2 other girlfriends and left my cousin at home. I didn't think this was right. The baby is due March 8th and they were in Florida in May. I think that there may be a chance that the baby is not his. I expressed this concern to several family members and now my cousin, his girlfriend, and my aunt are acting like I am the most terrible person in the world. I tried to fix the relationship between the four of us(My husband, my cousin, the pregnant g/f, and myself) before she got pregnant and they didn't seem to want to fix it then. Now they are having a baby shower and the whole family is invited minus my mother and me. I don't think this is right. As a very close family, we have never excluded anyone from anything EVER! I don't know what to do, I feel if I express my anger and hurt it will only cause further problems. I have tried talking to my cousin and his girlfriend on several occasions and its like they don't care that its causing problems in the family. I also don't know if I should get the baby anything. Help Please!!!

2007-01-12 08:06:25 · 9 answers · asked by AJacks 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been with a guy for 2 months and he is really sweet. he has taken me to the movies and payed for it. i was just wondering if i should get him anything for valentines day or not? HELP!!!!

2007-01-12 08:06:10 · 7 answers · asked by Angel 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 08:06:04 · 6 answers · asked by amberismycolor 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't really like the idea of a traditional wedding with a priest and such. In fact I don't want my wedding ceremony to have anything to do with religion but I still would like one that's fun and inviting to all my friends and family who are of all different beliefs. Anyone have any ideas on the matter?

2007-01-12 08:05:59 · 18 answers · asked by kestrelk8 6 in Marriage & Divorce

she likes me but won't amit it

2007-01-12 08:05:58 · 17 answers · asked by Ismeal S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 08:05:43 · 9 answers · asked by momo 1 in Singles & Dating

he says he love me but he also tells me if he ever hit me he want me to hit him very hard i just dont know with this guy
i want to go to college but he doesnt want me to go and he knows it my dream to go back to school to become a nurse?
he says he doesnt want me to because it takes time. he want to travel all year long. want me to leave my city and come and live with him. telling me the world going to end he just has 2 to 5 years to do what he needs to do. i question him about it and he claims he doesnt have any condition


we been together for 1 year and he's already ready to get married this would be his fourth marriage


thank you guys so much for your help and support this situation is starting to stress me out


he suggest to me that maybe we can live in a van .also he does alot of testing in the hospital for money .i dont know but it just seems to me that he is desperate for money


he always tell me that it was other person fault why they ended up divorced

2007-01-12 08:05:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know this question has probably been asked a lot, but is hair colour an important factor in what people find attractive? Is it just men who prefer a particular hair colour, beacuse I have never known a woman to prefer blonde men etc. Why do redheads get such a bad press? When I was pregnant with my daughter people used to say to me "what will you do if she is a redhead?" as if is something sort of terrible affliction.

2007-01-12 08:04:38 · 56 answers · asked by gingajen 3 in Singles & Dating

I am garde 8 ESL student.It's 9 months I am in Canada,I don't know English very well,but I could speak(not very well).I am friendly and kind and helpful.I like to have a lot of friends and best friends.how can I make best friends and friends?
How can I be a very good friend?

2007-01-12 08:04:35 · 12 answers · asked by L0L* * Esti * * L0L 1 in Friends

my friends grandma came over to my house on wensday and started accusing me of stealing her granddaughters cell phone

She only thiiinks i stole it because i'm from chinle and when she went to the cmpany to get the list og charges made all calls ere to chinle and she was like "I know you stole it because your the only one from chinle i know you stole" BUT I DIDN'T STEAL IT what should i do???

2007-01-12 08:03:56 · 4 answers · asked by nbasoul22 1 in Friends

My man's ex still calls him even though he thinks I don't know this. Just a month ago, she's telling me she's going to get him to leave me and go to her, so I know she's not just dropped out of sight like that. I'm wondering if she knows he married me. If she knows would she continue to keep calling or disappear. The next time I see her number on his phone should I call her and let her know he is now married. I don't know if this would fuel her even more. This would be my way of knowing if my man is still keeping doors open with her. (how unfortunate) I guess I'm also wondering if an ex would still try to stay in the picture if they know he's married now?

2007-01-12 08:03:54 · 13 answers · asked by stella 2 in Marriage & Divorce