My ex-girlfriend said she can't talk to me anymore because her new boyfriend told her not to. When we were still going out she talked to every single one of her exes when I asked her not to. I know it shouldn't bother me, I'm definatley over her now, because she just pushed my feelings for her in the other direction. I just wana know if this is because maybe I did something wrong in our relationship or what?
(We promised each other at the beginning of the relationship that if we ever broke up we would still be friends)
2007-01-12 08:11:03 · 26 answers · asked by RKO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fair, no... reality of love, yes... It's sounds as tho she found the one she doesn't mind making the consession for. Which means she probably sees him as THE one.
Move on and don't hang on to the past, no sense dwelling on and/or living with past pain.
2007-01-12 08:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
although I'm a girl myself, I would say it's not fair. But just move on, you wouldn't want a girl like her who is "unfaithful" or something. And by the way, you wouldn't ask this kinda question if you're completely over her.
fact 1 - Why did she talk to her other exes except you when her new boyfriend asks her not to talk to any of them.
fact 2 - She PROMISED you that you and her could still be friends after a broke up.
(note: maybe she just wants you back or something.)
2007-01-12 16:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you made that promise to each other and it didnt happen. You cant blame her new boyfriend for not wanting her to talk to her ex. Thats something you let her do. If you moved on then this shouldnt be a problem.
2007-01-12 16:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did something wrong in your relationship, you told her no talk to her exes, and she still did it and you didnt do anything about it.
Thats why you are his ex,seems like this new guy has more character and personality than you since he forced her to stop talking to you.
So, from now on, start developing your personality so you wont have problems next time...
seems like you werent big friends anyways since she cut you so easily. Hope you accept it and didnt whine about it...indifference to what she does and decision about what you want...thats the key.
2007-01-12 16:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're on the right track letting go of her. She should tell her new b/f to to straight to he** with telling her what to do. Instead, she's fallen into a trap that many of us have at some point in our lives. She'll regret it sooner or later and will have more losses to look back on.
Move on...you don't want a girl who can't respect her own self anyway.
2007-01-12 16:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not fair. No, it's not because you did something wrong. This is happening because her new boyfriend is insecure and controlling, and she's caving to it. She values the relationship with him more than her friendship with you.
Remember this if you start dating someone who demands that you cut off friendships. The friendships are not the relationship that you should be cutting.
2007-01-12 16:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by goicuon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are remarkably hung up on a woman you are supposedly 'definitely over now'. Just deal, why do you want to talk to her anyway? You broke up, remember?
(also, promising to be friends after a break up is complete bullshit, that only happens if neither of you ever loved the other)
2007-01-12 16:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well thiis iis watt ii thiink..sry to say but ii wuz you ii would have cursed her out and then she diidnt liisten to you when you asked her not to talk to her ex's....oh hellz naww...iits eiither she jus reallii diidnt have feeliings for you..her boyfriiend iis too controlliing..or she jus dont want any problems..she knowz watt she didi to you and shes knowz that she wuz wrong..but the thiing iis..diid u notiice any change iin her attiitude?? iif so then thats the reason that she cant talk to you..her boy friiend..does she liike seem wiithdrawn and closed up and shy and quiiet liike a whole diifferent person siince u guyz broke up?? liike iii saiid iif thats the case iits defiinately her new boyfriiend
2007-01-12 16:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by piisces diiamond chiik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to know that someone who does this doesn't usually regard men as more then trophies. If a bigger, shinier one comes around, she'll try to earn it and do her best to keep it, until the cycle happens again. She even likes to talk about her past rewards, in a metaphorical sense. It's good to know that you've gotten over her.
2007-01-12 16:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by Erick W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well she probably likes her new boyfriend a million times better or she just had a distect feeling that told her, you and her couldn't ever be friends or talk!
2007-01-12 16:20:18 · answer #10 · answered by notoriousteen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋