There are these two guys that tease me everyday, they are super peverted and even touch me sometimes, they make up nicknames for me and I think its funny. But latly they have been really nice to me and always want to make sure I dont get mad, I know they dont like me, cause if they did they would ask me out, trust me. I dont necisarily want them to stop, I just want to know why they tease me. And why they are suddenly being nicer, even though they were always kidding. PLEASE ANSWER ME!!!!!!!!
2007-01-12 08:13:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They do not touch me in inapropriote places and it is not reason to tell a teacher. It is all in good natured fun and we are in 8th grade.
2007-01-12 08:23:28 · update #1
There's a couple reasons, they coulda had a change of heart or are still playing with you. Give it time & you'll see.
I personally don't think you should be flattered by pervertedness. You need to start hanging around some different people that don't cross lines. They need to respect you. Which if they are having a change of heart & are being nicer, maybe they won't go there any more. I believe in second chances & more, etc. Just don't feel like you are to blame if they don't do right by your giving them another chance. They are to blame for not growing up and dissing another chance (which is honorable to give to people.) Good Luck!
Plus, if it is inappropriate area touchings, speak up now & say "don't do that!!!!" Don't sugar coat it, be stern, mean it & don't allow it!!!!
2007-01-12 08:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by Nocine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what? even tho i don't know you, i know ur an amazing person and no one should be making fun of you. Try not to fall for their nicenest right away, You just never know. They might just be teasing you cause they're jelous of something, or they though that you weren't as "cool" as them. but don't even let that get to you. Cause they may be 'cool" in their own eye, but what matters is what u think. get help if things are getting too out of control. You'll really appreciate all the great ppl out there who will support you and who don't want anything bad to happen to you. I hope everything goes well!
2007-01-12 08:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not state your age, but I guess from your use of language that you are in some grade of public schooling.
You should immediately tell your teacher(s) and parents. Be prepared to describe, in detail, who touched you , how you were touched, where you were touched, and when the incident happened.
You should do this whether you want to or not as these guys may be dangerous.
2007-01-12 08:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by credo quia est absurdum 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes believe me.. in the adult world.. when a man teases you.. he likes you.. but he won't admit it. He isn't allowed to admit it and most women are turned off by a clingy romantic mushy guy anyway. It's not what they say that matters.. it's what they do. And if they do nice things even though they sound mean.. they really do like you. It's like when little boys pull a girls hair so that they can get her attention.
2007-01-12 08:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by Art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
touching you??? where is this happening? in school, work etc. give more details. email me direct
2007-01-12 08:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im gona go with they like you
u might not think so but guys do that
ya they like you
2007-01-12 08:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by y que?♣ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dunno. I think theyre STARTING to like you.
2007-01-12 08:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by Lina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋