Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

We've been married over 4 years and have two kids. Our sex life has not been "normal" since shortly after we started dating. I've always been like the "man" in the relationship- wanting sex but getting denied! It really hurt my self esteem and finally I gave up trying. Honestly, we have sex about every 6 months. Is that grounds for divorce? Or should I just get some on the side and stay married? Yeah, it sounds horrible but I have confronted him about it before and he has no answer for me. He knows how much it hurts me. About two years ago I met a guy on hotornot.com and actually met up with him (nothing happened) but my husband found out and didn't even care! Around the same time, I found him signed up on some nasty sex site where you go to just hook up with random people. Maybe I'm just an idiot...

2007-01-11 09:37:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay this is about this guy who really likes me but i am not into him in that way. Today he even huged me!! I need to know how to aproch him nicely and tell him i don't like him but i can't find the right words!!

2007-01-11 09:36:42 · 15 answers · asked by 123Tom 2 in Friends

I let my daughter, her boyfriend and their 2 children come and live in my home. This was working out find as long as they were getting things their way. But as soon as I asked for the rent we had agreed to she went off, cursing me out etc. I have given them a 3 day notice to pay rent or quit but now have come to the place of either taking legal action on them (which would make it hard for them to get a place in the future) or just waiting them out. My home is now a miserable place to be. I just want my peace and quite back. By the way, she refuses to just move out, says I have no legal right to make them move and according to Cal law she is right. Help.

2007-01-11 09:36:40 · 22 answers · asked by klmsmom 1 in Family

Do women prefer their partners genitals be fully hairy, shaved, or trimmed? DON'T rate this a bad question because i'm being honest and I want to know what the general consensus is. If you dont like the question, answer me to an adult forum where i CAN ask it and not get people upset. Thank you.

2007-01-11 09:36:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this woman 3 years ago through the local school, we became friends and now we see each other a lot, we have such a good time when were together. The problem I have is that I truly beleive that I love her, I just cant get her off my mind, I just want to hold her and kiss her. She is just getting a divorce from her husband so she needs me a lot at the moment which I'm finding really hard as I feel I just want to tell her how I feel. I have been married many years and love my husband and children very much, but I just dont know what to do as she is all I want.

2007-01-11 09:36:13 · 7 answers · asked by Paula B 1 in Friends

My husband has died few months ago. Now his mistress who he had affair with contesting my life insurance settlement calling herself common-law-wife. Is it even possible to do that??

2007-01-11 09:35:42 · 29 answers · asked by Lekker D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or would you tell the truth to anyone about anything....and be honest,lol...;0)

2007-01-11 09:35:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have alot of guy friends. What do most guys look for in girls? All my guy friends act like I'm also one of their friends that are guys kinda. But the DO know I'm a girl. I'm not a Tomboy around girls...then I'm a girly girl. But when I'm around guys I kindof act like a Tom boy. Do guys like that? ANSWER!

2007-01-11 09:34:27 · 21 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Singles & Dating

It seems that many men get enjoyment out of hurting women. Are there any men who love all a women has to offer them?

2007-01-11 09:34:17 · 14 answers · asked by birdlady4 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been together for two years, lately he's been hanging out with his friends more than me, I mean in a week I'll be with him for like a few hours. I ask him why he says that its not that he doesn't want to spend time with me, he just likes to hang out with his friends. And then when he tells me that he will come over he never shows up, he doesn't even call me to tell me. What should I do, its so hard because I love him.

2007-01-11 09:33:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 09:33:32 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If so, are you currently in a relationship? If not, why or why not? I hope this isn't offensive. My ex-husband is Russian by the way.

2007-01-11 09:33:12 · 2 answers · asked by cats 7 in Singles & Dating

so I was dating a guy for about a month and then he kinda freaked out on me and told me he couldn't see me anymore because he still had feelings for someone... I have started talking to him again, and he was supposed to hangout with me last night... although we had some stormy weather I thought he would at least call. I guess he did this morning... but I feel really excited to see him again. Should I take things slow? Not have expectations??

2007-01-11 09:32:41 · 9 answers · asked by carly_little 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend just had this big fight and he walked out on me he says we need some time apart because we fight all the time I love him (or at least I think I love him) he is being a big jerk now and i just can't take anymore I'm fed up with his lies, and his attitude at times he use to be a really nice guy who always went with me everywhere but now he just goes out with his homeboys or sits at home and watch tv he hardly speaks to me anymore its like he just shuts me out and it hurts so bad that I want to cry my heart out and then he lies to me about going to them strip clubs and watching porn even after i showed him one of his movies I found he claims it wasn't his I feel like he doesn't love me as much as he use to because he doesn't spend time with me at all so now he talking about we need time why does he do this to me what must I do to make things right I really can't take this **** anymore it is driving me crazy should i just give up and leave him or just give him time.

2007-01-11 09:32:33 · 8 answers · asked by Kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

Just broke up with my girlfriend, because she is being controlled by her little brother. Her brother controls who she dates, reads her emails, and since they share a phone he wont let her talk to me. From what I understand her brother was making threats towards her if she gets caught talking to me. Is it possible that a woman can get scared out of a relationship and did I make a mistake by leaving her instead of helping her.

2007-01-11 09:32:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anthony T 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i impress my crush at school?

2007-01-11 09:32:18 · 21 answers · asked by anonymous_xx 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean, it seems alot of people like talking to my younger brother and I don't know why people do like me that much :( IM so sad

2007-01-11 09:32:15 · 16 answers · asked by DarkAaron 1 in Singles & Dating

sry im bored and have nothing to do right now sooo yeah...

2007-01-11 09:32:02 · 16 answers · asked by kaykay 1 in Friends

2007-01-11 09:31:42 · 13 answers · asked by Chriatian IV 3 in Singles & Dating

I was checking out my crush and I think she took notice. Also after class, I saw her starring right in front of me. In computer class, I saw he starring at me again. Is this a sign that she likes me?

I also heard her mention that she likes built guys but she could still be interested in girls.

2007-01-11 09:30:59 · 13 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating

If u check out my other questions u will see that I have gotten myself in some serious trouble messing with a guy who has been out of jail for a year after serving a 6 year sentence. I let things get to outta control and we started making out and he gave me oral sex and asked could he just rub his penis against my vagina. I let him and then asked him to stop after coming back to my senses.
Immediately afterwards I got a sore-throat, I mean like 20 mins later. What could that have been about?

2007-01-11 09:30:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy but he hates me and i dont know if he likes another girl because they have been around together alot. What should i do?

2007-01-11 09:30:23 · 7 answers · asked by Nia P 1 in Singles & Dating

I've developed strong feelings for a friend, and I know he feels the same way about me, but I'm starting to wonder if I'd be making a mistake if we became more than just friends. He wants lots of kids, while I'm at a point in my life where I'm not thinking about children. Maybe I'll change my mind one day, but I doubt I'll want a big family.

I've had trust issues in the past, and though I thought I was past them, I'm starting to wonder whether my concerns are legitimate or whether I'm just trying to run from possible committment?

I feel like this guy is my soulmate, so I don't want to blow it for nothing. What do you think?

2007-01-11 09:30:06 · 3 answers · asked by Afro-Puff 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 09:29:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a 4 yrs. old step-daughter and we have no coustody. her mother has full coustody but we have not seen or heard from her in 3 weeks. we can't even take the little girl to the doctor.for a check-up or anythingshe needs to be in pre-school but her mother pulled her out be cause she had headlise. we have a case worker with family services but they say that it isn't abandenment because she is with her father. i have run out of ideas every one says get a lawyer and fight it but we can't afford that. we are paying her mother $55 a week to take care of her and we have her. that doesn't make since to me. we have heard through friends that she is useing the money for acohol but the courts won't make her prove what she is spending it on because we are a little behind on it. i'm looking for anything that could help our case any.
please help

2007-01-11 09:29:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My aunt is getting ready to be married in july and we were looking at dresses for her and she would like ones with sleeves for here and her bridesmaids.

2007-01-11 09:27:28 · 9 answers · asked by Olivia 3 in Weddings

Ok, there's this guy and he's a friend of mine, He use to look like a geek before winter break happend like he had glasses and he was kinda chubby.
but after winter break he lost weight got eye contacts and died his hair. And he absolutely look hot. He's a nice, Sweet, & funny guy.

But the thing is today i asked him out and he first said he would think about it. But after school he came over my house and he asked if we could go for a walk then i said sure
(i was thinking he was going to say yes)
anyways while we were walking he said stuff that made me laugh and then he said sorry but i dont want to date you, i was soooo heartbroken. i couldnt do anything but run back home so i did. and now i dont know what to do. i like him alot but he doesnt like me. how can i get him to like me ?

2007-01-11 09:27:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but he says he just wants be friends i am so pissed! help!

2007-01-11 09:27:07 · 5 answers · asked by hockeylova#1 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 09:25:29 · 27 answers · asked by snowy-owl@rogers.com 1 in Singles & Dating

My dear beloved thinks im sad cos I sit here answering stupid questions that aren't proper questions. Does anyone else think my husband is a prat? p.s I dont think he understands what a question really is anyway!!!!

2007-01-11 09:25:20 · 63 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce